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== == * It's possible, but it's usually the narcissist that calls the shots and he'd be the one to have the affair behind your back. Narcissists are so ego-maniacal they wouldn't hesitate to shove you right out the front door with just the clothes on your back if that's what they wanted. Be smart and if you're married see a lawyer and get what is rightfully yours. If you aren't married then start looking for a place of your own to live (don't let him have your address or new phone #) and YOU walk! == == * My ex Narcisistic husband had an affair, but asked me to tell people that I was the unfaithful one so that people would not think badly of him!

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Q: Would a narcissist want and maybe even drive his wife to have an affair if he wants to get out of the marriage and does not want to look like the bad guy?
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