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Why does it feel so bad that your ex abuser no longer contacts you and is in a new relationship?
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∙ 16y ago
Because you are human, far more than he ever was. Be thankful that it is over and you have been the chance to find true love for real. This man was not right for you.
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Is it normal to be upset that an ex abuser is in a new relationship when you feel that he should suffer the same lonliness that you are?
yup. but you should get over him.
I feel happy when ex contacts but when he doesn't I feel really sad Why n what could be the reason he stopped n I cant ask that cause it might be wrong to?
You two are no longer together and realistically he has not ties to you, does not owe you anything and does not have to contact you - you are ex's. I realize you may be sad but the fact of the matter is you are no longer in a relationship and it seems he is moving on and so should you.
Why would a abuser live with the first person he meets after you end the relationship with him?
Because he is a user and needs a new "victim" to abuse to make himself feel superior again.
Was your abuser really that bad if you feel worse without him?
Abusers are bad. Period. It is common for someone who has been abused to feel lonely when the abuser becomes absent, but it is because of the stress of change. If you feel yourself running back to your abuser, get help. The situation will only escalate otherwise.
How do you know for sure hes an abuser?
you can tell after any dispute whether it be an argument or a physical fight.If at thee end you feel hurt,down,disrespected,or violated.you are in an abusive relationship
Why does a woman reconcile after three attempts to leave an abusive relationship?
Because the abuser makes the victim feel like they are and will be nothing without them. Its all about brainwashing, and making the victim fell dependant upon the abuser. No one should EVER stay in an abusive relationship, not even for the kids. That is the worst mistake someone could make. Abuser prey on the weak minded, however no one has to be weak minded, they ust have to learn how to survive on their own, and surviving on your own is possible.
Can there be true love in an abusive relationship?
No. absolutely not. If you are being abused the person who is abusing you does not truly love you. the Abuser makes you feel responsible for his/her actions. therefore making you believe you are in love with that person.
Will my boyfriend be an abuser if he yells at his mom?
Answer:The Boyfriend might become an abuser, but in the long run he will learn from his mistakes and i believe no, he will not become an abuser, if you feel like your being abused walk away =3
When in a relationship how do you know when it is time to move on?
When you no longer feel a chemistry towards the person, when you feel bored or find excuses not to see them or spend time with them.
How would a person feel if the least important relationship was no longer a part of their life?
Least important relationship - most people would barely notice.
Why do people stay in abusive relationship?
Several different reasons. One could be because the abuser has such a hold on the abused that they stay because they think that the abuser is the only person that will want them. There is also fear that if the abused left the abuser would hunt them down and make them pay for leaving in the first place. If you asked 10 different abused people why they stay (stayed) in they're abusive relationships I can almost promise you'll get 10 different answers. In some cases the abused person believes that she/he can fix the abuser, or for complex reasons might even feel guilt about leaving the abuser.
Can you trust an abuser to honor agreements?
Generally , no you cannot. An abuser by nature is not trustworthy. When someone abuses you, they tell you right there that you are less. They lie and blame to make you think that you are responsible for the abuse- you made them do it. They seem to be able to treat everyone else, including strangers, better than you. Abuse is a vicious cycle. The abuser may mask the problem for a while and get you to feel comfortable in the relationship but the cycle will always kick in again because the reason they abuse is always there in their own head. Remember that ab abuser must always try to control, intimidate and manipulate you so they will agree to anything just to fool you into staying in the relationship. You need to seek professional advice to help you understand why you accept that kind of treatment and how you can move on with your life without the abuser.
