You are married to a guy a little younger then you he never takes you to his parents house for barbecues he never takes you to hang out with his friends even if they are couples why is he so secretive?

Answer 1

Hopefully you met these people before the marriage, if not that would have been your first clue to a problem. If you have met them and he doesnt take you with him when he goes, maybe that is not where he is going. If he refuses to take you when he goes, then there is definitely something wrong. Do you have anyone's phone number when he does go to these places and call to see if he is there. This is strange, because he should be proud to have you by his side and show the unity between the two of you. YOu need to ask this and get a straight answer, if it doesnt change, you may need to reevaluate your marriage, this is not how it should be.