According to what I have just read on the web, an employer can refuse to pay for a medical reimbursement expense on the grounds that it does not meet the parameters of the reimbursement fund as defined in the original plan. It is recommended that a third party administer the reimbursements because of potential hard feelings and because it can be difficult to determine whether an expense meets the correct criteria. Speaking as a small business employer, having a third party administer the plan and determine the reimbursements probably adds another layer of expense, and if one is barely able to meet funding requirements to provide the reimbursements to begin with, might be undesirable.
Your employer can refuse if they have good reason. I'm not certain what kind of reason that could be, but if they are providing insurance to everyone else except you, you might have a discrimination case on your hands.
You cannot be asked medical questions or health questions if you are applying for a job. Your employer can ask you health questions and can even ask for your medical records, but you do have the right to refuse those requests.
The way that an employer would refuse to give an employee a handbook is they are trying to with hold a benefit.
strike ... or resignation.
Yes they can refuse if you are not married or not a relative.
fire you i guess.
Only if your employer happens to be a branch of the US military.
Yes, the employer can ask. But you can always refuse and take the consequences.
yes ....
Certainly. No law requires the employer to do more than pay you for hours worked.
Very little of the health record privacy law (HIPAA) applies to employers, but this is in there: employers cannot compel you to reveal medical RECORDS except those needed to claim a medical-based benefit like FMLA, workers comp, or ADA accommodation. The employer can compel you on pain of discharge to demand necessary records from your doctor, who cannpot refuse YOU. The employer cannot demand records from your doctor, but can hire a doctor to demand the records and review them.
Of course it can.