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Why is it wrong if your married lover falls in love with his mistress?
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∙ 13y ago
Because he's MARRIED. You have no rightful place in this marriage. If he fell in love with you while married, he should divorce his wife before having sex with someone else. You might want to consider this man is telling his lover he's IN love with her to keep her compliant. He 's already lying [by cheating] to his wife , so I can't see why he would hesitate to lie to his mistress as well.
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In addition with Ms. MontanaMom response, most married men will do and say anything to get that needs because their wives finally got tired of pleasing them without them pleasing the wives. So my dear if you are smart, men lies every time and if you are really hungry for love and attention you are helping this man destroy the lives of his wife and family.
Nothing is wrong if some married man falls for the other person, just like from my own personal experience, the man that I married fell in love with thie woman he met on a dating site, ditto! yes she was also still married then, so when I found out his love affairs, I didn't have a problem to make a decision, he loves his mistress, so he needs to get away from me and our children. No more 3rd chances, like the old saying is, " one is enough, two is to much, and 3 is poison already. Get on with your life and find a man who is not married.
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Is it wrong for a mistress to get back at a married man for hurting her to prove a point?
No Because He Hurt You Just Tu Prove A Point ,That Is SoDumb, He Couldv Spared You The Lies. ANSWER: Yes it is wrong because she is not the wife, only the part time mistress. But knowing who she is and what she can't have, getting back to his married lover is the one she is pursuing. Remember she was also part of what happen and she didn't like the ending of the relationship. Now are there mistresses that do such things when her relationship end from her married lover, YES there are and I experience it. The woman that my husband had an affair with are still bothering me, even it's been 3 years now. In a way I do understand her because the man I marry fell in love with her and she also. I didn't know what they talk and planned about but it was crystal clear that she also got hurt by him.
I am married. Is it wrong to chat with a former lover on Facebook?
No, provided your married partner knows about it and approves of it.----------It may not be wrong, but it's probably not very smart, unless the relationship you have with your husband and the relationship that exists between you and your ex-lover are way more evolved than the average relationship.Its not wrong if your partner is ok with it. But its not the smartest thing that you could be doing. Your partner could get jealous and talking to this former lover could make you ''think about him'' and get unhappy with your current partner. Leave old loves in the past...There not part of your Future.Miz Blonde
Is the mistress wrong for sleeping with him?
What if, as the mistress, you found out that the man is also taking another mistress on the side? How would you feel? Suddenly, you're not special. Suddenly, you realize that this man just doesn't know how to be faithful. So, is it wrong for thatmistress to be sleeping with him? If so, why?
How mistress ruin the relationship of husband and wife?
mistress can be a big ruiner to good relationships. ANSWER: Yes a mistress is part of a broken family between man and his wife. Unfortunately it's not all the mistress ( sorry I am a wife), fault and start the messing around but the married man is. Reality check here, married men are the one that search or look for other person we called mistress. Some mistress are single, some are married but still become the other woman. Because we love our husband most of us will blame the other woman, for ruining our safe, normal, and comfortable life. It is wrong because its our husband who started all. It's our husband that meet the other woman, hide the relationship, and yes having a second life away from us. The only thing we can say to those women who are having an affair to a married men is learn to say no._" No thank you, your are married " and I deserve to meet a single man.
Why is it wrong for a man to have a mistress because the law won't let him have a second wife?
Because when you ask a woman to marry you it is because you love her and only her. When you get married you give all your love to that one person only with the promise to be faithful. If you can not do that then you shouldn't be married, or you should not be married and just date different woman. That is unless you could have an open relationship with your partner where you see other people too. I believe that if you have the first woman's permission to date another woman then it shouldn't be wrong. Some women are into threesomes, some aren't. If your current wife is into these things then nothing is wrong, but if she isn't into it or doesn't know about you having a mistress, then shame on you!
Why would a married man that got caught cheating and feels so bad about hurting the people around him tell his mistress he doesn't regret doing it?
Maybe because when he is with the mistress, he really doesn't regret it, at the time anyway. After he has his fun, that little voice in his head tells him he was wrong. Just an idea.
Why would a Married man who got caught cheating still talk to the mistress?
The man is married with children! It is the mistress that is in the wrong and he's wrong for cheating on his wife. He is not using his children as an excuse. Most men simply use a mistress for sex and if the mistress thinks she will win him over then she is in for a big surprise. Most men go back to their wives or at the very least find their freedom if their wife should leave them because of the cheating and they may see several women and not commit to one of them. In this case this married man realizes what he has done to not only his wife, but his children and he has a lot to lose (disrespect in the future by his own children; financial loss) and no mistress to most men is worth that.
When it comes to adultery the other woman's side?
The 'other woman' is the mistress and she has no business seeing another woman's husband no matter what the married man says is wrong with the marriage so there is 'no other side' for the other woman. If he is so unhappy he can separate or divorce from his wife and has no excuses for cheating. Some men use the other woman for a sexual relationship and at first some men may actually feel they are in love with her, but it is generally pure physical attraction and the excitement of someone new in their life. The mistress is left thinking she is the one and only in the married man's life, but there is a very low percentage of a married man ever marrying his mistress. The mistress is generally used as an end result and hurt and left alone in the end or, used by the married man.
Is it wrong to fall in love according to bible?
to fall in love is not wrong according to bible. But at the same time, to have sex with your lover before marriage is a sin. Sex is the gift to humans from God which should take place only between married couples
If the married man you we're messing around with knew it was wrong and was feeling guilty about it but kept on doing it with u 20 times gets caught but tells his mistress he doesnt regret it why not?
Because he knows it felt good
Can you have a lover and stay married to someone else?
it is possible, buts its wrong. if you love your wife or husband you wouldn't want to hurt them, and if they found out you had a lover they would almost certainly be hurt. if you were to go ahead and have a lover on the side you have to ask yourself whether you want to be married to that person. it almost always ends badly and if theres children involved i would definetly advise against it. . . gemma. gsevern_derby_@hotmail.co.uk-if you would like to argue your thoughts x x x
Why do some married men think that you are jealous with regards his mistress if you are just feeling anger?
The truth of the matter is that when a married man cheats on his wife and has a mistress the wife of course will be hurt and angry, but she is also humiliated and jealous because she is wondering what she did wrong and that her husband finds another woman more attractive than her. The thought of another woman sleeping with her husband is extremely hurtful. Anger and jealousy in this case go hand in hand.
