I had a hard time finding this relay also. I went to the Ford Dealer and looked it up in the service manual. The fuel pump relay is the one in fuse box by the battery; the relay is located top right(green nf02) listed on cover as circuit relay.
In the fuse panel in the engine compartment Relay # 21 is the fuel pump relay on a 1996 Ford Probe ( Helpfull )
Were do I locate the fuel filter on a 1993 Ford probe 4 cylinder
it is located inside the fuel tank
in the fuel tank
if you look under the hood in the main fuse panel. you will see a green relay marked circuit relay. that's the one you are looking for.
In the fuse box, under the hood, behind the battery. It will be a green relay. Maybe this will help : http://mysree.wordpress.com/2007/12/11/fuse-diagrams-and-specs-for-1994-ford-probe-gt-v6/
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Fuel relay is found under the dash next to the clutch pedal.
Because it's a Ford.
fuel relay switch on 2004 ford ranger 4.0
Where is the fuel pump relay on a ford puma
Front seating area, driver side, behind dash, driver side of steering column, mounted in relay block