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If a guy puts you on his shoulders in the pool does that mean he likes you?

Either that or he's just having fun in the pool. He probably likes you, but it doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you in any special way at all. Some guys enjoy more physical activity when they play, and given the right circumstances a guy might pick a male buddy up on his shoulders without giving it a thought. Stay friendly with the guy; maybe he is interested. But don't read too much into the guy's ways of playing around.

What does it mean when a guy says he cares about you?

Well its pretty straight forward, he cares, I have A ton of bestfriends who are girls and id give my life for any one of them, of course I also have a girlfriend, so there are many different types of caring, I would just ask him what type of.caring he.means.

What does is mean if your man wont let you meet his daughter?

It just simply means that he is protecting his daughter. When dating you shouldn't expose your mate to your children if you aren't certain that they are the one or that they will be around for a while. This action could leave a child damaged if the child and the mate develope a good relatonship and then the two adults break up. When he's ready you will meet her.

What should you do if you like a guy and you have liked him for a long time but recently someone else admitted to liking you?

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It's not for me to answer your question. You have to look into your heart and decide which guy would be best for you then go for it.

IF you deeply like someone and you have feelings for him/her you should tell them. But if someone else likes you tell that person so he/she understands that your not interested. Be Brave and have some confidence!

What do you do if you like two guys at once?

Do a pros and cons list of each. Whoever has less cons and more pros wins.

How do you explain different types of tourism?

Tourism is basically travelling to another destination for the purposes of recreation, leisure, or business.

A person who travels to a destination and stays outside of where they usually live for more than 24 hours but less than one year is recognized as a tourist by the World Tourism Organization.

The type of tourism depends on the reason for travel. Travel can be to destinations that are domestic or international.

Domestic tourism involves residents travelling only within their country.

Inbound and Outbound tourismboth describe types of international tourism.

Are there any risks in making out with a guy?

um hellz yea: mono....aka the kissing desease google itt

How do you get your boyfriend to talk more?

well, I'm not sure but here are some ideas. hope you remember that you asked this question and go back to it. anyway, here are some ideas by Jlord.awesome:

  • act hard to get at, but not like the relationship is going to end eg. if he askes you out go 'oh yeah, i guess I'll have to try to find some time' though not WHENEVER he asks.
  • flirt, but not too hard on other guys. if your boyfriend asks you why you were doing that just say 'why not? I'm having fun, it wasn't even flirting'.
  • maybe get your nails done, put more make up on or something. or maybe on your next date go really girly and cute but try to make it seem like you didn't notice
  • on the next date then make jokes and whenever he tells you something seem really intrested in though if it's something that's kinda weird if your intrested like, if he talks about P.E then go something like 'it's so cute and hot how you except me to be intrested in that bluff stuff'.
  • act like you were when he first asked you out, cos why do you think he asked you out in the first place if there's wasn't something among that he was thoroughly intrested in?

What to do if every girl you've liked dont like you?

Deal with it. Life isn't fair and one day you will find that someone who you like, likes you too.

What to tell a girl when she asks why you like her?

Tell her you think shes really pretty. very kind and is a really fun person to be with.

What should you ask a guy to get to know him?

ask him how big he is.

Ask him if he likes coffee and talk with him there. Hobbies, foods, sports.

How do you give your number to a guy without drawing attention to yourself?

say"excuse me by cell phone just died, can I use your phone for just a sec?" then call your cell phone this way you both have each other's numbers.

What does it mean when a guy kisses your forehead?

It really depends. Most times, its a tender gesture. Sometimes it's instead of kissing you on the mouth for a number of reasons, ie they can't work up the nerve, or they don't really want too. 

 I actually kiss my trusted female friends on the forehead, and I'm told it makes them feel loved, and nurtured. My motivation behind it is exactly that. 

 Girls I'm romantically interested in however, I will also kiss on the forehead, but do it sooner in the relationship, as well as other subtle and not so subtle indicators of romantic interest.

Should a woman ask a man out?

Yes she can it really doesn't matter which sex asks the other out.

Can straight and gay guys be friends?

Yes. I am a straight male, and my best friend is gay. I have tons of straight guy friends, and tons of girl friends, but none of them get along with me as well as my best friend. We actually consider each other family, and he, being adopted and having no blood relatives, means that in the literal sense. He comes over to my house almost every other day to hang out, and even when I'm not home just to hang out with MY family. That's how close we are. However, he is in love with me, and I mean IN love. He would kill to protect me as I would for him. Whenever one of us is upset so is the other, we can just tell with each other. I NEVER feel awkward with him either. We'll wrestle around and play football together (he is actually very into sports). I don't even feel awkward when he's ver close to me. If we're watching TV together I don't feel awkward if he's leaning on me at all. We are just simply brothers. And I don't know how, but he somehow is fine with all this. I asked him when he told me he loved him if he still wanted to be friends because I don't want to hurt him if I ever like another girl, and him knowing I'll never love him. But he said no and that being my brother was all he wanted. He for some reason is more understanding than anyone I know. I know if I were in his shoes it would kill me to see him kiss other girls and know I could never be with him. But he's not like that at all. So yes, straight guys can have best friends that are gay.

perpectly good!

What does it mean when a man does not give his phone number?

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If a man doesn't give his phone number out there could be a few reasons. First he could be fresh out of a bad relationship, and not be ready to move too quickly, you could always ask him if that's the reason, or maybe he has a wife and children at home, there could be thousands of reasons, but the best way for you to know is to ask that person and see what he says.

Why do girls find guys attractive?

girls find guys attractive because it is someone to hold and cuddle gives girls what they want. :)

How do you snog a boy for the first time?

just go for it, theres no technique its just all about how brave you are. youll be fine :)

What does it mean when a guy puts his hand on your thigh and squeezes you up?

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He likes to touch you and apparently you like it too or you wouldn't be asking this question. There is one thing to be sure of, if you don't stop him at your thigh, he's going to go for all he can squeeze.

When a guy says he kinda likes you?

They would maybe say yes you YOU asked him. It could also mean that he thinks you are hot, but doesn't like your personality. Also it could mean that you are *kinda* hot.

Why do guys say they love you when they don't mean it?

Complicated.

1: some guys are selfish jerks who will say anything to get into your underwear. (This is the majority, really. They really just want a lot of sex all the time with a lot of different girls. Until they grow up, when they still want it but know that it gets them in trouble, like with diseases and psycho girls who want to teach them a lesson about being stupid.) Some guys are nice though, and will be faithful, but most girls are none too bright and only like the popular cute guys who will definitely cheat. Here's a hint: if you pick a guy because he's hot, don't be surprised when his personality sucks. (Guys do this all the time. It drives me crazy to hear a guy complain about that the girlfriend he picked because she wore a D cup and had a cute face doesn't have a personality he likes. It's lame.)

Try going out with a less attractive sort of skinny geeky guy, seriously. They end up earning more money, they learn to be cooler and they usually don't cheat. They are willing to do nice stuff with you, want to spend time, are generally good at listening and still really really want to get into your pants, which is flattering. Plus, when you get older and see how hot they grew up to be you'll be seriously delighted at your good taste. Spots go away, skinny turns into lean, and shy turns into thoughtful around age 21 to 27... it's really neat to watch. I seriously wish I'd had someone tell me this in high school...

Other reasons: (but if you believe these of your guy you'd better have a darn good reason, or you're just deluding yourself)

2: sometimes they do mean it at first but then their feelings change. 3: sometimes he means it a little, but not enough to be solid and stick around. 4: sometimes he really really means it but pushing the issue will push him away. 5: sometimes he really really loves you but something else is going on and he has to deal with that before he can cope with love. (This is so rare it's not funny, so it's not likely it's your case. Don't get your hopes up, ok?)

i SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO agree with all of them but some guys acually mean it

How do you know if a girl finds you attractive?

Ok, usually when i find a man attractive... i start looking at him a lot, flashing smiles, and flipping my hair, ( i do that when i like someone or am nervous...habit) , anyways, and if its an outgoing girl, like me, shell come talk. usually. but every once in a while, if a girl really likes someone, shell ignore him , afraid that if she makes a move shell mess up or find rejection , and lose him, and sometimes girls would rather sit back and dream about it than take a chance a possibly lose it. When someone fancies you (boy or girl), they don't always show it in the way you'd expect. Miss the signals, and your chance has gone. Next time, look out for these surprising signs - and don't let 'em get away. Remember, attraction is not logical ....it's emotional ....emotions show themselves in very strange ways!

1. They don't talk to you

They're so scared of looking foolish in front of you that they don't risk it. You need to take charge. If you're a man then start a conversation. If you're a woman then stare at him across the bar. Expect some nervous babble, but be encouraging and interested. Their confidence will grow and they'll soon start to make sense!

2. They tease you

Schoolkids tease their crushes in the school playground, and none of us ever really outgrows the habit. Attack is the best form of defence, in love as in war. If someone you fancy teases you, don't give them a slap; give them your phone number.

3. They hide from you

As with the teasing and silent treatment, this one is a form of defence. If you can't see them, you can't see them fall on their face, blush until they burn, or humiliate themselves in random heartbreaking ways. They only want to see you when they're at their best.

4. They don't seem to remember you

So, you had a brief drunken encounter six years ago, and it has faded from their memory. That's what they want you to think. They want you to think that they're far too busy and popular to recall it. In fact, the memory is etched onto their brain and lived out in filthy fantasies every single night :-)

5. They suggest splitting the bill on your first date

If you're a woman, you probably assume that he'd buy you dinner if he fancied you. If you're a man, you assume that she'd let you pay if she fancied you. Wrong. When someone's interested, they're careful not to seem over-keen, or out to buy affection or sex, or - in the woman's case - appear tight-fisted or just after money.

6. They push back their shoulders when they see you

It's not an obvious signal, but it's a very common one. We respond subconsciously to an attractive person by improving our posture: men puff out their chests slightly, and women arch their backs.

7. They flirt with your friend

Rather than be rejected by you, they're seducing you by stealth. If they can impress your friend, your friend will spread the approving word to you. Then they can find out from your friend whether you're interested. This happens even in a relationship ....girls, he's not trying to shag your mate he's trying to impress you! Dohhhh!

8. Their friend flirts with you

They've sent their mate on a mission to involve you in a group night out, where they will make their move. Classic strategy for girls trying to get guys. Naughty girls also do this when they have a boyfriend present (so that their mate can get his number on their behalf!!).

9. They babble nonsense at you

The power of your attractiveness has short-circuited their brain! Chances are they're dimly aware that their mouth is spouting nonsense, but it's out of their control. On a deeper level, Scientists have proven that "being in love" is very similar to some forms of madness. Seriously!

10. They ring you up to moan about a terrible date

You think you're in the Friend Zone (don't get in the "Friend Zone"), but the truth is that they want an excuse to phone you ...and give you 'a way in'!

How do you know if a guy dislikes you?

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If a guy dislikes you it's the same as a woman not liking a guy, she will snub him and guy's do the same thing. They won't return phone calls, answer emails, or messages on cell phones. They just plain ignore you.

How can you make a boy fall for you?

Just be you, that is the best way to do it. If he doesn't like you for you, don't change yourself to his appeal, just find someone else.