Abusers are bad. Period. It is common for someone who has been abused to feel lonely when the abuser becomes absent, but it is because of the stress of change. If you feel yourself running back to your abuser, get help. The situation will only escalate otherwise.
it depends really if you feel really bad then yes but if you feel up to going out then do so but really you don't want to risk it getting any worse
Answer:The Boyfriend might become an abuser, but in the long run he will learn from his mistakes and i believe no, he will not become an abuser, if you feel like your being abused walk away =3
Abuse shouldn't happen but it happens. Most people tell themselves that the person will change, but they rarely do. My advice is to stay away from the abuser. They don't deserve you if they abuse you. Plus the person may get more violent and seriously hurt you or worse. ACW
I was dealing with one myself and the only choice I had was to stop hiding. Usually in a abusive environment, the abuser will force you not to tell. The only obvious answer is to do exactly the opposite of what the abuser tells you. Make sure you do it when your alone and when he won't find out. If the abuser is in physical contact with you then you should tell police or a person you trust that can do it for you( without the abuser knowing). Get out of the house, if you have children then get them out as well, go to a friend/ family member that the abuser doesn't know about. If the abuser knows all your family members and friends then go to a hotel ( bring money ) and make sure there is no trace of evidence that the abuser will pick up and know your there. Once at the hotel, call the police. If your married then tell someone how you feel about your abusive partner and consider a divorce.
I am not sure if it's love that they are feeling. Abuse is a cycle that is really hard to break. Love is something healty and kind and there is no love in an abusive relationship. I believe that both parties can care about each other. For the abuser they are in love with the control they have over their partner. As far as the partner is concerned, they have a very low self esteem and feel like the abuser is their whole life and that they cannot make it without them. Both people are co-dependent and it is hard for either of them to end the cycle they have become so used to.
sometimes a verbal abuser can be consider a sociopath they get involve and like the dirty talk and begin to make them feel and enjoy group talk that is abusive.
Banishment is worse than death to Romeo because at least with death he does not have to suffer whereas if he is banished he does not think he can bear being without Juliet.
Just be yourself :)
of course. that's why abuse is so horrible. Kids feeling "strangely loyal" to their abuser is like woman not leaving their significant other when they abuse her.
yes: their virginity counts you sexual abuser!
They can, but it's not smart to stay with them either way. If you feel that you love them and must stay with them, sign him/her up for anger management. Even if the abuser loves you it is time for you to leave. It may be one of the hardest things you have to do. It will probably hurt badly for a long time. But it is the safe and self loving thing to do. If there are kids involved get out now.
They feel what the person who they abused feel though it's sad but it's true.But they then they know how it feels and learn to stop it and not to do it again.
Because the abuser makes the victim feel like they are and will be nothing without them. Its all about brainwashing, and making the victim fell dependant upon the abuser. No one should EVER stay in an abusive relationship, not even for the kids. That is the worst mistake someone could make. Abuser prey on the weak minded, however no one has to be weak minded, they ust have to learn how to survive on their own, and surviving on your own is possible.
if that guy or girl dosent love you back you feel really upset and it will make it even worse if he/she alredy has a girlfriend/boyfriend
no not really because it is not punishment and just makes people feel worse... i think people should just kiss each other instead:)
don't text them about how you feel. that will make matters worse. talk to them face to face and tell them the facts and how you feel about the problem. i had a problem that a friend did something really really bad. so that's what i did to solve it. hope this helps solve problems you have between your friends. :)
With therapy, yes. It takes dedication and a real desire to stop the abuse.AnswerYes, but they do not want to. In their minds, they love control. With abusing a person comes control with all its benefits. These types doubt their masculinity and control makes them feel in charge and powerfull. The abuser has everyone at his mercy, he gets things his way. For example, an abuser can skip you birthday sometimes without any real conflict. The victim is worn down and afraid to speak up and if she does it gets shoved down her throat! The abuser therefore, does not have to bother with anything that requires getting off the couch.
yup. but you should get over him.
Smoking does not cause depression directly, but it can make you feel worse. Nicotine is a stimulant drug which causes you to feel jittery and anxious. If you already have some symptoms of depression, adding these on top of it can make you feel much worse.In addition, you are probably running yourself down for having such an unhealthy habit, and that makes you feel worse also!
I've made that mistake before. You should tell them how you really feel instead of making the situation worse.
usually a dull throbbing pain that hurts without stimuli and gets progressivly worse more sensitive to hot and cold will usually make it feel better, especially right after something hot
no, It can make you feel worse
It affects the abuser emotionally because they might be that animasl best friend and later they will feel guilty. they also have to take into acount the consequences that could come with the fact of just abusing the animal and possibly killing it.
Yes, it is as long as you stay true to your word and really think about it. Then get back to them when you have your final answer! You don't have to feel guilty for saying no. M ---- any people feel worse if they say yes....hahha
Unfortunately you cannot always make that happen. You cannot force someone to feel something that they don't feel. You can express the pain you felt physically and emotionally during the abuse. But that is about it. You cannot force someone to feel sorry for something if they aren't sorry. It would make a lot of things easier if you could though but it is just something that your abuser will have to figure out for him/her self.