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If that happens to me, it will break my heart and I will have tons of question why my husband betrayed me. It will also tell me that my husband doesn't really love me if he can't wait till I get back home from the trip.
follow him every where..try to offer him sex..if he does not accept it...then keep trying
Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark. Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
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It is not always wise to believe gossip. It could have happened, but unless you know this woman's husband you don't know if he's the jealous type or thinks his wife is cheating with every man she talks too. Have a discussion with her husband and ask what proof he has. If he has no proof and you obviously want to get to the bottom of this mess the hire a private investigator to find out if your husband and his wife are having an affair.
I would do some snooping around. The worst that you can find out is that he is and if he is I'd just dump him right there.
The question shouldn't be 'is it wise to tell my husband I'm having an affair,' but why are you having the affair? If life is too intolerable for you living with your husband then have the guts to face it and not hurt his feelings by being irresponsible and selfish by hurting his feelings because one day he will find out. Once you have broken that bond of trust then in many cases there is no salvaging the marriage. Put yourself in his shoes. You are having an affair because something is missing in your marriage and neither you or your husband appear to have made much of an effort to communicate better or get marriage counseling. Wives or husbands can always go for separation and strike out on their own to clear their minds as to what they really do want in life. By having this affair you are not going to fill the hole you feel in yourself and it could lead to other affairs. It is up to you to decide if you continue the affair behind your husband's back, but if you do be prepared for the reality you could be losing someone very precious in your life.
Maybe he is just trying to get the feeling back because of his alleged impotence. If you were getting a divorce in the first place why are you worry about his having an affair?
You have gone there to work. That means the country is well developed. You can decide to continue or get the pregnancy terminated.
If your husband has never had an affair before this then no, you should not leave him. Some men 40 plus go through 'Andropause' (some men different than others) which is similar to women's menopause. The man can be moody; depressed and feels old and would like to reach back into his past to see if he is still attractive to the opposite sex and all the while they are unaware of what an affair will do their wife if she should find out. Although cheating is never right 'to err is human.' If you and your husband can sit down and communicate to improve your marriage or see a marriage counselor that is better than ending 30 years of marriage. There are many people who have gone through what you are going through and their marriage has become stronger.
he's not going to change leave him and find a person who makes you feel special and loved every second of the day
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