Why does your husband act more like a father to you rather than a husband?

It can depend on the age difference. If you are closer to the same age perhaps you should be looking inward at yourself and ask yourself just how independent you are and do you look towards your husband for answers to every problem you have. Are you independent enough to have other interests of your own (going out with girlfriends, sports, etc.) Can you make decisions or do you expect him to make them? It sounds like you act like a daughter looking at him for answers and decisions so you're treated this way. If what I have said doesn't fit your profile then start communicating and sit down and ask your husband why he treats you like this. Let him know (nicely) that you don't care for this and would like to make some of your own decisions and do a little more on your own steam.