Etiquette dictates that the spouse with the professional title is listed first. If the woman is a doctor, but her husband is not, write: Dr. Lucy Wallford and Mr. Christopher Wallford, or, if they have different last names, Dr. Lucy Jones and Mr. Christopher Wallford. If the husband is a doctor, the proper way to address it is: Dr. and Mrs. Christopher Wallford or Dr. Christopher Wallford and Mrs. Lucy Jones. If both are doctors, it should be addressed to The Doctors Wallford or Dr. Christopher Wallford and Dr. Lucy Jones.
The inside envelope would read The Wallfords if they share a last name, and Christopher Wallford and Lucy Jones if they do not Mr. John Smith & Dr. Joan Smith
The man usually comes first. I just sent a card to my dentist and his wife and addressed it to Dr. & Mrs. John Smith. To put the female doctor first is inappropriate. Well, being that this is not a medical issue, you can safely address them as Mr. & Mrs. They are husband & wife before they are doctor and husband. Look in the phone book to see how they have themselves listed in it. Dr. is a designation to address orally and in medical issues. If you have heard let people know that she would always prefer to be addressed as doctor, do so out of courtesy, but its not necessary other wise.
First I would find out if she is doctor by her maiden name. If so out of respect for the fact she is a doctor, it is better to error on the side of respect, I would address the invitation to Mr. so and so and Dr. so and so.
If they are a married couple and one invitation is being sent: Rev. James and Dr. Judy Smith If they are not married Rev. James Smith one one line and Dr. Judy Jones on the second line.
Dr. & Mrs. John Jones.
dr. and mr.
The address should read (an example): Dr. John Doe and Mayor Jane Doe.
Mr and Mrs (last name here) David and Joan (last name here) (last name here) family
When you receive the wedding invitation there should be a small card in a small envelope with the address of the bride or groom's parents name or, in some cases either the bride to be or the groom to be. In the small card you tick off if you are coming and if you are bringing your girlfriend; wife or a guest. The envelope should have a stamp already on it and you just have to mail it out.
Reverend & Mrs.
The Honorable Nelson A. Rockefeller and Mrs. Rockefeller
Simply send the invitation to her, in her name. Bear in mind that if she is in a committed marriage this is not a polite thing to do. If her marriage is in some way compromised, just ring her with a personal invitation.
I don't know the context of the question ... but if you are talking about a invitation for a wedding then ...Formally for the envelopes on the letters :: "Mr. and Mrs. William Smith, Jr. "informal ... Bill and Peggy (for when you are greeting them in the receiving line at the wedding.)/R.
You can address a retired doctor and his wife as "Dr. and Mrs. (Last Name)" when speaking to them formally. If you are on more familiar terms, you could simply address them by their first names.
Doctor Smith and his wife Reverend Smith (assuming she is using his last name).
There should be a small self addressed envelope inside the wedding invitation with a stamp on it. Take the small card out and tick off if you and your wife or you and your girlfriend are attending and mail it off to the bride. You could also phone if you would rather talk to the bride and make it more personal.
Use the term Honorable Judge on the envelope. For example Honorable Judge Smith and Mrs. Smith. On the invitation Judge Smith and Mrs. Smith would be fine.
Dr. Mary Smith and Mr. James Doe