Cheating

* No, not all men cheat. There are some stead fast men out there that are honest, loyal and a one woman man. It does appear that there are more stories of men cheating, but every so often there is a diamond in the rough. There are more out there that statistics claim. Everyone has to take a risk with a partner and good communication skills and gut instincts generally keeps both in the know.

Here's a question you can think over, but it's not really trivia. Religion say's God created the Universe. A scientist would say that the Big Bang created the Universe. If you believe in the scientific point of view, what exactly came before the Big Bang? And what before that? This question can also be asked about God, but this could be an easier question to answer, by answering with Faith. So what do you think?

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Jody

ANSWER:

Well my dear friend, there's only 2 name you can give to the man that your wife is having an affair with, LOVER, and ADULTERER.

From my experience, he was dressing differently. Stopped calling me on his lunches, and got defensive when I asked him about his female friends at work.

Sometimes too, the guilt makes him treat you differently. He'll lash out at you for no reason although he will bring one up that makes no sense at all. It could be something you have done in the way past just to throw the focus off of him and on to you.

He will stop using his phone for actually "calling" people and start texting more, then delete the texts so you won't know who he text if you happen to check his phone and due to privacy rules, there is no way you can get hold of those records unless he signs a paper requesting the text messages from the cell phone co. which he will be indignant about and turn the tables on you again and accuse you of having trust issues. It funny coming from someone who "doesn't know how to text " and he texts more than a girl does. Sometimes 300+ texts a month compared to only 20 calls a month.

Anyone would be suspicious. Men don't text that much unless they have something to hide.

He will also take off to go "shopping" for one or two items [which should take about and hour] and come home 5-6 hours later and then tell you it's none of your business where he goes or when he comes home. Then you find receipts that are from places 2-3 hour away from where you live that coincide with bank records.

Oh, and please don't question that either, it will be "none of your business.

Your will be accused of going through his things when you are not. This of course is his own guilt and him not knowing what to do with it.

He will have other email accounts and deny it.

In counseling mine was asked to let me know when he spoke to, texted to, was in the company of, or ran into a female friend and stopped and had coffee etc. I factually know he has but he has yet to tell me..

I never ever had or ever will have a problem with that, with the lets say "business" he is in.

I would never ever care if he had another email account. But don't lie to me about it and say you do not.

If I run into an old boyfriend or if I'm going to be late coming home, my first consideration is to call and relay that.

But when, I go to the store and drive pass where he says he is; and his car is not there, or I walk in somewhere to eat with a friend of mine and he is sitting with another woman in deep conversation in a place he denied being;......that was when I started having suspicions.

Then when my family starts seeing him out and about in places I have begged him to take me, with another woman, well now I'm pissed.

Trust issues. They were minimal at one time. This was a man that due to my past relationships made a promise to God and me he would never do to me what others have. I made the mistake of letting my guard down and trusting him.

I was told by him to not ask him any questions. How convenient for him then he doesn't have to give any answers.

I do not believe this is physical, I do believe it is an emotional relationship though that he is caught up in which can be just as dangerous and worse.

It's harder to get out of.

In the end, he will treat you differently because he is treating the other the way he use to treat you. In the end also, it is his shame, his denial, his guilt, his sin and he must answer to a higher authority than myself. If he doesn't have an excuse for that too. I know where he has been.

You work up the nerve and confess it to someone you trust to be there.

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By seeing a priest and talk to him. He is the only one that can listen to what your going to say without worrying if he will tell someone or not. Try not to tell one of your friend or maybe a very special friend, who can't be sure if they can keep your secret.

From my own personal experience, the man that I married, told his mistress about one of my horrible experience and since I caught their affair, this woman used it against me. And this is my husband..

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of course you can, its cheating

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obviously she cheated on you dude its obvious if shes gone for awhile and says she with friends or somethn she is banging another guy

2 days ago = December 30, year xxxx

charlie's 21st birthday = December 31, xxxx

today = January 1, xxxy

this year, xxxy, he'll turn 22

next year, xxxz, he'll turn 23.

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Are you joking, did you think because you had told his wife what he was doing, that will be the end of it. Mistress hardly go and see the wife, of the man she was having the affair, her intent is if the wife learn about her husband, it will automatically going to kick him out of their house. And this is mistress dream. When a woman becomes the mistress it will be for her benefit as well as the married man, why? the only way a mistress can let go her married lover is when she have a soul.

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As we know, teachers are the second parents of our children away from us. But when it comes to doing something to a student if he or she done something, the only right thing a teacher can do is give that student a time out in front of the class, or send that student to the Principle office. Other than that, not a thing.

keeping the faith means more than simply having trust.

keeping the faith means you have paid and will continue to pay the price to keep the faith in whatever or whomever you have faith in.

faith is a gift; keeping the faith has a price.

As the matter of facts a lot and it will grow each years, no matter what we do about it.

Well if he comes home late like 9/10 then if he is talking about his job and random stuff! He frequently says I love you! If he will not have sex with you or don't want too! He says when you ask were he's been I worked late!

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Maybe yous thinking that your spouse mught be having an affair, but look how old he is now. Could it be that he is wondering what happened to his youth? Or he could be feeling this "middle age life crises."

No, she would still be a cheating slut.

The husband may be able to press stalking charges, if he has asked her to stay away.

you should move on

so become his lover and eventually he might fall in love with you

There are signs. If she seems distant from you, and just generally different its a possibility. If there is a new guy in her life that she constantly talks about or talks to, that could be a sign too. You could always come straight out and ask her, but don't accuse her. Don't make her feel like you don't trust her, but let her know your worried. It's really hard to tell without actual evidence.

If you are completely sure he cheated and he admitted it, i would leave him and tell him he can visit the baby when it is born as long as he doesn't bring the cheatee (the person he cheated with) and he can visit the baby whenever he wants for a reasonable time AT a reasonable time. If your not sure, confront him about it and if he admits cheating then i would give him one last chance because he showed his loyalty to you by telling the truth, but make it very clear it's his last chance and if he cheats again then he can be out of the baby's life . if he says no he didn't i would just believe him because if he truly loves you then he wouldn't lie.

Shawn Wayans

Yes. She's married to a woman