Answer is does it really matter how long he has been cheating? He has been cheating. You can ask him but it won't make it any better knowing all the details. You know the only detail that matters he betrayed you.
internet Explorer>History>Recent>Pornhub.com or another porn site to be exact.
Is he remorseful, can you forgive and move on? Things to think about. Your answers will give you the best predictors.
I personally have never cheated on my husband. However, if he were to cheat on me his consequences would be harsh! The marriage would be over, he would have visitation of our children only! Pretty much our friendship/relationship would be gone forever! I could not be with someone like that!
If you have never cheated and just your husband has then it is not you that needs to forgive yourself, but your husband needs to smarten up and see what he has done to you. There are no excuses for cheating! If people are that unhappy in a relationship they should have the fortitude to face the person and tell them the relationship is over and then start dating other people. People who cheat are spineless; have no moral sense; do not respect the feelings of their spouse and are self centered and selfish. Your husband needs to earn your trust back if he wants to come back into the marriage and if so, then marriage counseling would be a good idea to give you both the tools to learn to communicate better and to deal with any problems you have in your marriage.
Humans aren't perfect as we all know. If this is his first fling and it's over and he feels bad about it then it's worth another chance. Then it's time to sit down, learn to communicate and start working on your marriage. You can also go to marriage counseling for extra help. If he abusive physically/mentally or has cheated more than once then kick his hide out the door and file for divorce.
"husband over his wife" .... Marriage has been sexist and supported as "sacred" by Catholic Church...
If you knew that he cheated on his past two wives, what made you think that you were any different? End it immediately, the whole marriage was a lie. You set yourself up for hurt. Of course, I know, cheating is cheating! You can not get away from that! But he did not have an affair - and one does not have affairs with a hooker - and he came back to you. This is just one step beyond masturbation. Sex with a hooker! Let's be honest: he really did not get involved with another woman. Don't ever forget that a man's sexual needs are much greater than those of a woman. (In spite of Masters and Johnson.) Discuss the sexual aspect of your marriage with him. Talk, talk and more talk. Be frank about yours and your husband's sexual needs. Consider a compromise. But, in the end, if you need more specific help consult Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and other Disasters" or Gottman's "Seven Principles That Can Make your Marriage Work." These two books give you specifics on how to resolve your marriage problems.
The wife keeps the ring when the marriage is over. If it was a family heirloom then the wife has the right to either give it back to her ex husband or keep it.
That is just wrong especially if you have decided to continue your marriage after he has cheated on you now its as if he is just rubbing your face in it. You have to tell him how his behaviour makes you feel and that he must cut all ties with this woman altogether and if he does not then you are going to have to decide if you are going to stay in this marriage as he cannot be trusted in which he has already proved. Remember people only treat you the way you allow them to and if you just let this behaviour go it will continue and he will continue to walk all over you and take you for granted - you need to think about you and what is best for you.
Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.
This is a personal problem. Your a an idiot if you need a computer to make a serious descision for you.
Genetericem- marriage transfer rights over the productive services. Uxorem- all children born to the wife irrespective of their biological father belongs to the husband.
That's his responsibility. If he is still seeing her, the affair is not over. You can't control your husband. A spouse has the right to the respect, loyalty and faithfulness of their partner. If your husband can't control his behavior then you need to assess your status as his wife and whether you want your present situation to continue. Are you better off with him or without him?
Humans make mistakes for different reasons. It is obvious you are missing something in your marriage; perhaps your husband takes you for granted; you have lost touch with each others feelings; you feel lonely; perhaps depressed; perhaps at an age you feel you need to know you are still attractive to another man. Unfortunately, you will have to tell the man you are having the affair with that you think highly of him, but you had no business getting involved with him while married and you want to work things out with your husband. He should be mature enough to understand and he will get over the hurt. Honesty is always the best policy. After you have told this other man then you should communicate with your husband and ask if he would consider going to marriage counseling to perk up your marriage. He may not want to go, but give it a try. If he should refuse and ask what is wrong with the marriage tell him (it's the truth) that many marriage can hit stale points and you could go on a romantic getaway so both of you will be more attentive to each other without distractions.