The real question in that situation is not whether the husband wants to make the marriage work, but whether the wife does. It's probably best not to make any hasty decisions.
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That's right, some wives could continued sleeping with their husband after affairs, because even the husband was having the affair, he still sleeping with his wife so she wouldn't noticed something is going on. And some don't or can't and I was one of them who couldn't. My reason was he never thought of using protection, and I don't think I could handle that if he caught some stupid transmitted disease from his mistress then. But one thing I do know that he told me when we were dating, he told me that when he love the woman his dating he never use no protection during intimacy because he knows that will be the woman he wanted in his life. I was glad that he told me this, it did help me not to be foolish when it comes to going back just to have intimacy with him.
My decision was also base on how I felt and I'm glad I did, because I already forgave him the very first time when he betrayed me, and I think that is enough for me to give this man a chance. Second reason was I found out his mistress then was medicating herself from catching STD from her boyfriend. Yeah it's a sweet revenge because after they stop seeing each others, I found out she had a boyfriend while seeing the man I married..
this behavior would definitely be considered cheating on your husband.
1- Because she does not want her husband knows about her. And moreover she pretends like she loves her husband but she does not!!! 2- She really want to sleep again with her outside boy friend but she could not find time and she just try with her husband but keep imagin to her boy friend like she is sleeping with him when closing her eyes. 3- she is really a slut. She should tell her husband the truth that she love to try to play this game with threesome.
Well.... as i woman i wouldn't sleep with my husband after knowing that he cheated on me. Partners are suppose to love, trust, and respect each other, and cheating on someone is disrespecting and insulting this person. If you cheated on your wife with another woman you can try to apologize an start all over (if you are truly sorry). ANSWER: From my own experience, it was hard. I know every wives are different, every mistress are different as well. But to know how the man that I married felt towards his mistress, it was very hard for me, because I'm not sure if he is making love to his mistress and not me. This part of my relationship with the man that I married was damage. It stays in my head and it didn't help me for a long time. Finding out that his mistress was carrying STD, it adds up, I felt so dirty, humiliated because I found out that he didn't used protection during sex with her. It all depends on the husband if he can really be honest and help you.
Dolly Parton would never cheat on her Husband Carl Dean. Just because she likes to Flirt doesn't mean she would cheat on her Husband.
My husband yawn's. scratches and sighs in his sleep!!
nope....I waited to sleep with my now narcissistic ex- husband...I left the marriage after 20 years of abuse. Still cheated on me from day one. I didn't know about the cheating until some years later. He was cheating and whoring around since I wasn't giving in until marriage. Not sleeping with him only caused him to marry me. My life is full of regret now....
he has someone better
You sleep with the mailman.
Let him sleep it off
Just because your husband cheated on you doesn't make two wrongs right. Meaning, you should have had more dignity and pride in yourself not to lower yourself and cheat with another man. The fact you did sleep with another man and he had a girlfriend is selfish; inconsiderate and a red flag you need to grow up. Talk to your husband about cheating; know how strong you are as an individual and let him know that you are not putting up with his cheating. If he continues to do so then it's time to end the marriage.
It means you love and miss your husband.
It means you can sleep easily at night knowing you have a clear conscience.