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Break up with him, that will make him realize how serious his behaviour is. You should not be with him if he is abusive, that only encourages his behaviour. He will think, "well, she is still with me so I can't be that bad."

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What is he doing that is Abusive --- Not all Abusive behaviours necessitate breaking up a relationship.

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Q: How do you make your boyfriend realize what he's doing by both emotionally and verbally abusing you?
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