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Was your abuser really that bad if you feel worse without him?
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∙ 17y ago
Abusers are bad. Period. It is common for someone who has been abused to feel lonely when the abuser becomes absent, but it is because of the stress of change. If you feel yourself running back to your abuser, get help. The situation will only escalate otherwise.
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Is natural to feel sad and go back to your abuser even when you have left them?
Abuse shouldn't happen but it happens. Most people tell themselves that the person will change, but they rarely do. My advice is to stay away from the abuser. They don't deserve you if they abuse you. Plus the person may get more violent and seriously hurt you or worse. ACW
Is it OK to sometimes regret the decision to leave the abuser?
Regret is a feeling. If you feel regret, and you probably will sometimes, you have no real control over that. You can repress a feeling but you cannot change it. It is always ok to feel whatever you really feel, even when it would be a bad idea to act on the feeling. We often tend to idealize the past, feel nostalgic, forget the abuser's bad traits and offending conduct and remember the "good old times".
Will my boyfriend be an abuser if he yells at his mom?
Answer:The Boyfriend might become an abuser, but in the long run he will learn from his mistakes and i believe no, he will not become an abuser, if you feel like your being abused walk away =3
Why do people feel love for their abusers?
I am not sure if it's love that they are feeling. Abuse is a cycle that is really hard to break. Love is something healty and kind and there is no love in an abusive relationship. I believe that both parties can care about each other. For the abuser they are in love with the control they have over their partner. As far as the partner is concerned, they have a very low self esteem and feel like the abuser is their whole life and that they cannot make it without them. Both people are co-dependent and it is hard for either of them to end the cycle they have become so used to.
Is a verbal abuser considered a sociopath?
sometimes a verbal abuser can be consider a sociopath they get involve and like the dirty talk and begin to make them feel and enjoy group talk that is abusive.
How do you tell a boy how you really feel without being shy?
Just be yourself :)
If an employer accuses you of stealing and fires you do they have to tell you what they feel you stole?
yes: their virginity counts you sexual abuser!
Why does a woman reconcile after three attempts to leave an abusive relationship?
Because the abuser makes the victim feel like they are and will be nothing without them. Its all about brainwashing, and making the victim fell dependant upon the abuser. No one should EVER stay in an abusive relationship, not even for the kids. That is the worst mistake someone could make. Abuser prey on the weak minded, however no one has to be weak minded, they ust have to learn how to survive on their own, and surviving on your own is possible.
What happens when the abuser becomes the abused?
They feel what the person who they abused feel though it's sad but it's true.But they then they know how it feels and learn to stop it and not to do it again.
What is the Problem with being too in love?
if that guy or girl dosent love you back you feel really upset and it will make it even worse if he/she alredy has a girlfriend/boyfriend
How do you work out problems with friends?
don't text them about how you feel. that will make matters worse. talk to them face to face and tell them the facts and how you feel about the problem. i had a problem that a friend did something really really bad. so that's what i did to solve it. hope this helps solve problems you have between your friends. :)
Is it normal to be upset that an ex abuser is in a new relationship when you feel that he should suffer the same lonliness that you are?
yup. but you should get over him.
