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Should you let your husband break off an emotional affair in person?
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∙ 10y ago
Emotional affairs generally mean that your husband and the other woman lean on each other for support through any problems each of them have and often there is no sexual affair, but of course a sexual affair is just that. Your husband does not have to meet with this woman and can break off the emotional affair over the telephone with you present if you so wish. It would be wise to start communicating more with each other and finding out what is lacking in your marriage and perhaps seek marriage counseling in order to have a good start at mending your marriage problems. Just winning out over the other woman simply isn't good enough and it's a red flag your husband has problems he doesn't feel he can discuss with you and does not feel you will understand.
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Yes, he does, you would not want your doctor to tell you on the phone that you are dying of cancer right? You would want to see your doctor so you can ask him how bad your cancer. From what I know and my own experience the right way to break up with the other woman is face to face. Come on, your husband didn't waste his time on the phone or through internet to talk to this woman about his life, his sex with you, dreams, and future. Maybe it all depends on individual, but reality here is would you trust someone about your inner personality or even what you wanted to do with your life by talking on the phone?, you don't because we all need to look at that person's face while talking to him or her. Maybe most men especially married men who can't be happy with one woman will just call and say, it's time to move on babe. We need to stop seeing each others before my wife finds out.
It doesn't matter if the other woman will say no, or your husband might say "he doesn't want to hurt her" she deserve to know the truth and explain to her whats is coming. The man I married told me he was planning to break up with her when she came to where he worked, but I didn't believed him, because they end up screwing each others in the car. He also said he noticed something from her that do not adds up. His ex mistress never really believed him because even he mentioned to her about stopping their relationship, he still comes and see her and he never stop calling her on the phone the month and say he said he told her. His second reason, he was waiting for the right time to tell her, like he owe her his life. The only thing I knew he owe her is sex from her. She made him feels like a real man in her bed, specially their faith to God.( which now I knew better). The man I married did the wrong thing by calling her and told her that it's over because I discovered it. He owe her courtesy to tell her face to face, because his ex mistress welcome him in her own home.
So for your husband, he needs to be a man to face his ex or still mistress and tell her. Or if he say that he will just call her, do you think he will do it or he might just end up in bed with her and tell you lies that she seduce him. Tell him to have some decency to tell her face to face and in front of you. This is the only way he can show you that he really means it.
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How the unhappy married woman stop emotional affair at workplace?
First, if you are unhappily married you should most definitely talk about it with your husband. See if there is something he can do differently to increase your happiness. Otherwise, move to Egypt. To stop your emotional affair (if you decide to leave your husband you dont have to) turn the person against you by avoiding them, so they constantly diss you so you no longer have your emotional affair.
What do you say to the person your husband is having an emotional affair with?
Take what you said to your husband (because, you know, he's not without blame for this, either), and modify it as you see fit.
Should you hunt down the woman that had an affair your husband?
No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
How can you tell if your husband having a emotional affair?
Speaking again from experience (being the one that had the emotional affair, I'd say the signs are always there. An ''obsession'' to talk about the person, a distancing in you're own relationship, listening to love songs, pulling away from a physical relationship with you, or even saying the wrong name when with you. The opportunities that they seek out to be with this person, etc.
How long does it take to get over an emotional affair?
Depends on the person, and how much the person meant to you.
Do all emotional affairs have to become sexual?
Not really. Emotional affairs are a situation where one person out of a romantic couple seeks emotional support from a person who is not their spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend. For it to count as an emotional affair, the person supplying the emotional support would have to be someone who would be eligible as a companion had the person seeking emotional support not been romantically involved already. Sex does not really supply emotional support, so it does not fit into a specifically emotional affair.
How can a person be countersued for having an affair?
ANSWER:Nope you can not, but if this person did something to you, physically you might have a case. But when it comes to emotional affair, they will tell you to see a councilor and solve your problem
Do you have to have intercourse for it to be considered an affair?
No not at all, having an affair can also be emotional. How deeply you feel about that other person, that's What happens then later intercourse could come. But affairs can not only be physical but emotional an mental.
What to do you if your husband had an emotional affair seven months with this woman and now is talking to her behind your back calling her at work and on her cell and says they are only friends?
Might be an old friend, who knows. But if he pays more attention to the woman than you, you should get a divorce. If he really loves and cherishes you, he'll make time for you and pay attention to you.
What is the definition or meaning of Affair?
an affair is when a guy and a women are married and either the guy is secretly seeing someone else or its the other way around.ANSWER:Affair is a relationship with another person who is not your husband or wife. Affair is not a one night stand relationship that you can go home and act like nothing happen. Affair is a relationship that will last months or maybe years because the person who's having an affair do fall in love with the other woman or other man. There are two kinds of "Affair", one is Emotional affair where a spouse become close to the other person who is not the spouse. It brings two person very close because they can talk about anything, and they can only share it to each others.Physical affair is all about intimacy with feelings, because they are more closer and love each others. Physical Affair is dangerous to but not like emotional. emotional affair is what breaks and destroy marriage or end up having divorce.
Your husband had an affair and the other person is stalking you?
Call the cops or you can just fight her.
Should your husbands PA have an affair with your husband?
NO. any person who is truly professional does not mix work with relationship. even if his wife is his PA they should have ONLY a professional relationship at work.
