He would be constantly putting you down and he would never compliment you. He wouldn't respect you.
smacking people hahhahahahaaa
Don't be an idiot. Leave. Now.
He will verbally abuse you by saying very hurtful things as well as play head games and constantly toy with your emotional state. It is best to get out of this relationship as soon as possible.
because he's fricken amazing and would do anything for her. he's selfless
I guess the real question is why are you still talking to an ex boyfriend who was emotionally abusive? You can tell him anything you want, but it won't change him. The best thing to do is to figure out why you were attracted to someone who abused you and cheated on you. A therapist or counselor can probably help you sort it out. Do it NOW...before you marry someone like him and have his children....then you will just continue the cycle.
You have to want to get out of the abusive situation.
Without SERIOUS psychiatric help, he hasn't changed. It just isn't something that happens. Once a guy shows that he's physically or emotionally abusive, he just doesn't change without serious psychotherapy.
This is the way they work, they start off being nice to work there way into your heart then when they have you the way they want you they slowly work through being abusive to control you
Communicating with your abuser is an art form. It is called "walking on eggshells". If you think the relationship is getting emotionally abusive no need to talk...best to walk and do it fast. Once the abuse begins in the cycle, it is hard to get out. The longer the cycle has been spinning the more difficult to leave.
to control you. abusers want total control
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
you must get out of abusive relationships. Boyfriend must never be abusive !
you feel safe and complete when he around. you know he will be there for you. your heart feels phycially, mentally, and emotionally in love with him
If you are trying to get over your abusive ex boyfriend, spend time learning something new.
Break up with him, that will make him realize how serious his behaviour is. You should not be with him if he is abusive, that only encourages his behaviour. He will think, "well, she is still with me so I can't be that bad." recording him What is he doing that is Abusive --- Not all Abusive behaviours necessitate breaking up a relationship.
i would love to know that for myself ive always wondered my ex use to verbally and emotionally and sometimes even physically abuse me
Why would you call someone who is "emotionally and verbally abusive" - your "friend"? Abusers cannot be friends because they lack empathy and the ability to truly love someone else or relate to others!
Get rid of the spouse, or move away...
If your husband is verbally and emotionally abusive, you can break the negative cycle by seeking the services of a family counselor or filing for divorce.
An emotionally abusive man (or woman) is not capable of true, pure love. The person does this to you because he or she lacks self esteem, as hard as that may seem to understand. Saying he doesn't "love" you anymore is another way for him to emotionally and mentally abuse you.
Depends on the person. Sometimes - years.
If you always fight, then it is an abusive relationship. If you do not want to be around your boyfriend/girlfriend, then it is an abusive relationship. If you can not talk or be around your family and friends then you are in an abusive relationship.