Dump him, unless you are really into a lifetime of being disappointed and/or emotionally abused. He promises to change, and he doesn't? If this has happened more than once, dump him.
I think that the girlfriend should definitely introduce her boyfriend to her family first.
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No! If they offered, say no politely. If your boyfriend isn't there, you're just going to feel out of place.
No a 6th grader should not be determined to get a boyfriend, she should be more focused on school and passing 6th grade. Finding a boyfriend is not that important, and if you really want a boyfriend wait until you are in high school for that. You are still young and boys are not that important
You should wear casual attire when you meet your boyfriends family for the first time.
If your family is drinking it, you should never guessabout that ! Take a sample to a lab and get it tested so you KNOW how clean (or not) it is.If your family is drinking it, you should never guess about that !Take a sample to a lab and get it tested so you KNOW how clean (or not) it is.
why are you drinking and getting high in the first place? you should get help!
You should be able to talk about everything. A boyfriend should be your best friend as well as your boyfriend. So you should be able to talk about planes, cars, girls, boys, family, friends, and everything inbewteen.
no. at least not on the first holiday together. this should just be a time for your boyfriend to become part of your family. also if you do break up, then your family might still like to hang out with his family, and that could cause some unwanted drama
Stay away from him everytime he's drunk, or that you see he'll start drinking. Don't wait till he starts, get away before he does. I'm not kidding, I know this from personal experience. My boyfriend eventually realized I am more important than booze! He either needs to stop drinking or get help with his abuse issues. If he doesn't, you need to get away from him. It will only get worse and you can be seriously hurt. == Dump him. Trust me!
Go back home and live your young life with your family, then live with your boyfriend after you are married.
Be grateful you didn't marry into that messed up family. Send her a thank you note, because you found out just in time that your boyfriend is spineless and allows his family to manipulate him.