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The power relationship between the abuser and the victim?
The victim has no power or they would not be abused. The abuser always has the control. Children and the elderly are victimized often in society as well as men and women. The abuser will start out by abusing psychologically and 'put down' their victim until they leave their victim confused with no self confidence. The abuser may threaten to leave their victim (this is terrifying to the elderly); leave the wife and take the children; talk of killing the victim or anyone that is close to them. The abuser often isolates their victim so their victim has no family or friends to turn too and they have to suffer in silence and depend on their abuser.
When does a court give an abuser custody of children?
When they have been determined to not be a an abuser. Courts do not grant custody of children to adults who have been determined to be abusive.When they have been determined to not be a an abuser. Courts do not grant custody of children to adults who have been determinedto be abusive.When they have been determined to not be a an abuser. Courts do not grant custody of children to adults who have been determinedto be abusive.When they have been determined to not be a an abuser. Courts do not grant custody of children to adults who have been determinedto be abusive.
What role does fear play in abusive relationships?
The abuser of the victim will first alienate the victim from their family and friends and can even move to another town in some cases. An abuser is sly as a fox and at first often can win over not only the victim with kindness and generosity, but also win over family and friends. However, there are many cases where family and friends can often see right through the abuser even before he segregates his victim. Once the two are alone the changes can come quickly such as verbal abuse (the abuser is inwardly unhappy about their own failures in life and will transfer this onto the victim) and then the physical abuse often comes next. Sometimes the abuser will never apologize to his victim, but many do and continue to promise that they will never do it again, but they do. The abuser is aware they have total control over their victim and if the victim shows any sign of independence or that they are going to leave the relationship this is when the real fear starts because the abuser will instill the fear of either killing their victim; their family or, if there are children the abuser may threaten to harm the children or have the victim believe she will never get her children as she is an unfit mother. The victim is basically brainwashed; lost all confidence in themselves; has been alienated from her family and friends and has nowhere to turn. The fear is real and the threats from the abuser are often real as well.
How can you leave an abuser without him knowing?
See information in the related link below, which provides information on leaving an abuser, as well as how to protect yourself and your children.
Can one who is a drug abuser harm others?
Yes. It harms the family and friends of the drug abuser. Also, if anyone looks up to that person, they could do the same thing.
Person who catches children for some evil work?
Kidnapper, child abuser
When other family members of the abuser ignore the abuse and does not speak with the abuser about their problem are they more so but nonverbal telling their children it is ok?
If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem . Tell the abuser s/he is a blot on the family escutcheon and a bad example for the kids.
What is a common form of abuse where the abuser tries to keep the abused from family and friends?
domestic abuse or violence
Can you leave the country to get away from your abuser with your child?
Yes its very legal some of my friends and there mums have ran away
What makes claude debussy unique?
claude debussy loved little children, considered a child abuser.
Do abusive men try to scare off your friends?
Generally, the abusive male will isolate his female. This can be done by intimidating the womens' friends. This can be done by comments, the cold shoulder when her friends arrive or by turning the woman against her friends with little remarks about them behind their backs. He must get the woman to believe that her friends are not to be trusted and he is the only one she can trust. If a friend says that she does not care for the womans boyfriend the woman is put in the middle to choose friend or lover. The abuser wants to isolate his victim. He will be nice at first (almost overly nice) and may even give many gifts, but beware of the messager that bares gifts! Once the abuser has his victim in his web he will either snub her family or be chameleon like and appear friendly so at times the family would have a hard time believing the victim when she says anything about being abused. Eventually the abuser will then start to isolate his victim from her family and sometimes it's not a remark at all, but an order! Then come the friends. The abuser will ORDER not ask that his victim cease seeing her friends. Some abusers are so bad that they will time their victim from leaving the house to go shopping for groceries to the time she gets home and if she's not on time all hell breaks loose.
Is bullying a child abuse?
Yes, they are related. Often a child who bullies learns the behavior at home. Children model what they live and see. Parent who bullies is an abuser and he/she learned this as a child as well. A child of a person who abuse others becomes the abuser later.
