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Your wife has been calling you a thief even tho no thefts are occurring I could take no more of her accusing and I called her An Accusing Bitch She now calls you a Abuser isn't she the Abuser?
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∙ 8y ago
Instead of getting to the root of your wife's problem you have only ended up being an abuser as well and it's called 'verbal abuse.' Tempers flare and I can see why your temper did. However there are some causes for reactions from a wife:
- Take a good hard look at yourself first and see what other problems there may be in your marriage. Are you arguing all the time; contemplating separation or divorce; perhaps cheating. (Not accusing either of you of this.)
- If your wife is 40 plus she could be going into peri menopause and hormones rage. Although it's unusual for a wife to accuse her husband of theft even during these trying times hormones can and do change a woman's personality.
- If your wife is 40 plus and not have a period she would be in menopause that can cause depression, hot flashes, memory loss, aggression and a change in personality. There are natural Hormone Replacement medications and also Hormone Replacement Therapy that can help.
- Some medications can cause a change in personality and even cause anger outbursts or aggression. If your wife is on medications jot down the name and look it up on the internet for side effects.
- 50 or older it could be Dementia (Alzheimer's Disease) and just the start of it.
You do have the right to go to your family physician and discuss these problems with him/her and decide on a course of action. Suggest to your wife that BOTH of you should go in for a good physical (after you have talked to your family doctor so he/she has a clue as to what is happening with your wife and can diagnose her. If you do it this way you aren't accusing her of having something wrong with her because she will only get on the defensive.
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If it is not true then why get annoyed. If someone is accusing you falsely then that is slander and defamation. See a lawyer.
Teasing verbal abuse?
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That is not abuse. At least, from this question it does not sound like it. It sounds like a normal argument that sometimes happens in day to day life. Abuse is a pattern of derogatory comments over a period of time which are given to make you feel lower about yourself and so that the abuser can control you. I think that you are over-reacting to the situation. Just tell your accuser that you haven't taken anything and that s/he can believe what ever they want. Make sure they know that you honestly don't care what they think, then forget about it and move on. If they are obsessed with this then it is something that they need to let go off. It is no longer your problem.
I left my abuser alone but he wont leave me alone he always breaking into my home?
I recommend calling the police and putting cameras. Hope it fixes your problem bud.
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There are many ways a woman can be physically abused that do not include hitting. http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm#definition
When was Love Your Abuser created?
Love Your Abuser was created on 2007-01-30.
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Give him time. He will.
When was Love Your Abuser Remixed created?
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