Cheating

Ok, you don't get a guy to cheat on his current girlfriend. That's just screwed up. You get him to dump his gf first and then you can move in.

See, this is my problem; what would you gain by telling him apart from feeling better? If you are seriously committed, ready to marry in the future etc this will end it all and not just between you and him but it can also end it between him and his brother. If you and the brother never will hook up again there is no reason to tell. If you want the brother or end the relationship you have to tell him and then it wont matter how because he loves you and it will hurt like hell because he has been betrayed by his girlfriend and brother. People often confess these things to make themselves feel better which they don't really deserve. If that is the reason it's selfish because you will be putting him through hell. People get through these things when they find out 15 years later but rarely right after it happened.

Quite high. Clearly he doesn't mind doing it, so why should you assume he won't repeat it?

i will tell him to not do it again because that is bad. i will give him another chance.

As of early 2014, all four of the Wayans brothers, and their older brother Dwayne, are alive.

if you are asking yourself this question... just stop.. you are good enough if you treat her how she wants to be treated and love her for who she is and now for who she could be... as long as you do that.... this question will never have to be questioned ever.. good luck.

I think you shouldn't because its wrong...and she needs to know how to be faithful and only mess with 1 person.. or catch somethin...I just wouldn't risk the trouble and in the end someone always find out

Speak English! Just try it. It couldn't hurt.

ANSWER:

First thing first, let me see if I understood your question here. You wanted to know if it's alright to tell the wife of the married man that you had an affair with? Wow darling are you feeling guilty or you just want this married man to get in trouble because he stop the affair with you? If this is your plan, being a scorn woman will not help you. You don't have the rights to tell his wife what the two of you did together, it's the husband job. If your really a christian after the first time the two of you slept together you could have just told this man that it's not right, but you didn't. And now you wanted to make amends. Maybe your intent is pure but you will be making a big mistake. Stop, it's time to move on

Answer #2

Are you trying to punish him for going back to her or trying to completely destroy her by letting her know that you were doing her husband and that's why he left her? Do you think this would please him?? Either way, it sounds repulsive and selfish. I don't know why the first answerer assumes you are christian based on your behavior. I don't think a real christian would have had the affair. who cares if you are a christian anyway, you should get some self esteem counseling and stop sleeping with other peoples husbands.

* Even though you may worry about the person being hurt, honesty is always the best policy. The sooner you tell them you no longer love them the better it will be for both of you. To stay in the love affair is enabling the situation and lying to the person you are having an affair with.

* Be very sure you do know your spouse is cheating on you before accusations start flying. If you know for sure then you need to start communicating with your spouse and let them know you are fully aware of what they are doing and you refuse to put up with it. It will be your decision alone to decide whether to stay with your spouse or leave them.

* You can either phone the hotel and see if they still have a record of your spouse staying there or check your spouse's old credit card statements and telephone statements in case your spouse made the reservations over the phone.

It means your married and seeing someone other than your spouse.

Talk about girls you like, guys love that!

actually, your boyfriend could be hitting on other people, you better watch your step.

Stay calm, if you freak out then he's not going to like you anymore.

Try to play hard to get. If he says I'm sorry tell him that he should have thought about that before he made you cry. It makes him feel bad. Trust me I know. I just had this happen to me tonight only he told me he thought 2 other girls were cute 2 my face!

It will be hard to justify if this person is in love with you especially if the two of you haven't seen each others face to face. You can't put your faith in the hand of cell phone by texting.

As much as I'd like to cut right to the chase and give you a direct answer, I feel compelled to at least give you a quick warning about complimenting coworkers you may have romantic feelings toward. There's always a chance that your attention, no matter how well intended, is unwanted, and this could create an uncomfortable situation for both of you. So please give that some thought before you pursue further.

If you want to tell a coworker what a great person she is, you should start with complimenting her on her work. If you work directly with her you can let her know you noticed what a great job she did with (insert your observation). If you don't work directly with her, then you can say that you heard she was doing a really good job from (insert person's name). This way, you test the waters as to whether she is open to compliments. If this goes over well, then you can move on to personal compliments. But again, proceed slowly. And never make the compliment sexual in nature. For instance, don't say her legs look really good in those pants. If she takes that the wrong way, that becomes sexual harassment. So keep your comments simple and polite.

If you want her to know what a great person you think she is, then tell her. All you need to do is frame it in the right context. You don't want to blurt that out to her from nowhere. She wont understand what you mean. So put it in the right context. For instance, if you noticed something nice she did for someone, point out to her that you happened to have noticed what she did and thought to yourself what a great person she must be. Get it? The idea is not to come off to strong. Keep it simple and superficial. This way, if she gets embarrassed, or acts uncomfortable after you tell her, you can easily move on to another subject. I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck. Thanks for your question.

Why do you want to cheat? I mean, if you're committed to the person you're with, it should be all that hard. If it is, you're obviously not that in love with your partner and maybe you shpuld consider ending the relationship. If you have feelings for someone else, you can't always help that. But you can be respectful towards your partner. Breaking up with her will be far less painful for her than you cheating on her. She doesn't deserve the feel that kind of pain right?

Also, try to avoid situations that could cause you to cheat. Going to a stripclub when you're a cheater by nature is like putting cake in front of a person who's on a diet.

ANSWER:

You can't and you don't. It will be like putting a knife inside your own heart. Your position is a bit awkward right now and hard but I think your husband is the one that needs to solve this for everyone sake. One of you, maybe the woman he had an affair with is the one that needs to transfer. Talk to your husband and tell him how you feel. OR the best thing is talk to the Supervisor or Manager and tell them how uncomfortable it is working because the woman that help your husband ruin your life is always around where you work. This is all you can do.

Start by asking him if something is bothering him. Tell him you've noticed some changes in him (or something like that). Ask if he's still happy with you or if you are doing something wrong (this makes it look like you think its you, not him). Flow withh the conversation after that. Be prepared if he is cheating though.

Don't accuse him right away. That will just get him mad.

It is wrong because it hurts the person you are with. You are betraying them by kissing someone else. You are picking someone else over them and it hurts their feelings.

there are a lot of other factors that go into someone's decision to betray your trust. those factors should really be explored and discussed with your partner. But, it is often said that the best predictor for future events/behaviors, is past events/behaviors.

fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me.

well my decision is 99%