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Does your husband still talk to his 3 year affair on the phone?
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∙ 14y ago
that's crazy..... if i was you i would tell him to consider your feeling and that you feel uncomfortable with him speaking to his ex that he was with for 3 years and if he ask you to trust him and all that B.S tell him that you trust him with your life but that's not the issue the issue is that this woman is trying to take you away from me and your too blind or stupid to see. or you can always tell him to choose either you or her if you really want to make it into a big deal
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∙ 14y ago
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Why does your husband hang up the phone on you when you try to talk to him about the pain he has caused you after his 3 year affair?
He's obviously very upset about this. This is notsomething you talk about over the phone-its an in-person conversation. He feels guilty. You need to see him face-to-face, and let him know how you feel
Is it necessary to ask your husband for all the details of his emotional affair?
No, it is not necessary, what is necessary is to talk about general details as why and how long was the affair. If you still want to stay, you will both need to work on trust issues and what to do now without looking backward. Good Luck
How do you stop affair?
All you have to do is stop, you don't need any help from no one. But if you are asking ways to stop your affair, it will shows that your not really ready to stop your affair. If you are the wife and your wondering how you can tell your husband to stop his affair, all you have to do is talk to him, give him choices what he will face if he don't. But if he tells you that he can't or wont it means that your husband needs to decide if he want to stay married with you or divorce you. It's that simple
What does it mean when your husband gets angry when you pick up his cell phone after he had a 3 year affair on you?
this sounds like he really doesn't want you to see who has been calling or whom he has called. If you do not trust him, talk it over, if he is still cheating, kick him to the curb, no one need this kind of jerk in their life, life is too short, there is someone out there who will be much better for you!
What should one do when your husband said you have affairs and you don't even think about it an affair?
You should talk to him politely and tell him. You can tell your whereabouts about which he has been unsure.
Can you still stop your ex husband from getting his citizenship?
Talk to an immigration lawyer.
What to do when your husband has an emotional affair. I caught my husand chatting online and he admitted to an emotional affair. Should I confront the other woman or tell her unknowing husband?
I do am sorry that you had found out your husband's secret. Emotional affair is the hardest affair that can happen to someone. I know because it happened to me, a while ago. If your husband admitted his relationship with ths other woman and they haven't met yet, you can still control your husband. The two of you needs to talk about what's going on with him. Ask him why he didn't have no problem talking to this woman on line about things in his life but he can't with you. Ask him how deep his involvement with her, but don't let him manipulate you, because he will tell you that " he didn't plan it" it just happen. Most married men who got caught with affairs, emotional or physical will say that " it's just happen." If your husband didn't plan it or even open up to her, he will not become emotionally involve with her. BTW the man that I married also told me that he didn't plan it, it just happen. Being emotionally involve with this woman, expect they already shared an intimate feelings to each others. What if, how it will feel, will be some of the intimate words that they talked or fantasized. When and if your husband stop talking to her, watch your husband, his behaviour will change because he will be thinking about the other woman. It just like trying to stop drinking, If you are planning to talk to her husband don't, it's the other woman that you need talk to, so she will know what ever your husband told her or even complain to her about you she will know the truth. If she don't listen to you, that's when you tell her that you will talk to her husband. But for now take care of yourself and make sure you talk to one of your friends or family.
How the unhappy married woman stop emotional affair at workplace?
First, if you are unhappily married you should most definitely talk about it with your husband. See if there is something he can do differently to increase your happiness. Otherwise, move to Egypt. To stop your emotional affair (if you decide to leave your husband you dont have to) turn the person against you by avoiding them, so they constantly diss you so you no longer have your emotional affair.
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You had an affair your husband hates you?
Can you blame your husband why he hated you? Just imagine the hurt he have right now because of what you did. It doesn't matter if you think man are tough, but still they will be hurt. Because of this your husband has a lot in his mind, esp. pain and betrayal. I think the best thing for you to do is talk to him, tell him and don't tell him the words " it was a mistake" I'm sorry. Remember it is not a mistakes if man or woman do have affairs and slept with the other person. To say it was a mistake, why did you continued your affair, instead of stopping it after the first time. This are the consequences that you will see.
Does the wife usually tell her husband not to talk to the mistress anymore after the affair has been discovered or does the husband make that choice?
You shouldn't even stay married to him if that happens! ANSWER: I did mine, and yes our husband has the choice to do it if they want to. But the question is will it be the right thing to do if the husband still kept the communication from his mistress ( ex). If the spouse wont stop, this is a sign that no matter what you ask him he will ignore you, is showing that he can't live without being connected with his mistress.
Husband cheated on me and they are still friends?
You can't work on the issues in your marriage with your husband until he's a full partner in the marriage again. This is impossible unless he ends the affair completely--which he hasn't done. An affair doesn't truly end when the sex ends, it ends when the affair partners cease contact with eachother. Keeping in contact only feeds the emotional high both parties got from the affair. Unfortunately, this also sounds like gaslighting---your husband and the affair partner are claiming to be only friends, while there is still an emotional (and possibly sexual) relationship going on without your knowledge. Your husband isn't making a choice here; he's simply hoping to keep both his marriage and his relationship with the affair partner. You need to make the best choice for yourself at this time. Privately go to an attorney, look through your finances and have an honest talk with your husband. Demand, not ask, that he make a choice---either he becomes a full partner in the marriage by going to counseling with you and completely ending contact with the affair partner (even if it means changing jobs or moving), or he needs to leave the marital residence ASAP and expect a divorce.
