Are there any dating services for narcissist survivors?

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OMG. No. Why would you WANT that? Why would you want a relationship based on something bad from your past? Hopefully you don't think that by dating a narcissist Survivor you'll never be hurt again. It doesn't work that way. Studies have shown that if you are in a room of 100 people, approximately 3 will be narcissists. So, chances are you WON'T meet the narcissist. But yes, it happens sometimes. DO NOT drag issues from past relationships to your new relationships! If you find yourself telling a new date early on that you've been hurt, or abused, or that you need to take it slow or whatever because of the last relationship then you are NOT ready to date! Trust me on this. It's okay to be alone for awhile. Work on YOU. Heal and get better and give the next person a chance without assuming they are going to hurt you or assuming they are a narcissist. You know the signs of narcissim so you're better equipped to see the "red flags" now. But you have to at least be ready and willing to give the next person a chance. My opinion? Stay away from dating services altogether. God will send you the person you're supposed to be with. It won't be tomorrow but maybe that's because you're possibly not ready. But you *will* meet someone. ~ T thanks t Sounds like you're still a little tender. You need someone who is loving. Try to be brave and let someone in without being freaked out by the kindness. You're probably comfortable (strange as it may seems) with being mistreated. Don't identify so much with the person that hurt you... this person is gone. Just look nice when you go out and open your heart up to meeting someone. It could happen at a coffee shop, a bar, a cultural event, walking your dog, the grocery store...college. You're good enough for normal and goodhearted sweethearts. If you're not good enough... then you don't need to be dating because you still think what the ex-narcissist wants you to think: that you're disappointing. Just take deep breaths, and understand that there are people out there who are good people and you deserve to be with a good person as much as anyone. Do not allow the ex narcassist to have any power of you. By wanting another narsassist survivior its saying i am a victim. Do not let him dicate how you will percieve yourself and others for the rest of your life.