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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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What are the cons of having a mistress?
a few things to consider:
- Being exposed to STD's HIV, herpes, chlamydia, syphilis genital warts, gonnorhea, crab lice, etc.. keep in mind if she if she is willing to be a "mistress" you may not be the only one... so you may be exposed to more than you think. If she is willing to keep your relationship a secret it may mean she has many other secrets you don't know about (other guys, girls , diseases, etc...)
- She could expose private info about you to friends, co workers or family members. Secret photos emails letter, gifts.
- She could blackmail you.
- She could have emotional/mental issues which make her a serious threat to you, your children, wife, and family members.
- She could disrupt your employment and you could lose your job.
- Most women don't take kindly to "intruders/competitors"...you could lose your wife, your home, custody of your children if your wife chooses to divorce you.
- If she is mentally unstable she could even hurt your wife and family physically.
- If your state has adultery laws you could find yourself at a disadvantage in divorce court and the court might favor your wife in custody, property, child support, alimony , etc...
- You could lose your car, home, boat, motorcycle, dog, health insurance, children's college fund, inheritances, credit rating, etc..
- If your state has a alienation of affection law your wife could sue your mistress for damages.
- Statistically people who have lots of secrets, have high stress and live shorter lives ( heart attacks, stokes)
- You and/or the mistress could be accused of wrongdoing, murder, vandalism, domestic violence even if you never did anything (hell hath no fury like a wife scorned? or maybe a mistress scorned?)
- there is no future with the mistress...I mean think about it...If she is willing to cheat and hide and sneak around with you, you don't think she might cheat, hide and sneak around on you if you married her? You will always doubt her. And of course if you get a divorce and marry the mistress she is no longer your mistress...now she is your wife! (then everything changes)
- And of course the flip side... can she ever trust you? You cheated on your wife to be with her?
- You lose the respect of your children.
- You hurt your children
- And you disrespected them (you disrespected, and cheated on their mom whom they love, don't you think they will feel disrespected too?).
- You lose the trust of your children...if you did this to mom, what about them? would you cheat them, lie to them, hide things from them I mean you said you loved mom too right and you lied to her?
- You probably will lose the respect of your family ( parents, in laws, siblings etc)
- You lose respect of your mistress (after all you never really had it) and any future in laws there. if you did marry her
- You lose self respect
- You discredit yourself...your being deceptive, so your spouse and children wont accept your credibility as a spouse or parent.
- You could get her pregnant which brings new dillema's...birth, abortion, support, explaining this to your wife, kids, family, and of course the child itself if it is born.
- Maybe feeling shame ...ashamed of your self, the mistress, or the possible child...
- If she is married or has a boyfriend ( You might not even know) you might find yourself in danger of her hubby wanting to beat you, kill you, expose you, destroy your life, reputation, career or even sue you ( alienation of affection)
- A mistress consumes money, time and energy you could put towards improving yourself, your marriage, your business, your career, your children's future.
- Your children may accept that this is a good example for them and their marriage
- Your grandchildren lives may be affected if your children follow your example.
- Eventually you'll probably get bored with her. ( the relationship isn't progressing, it has no direction)
- Depending on your moral beliefs you might even find your self compromised in the after life if you believe in one.
Why candidates should not cheat in an examination?
because you will end up not learning and could be jailed or dismiss from college it can also tarnish your image as a person
Look at it this way. There's friendly nice people on earth right? But there's also dangerous, mean and hateful people as well.
I believe it is the same. There are good, kind and friendly aliens, then there are mean, dangerous aliens.
Why would a Husband hides money in his car?
Probably he's saving some for a surprised birthday gift. Or in other cases, he's running low on cash for his personal needs, to buy other stuffs. It's very unlikely that that money is used on another woman.
My Husband has ptsd. why does this lead him to have multiple affairs?
There's no correlation between the two.
That said, if he is self-medicating his PTSD with alcohol, or another drug that acts as a dis-inhibitor, then there would be a likely increase in behavior that is impulsive or inappropriate.
Do young girls have intrests in being a older mans mitress?
How older married men finds a young mistress
How do you know when your boyfriend is cheating on you and you only communicate through email?
- If this is a long distance relationship then that statistics are low where the two remain and boyfriend and girlfriend. Humans need to touch or see the person they love and emails simply don't cut it. You have no way of knowing if your boyfriend is cheating on you and he may feel you might be cheating on him. Perhaps you could phone him and discuss this problem with him, but he could well lie to you. It is wiser to have a relationship with someone you find attractive that lives near you and you can see each other several times during the week. There is a special person out there for you, but it takes patience to wait until you do meet that person.
You found condom in trunk of boyfriends car with expiration date 122011 when did he buy this?
Typically it is 5 years after manufacture, so from about the end of December 2006.
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When it comes to that stuff ( condom) I don't know anything about the expiration date. The question is why are you so interested in the date. If you found this in your boyfriend's car trunk, then he probably use it, or maybe not but it might have some kind of story behind that condom you found. A little advice this happened to me before from the man I married. I had found a condom inside his car, but there's a lot of story he gave me including my own daughter. Never forget it because that was the start of my question, which was he was having affairs already but not having sex yet, that's what he said, Ditto right?
What should you do when your ex wants you back but your boyfriend is great to you?
It is important to consider your own happiness and the reasons why you broke up with your ex in the first place. If your current boyfriend is treating you well and making you happy, it may be best to stay with him. However, have an open and honest conversation with both your ex and current boyfriend to communicate your feelings and make a decision that aligns with your own values and emotions.
Dealing with someone who is struggling with depression and trust issues can be challenging. It's important to be patient, understanding, and supportive. Encourage your boyfriend to seek professional help, such as a therapist or counselor, who can provide guidance and assistance in managing his depression and trust issues. Additionally, open and honest communication, reassurance, and consistency can help rebuild trust over time.
Engaging in an affair is generally not illegal, as it is a personal choice between adults. However, in some cases, actions like adultery can be considered grounds for a fault-based divorce, depending on local laws. Legal consequences may vary depending on the jurisdiction and specific circumstances, but generally, it is up to the individuals involved to address the situation through communication and seeking appropriate legal advice if necessary.
What to tell a guy who cheats on you?
- When someone cheats on you it means they don't love you and you should tell this guy to hit the bricks and don't look back. You can do much better than him. If you stay with him under these conditions you will miss the chance of finding that special person that should be in your life in the future.
Get a lawyer now. In some states I think you could be as responsible as your husband for the mortgage. Don't forget to divorce the creep and take him for all he's worth. Maybe you can even force them to buy you out of this house of theirs or sell it and share any proceeds with you. Community property baby.
It's important to reflect on your actions and consider the consequences of cheating. If you want to repair the relationship with your boyfriend, you should be honest and open with him about what happened. However, it's also important to give the other person involved the space they need if they choose not to continue the relationship with you. It's important to learn from your mistakes and make better choices moving forward.
How do you claim for maintenance from a cheating husband?
To claim maintenance from a cheating husband, consult with a lawyer who specializes in family law. They will guide you through the legal process of filing for maintenance, also known as alimony or spousal support. Provide evidence of the cheating, such as text messages, photographs, or witness statements, to strengthen your case and support your claim for ongoing financial support.
How does a girl know if her boyfriend is cheating on her?
There are several signs that a girl can look out for if she suspects her boyfriend is cheating. These signs include secretive behavior, decreased intimacy, changes in communication patterns, unexplained absences, and a gut feeling that something is wrong. If she has concerns, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with her boyfriend to address any issues.
Why does he cheat with ugly chicks?
People's attractions and preferences can vary greatly. It is not uncommon for individuals to place less emphasis on physical appearance when seeking companionship or engaging in extramarital affairs. There may be various factors driving someone's decision to cheat, such as emotional connection, common interests, or a desire for something different. Ultimately, it is a personal choice and can't be generalized based on the personal opinions of others.
Whether it is okay or not depends on your personal feelings and the dynamics of your relationship. If you feel uncomfortable or have concerns about the situation, it is important to have an open and honest conversation with your wife about your feelings. Establishing trust and boundaries in your relationship is crucial for resolving any potential issues.
Do men love the girlfriend or wife more?
Only that particular individual knows at the time but in most cases despite the affair a husband has no intention of losing or ever leaving their wife for the affair which would indicate where the loyalty and feelings ly.
Is there a test to know if she is cheating?
There is no foolproof test to determine if someone is cheating. Trust and open communication are important in any relationship. If you have concerns, it is best to have an honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and suspicions.
Father had extramarital affair?
First of all I want you to know how sad and sorry I feel for you, knowing that your father is having an affair. I'm a mother and I have 3 teenagers and believe me that I do know how you feel even though that my husband was the one that betrayed me and my kids. I saw and felt what my 3 kids felt when I discovered his affair and seeing my kids pain, disappointment to their father almost killed me.
If you can, talk to your father and if your Mom didn't know his affair don't say anything to her yet because it's not your place to do. Tell your father how you felt and the pain that you have because of him, then tell him that he needs to tell your Mom or you will talk to your mother. See if this work and never let your father manipulate you. Good Luck!!
What test tells the woman have sexual relation with many man?
There is no specific test that can determine whether a woman has had sexual relations with multiple partners. A person's sexual history is usually based on self-reporting and can't be objectively tested. It's important to approach discussions about sexual history with respect, trust, and open communication.
It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about the emails you discovered. Express your feelings and concerns and ask for an explanation. Depending on their response and your personal values, you may need to reevaluate your relationship and decide what is best for you moving forward.
Do women lie about cheating with someone else's husband?
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Not sure if all women who do or did cheat ever lie to someone about what she is doing. Maybe there are some of them who do keep their little secret so no one will judge her. And maybe there are some who love to brag to her friends especially if she is single, because this married man are spoiling her with attention, gift, and what ever the married man is giving her every time he see her. I will include the man I marry, when he was having affair with the woman he met on a dating site ( without my knowledge) he loves to talk about her to his old friends from college, even to his sisters, on how nice, kind, with soft voice, this woman is. Don't worry because he wasn't this way with me since we got married. with everything I learned and found out he told them how she makes time for him, listen to him talk about his problems and his own dream ( emotional affair), so not just women who might hide what she does, or loves to brag what she have, also man do this things..
