It is not appropriate to bring anything to a Jewish funeral. If you wish to provide food for the family members of the deceased, your best option is to speak to a close friend to find out what arrangements are being made. Most communities with kosher caterers work with these caterers to make sure that all meals are taken care of.
You can send Sympathy cards or give the grieving family kosher food.
The rituals surrounding death and burial in Judaism are very specific. The funeral must be lead by either a rabbi or someone Jewish (in non-Orthodox communities, it can be either a Jewish man or woman). Although it might be acceptable for a non-Jew to speak at a Jewish funeral in some communities, it would never be appropriate for that person to speak on behalf of the family.
At a Jewish funeral home or synagogue or at the graveside.
Yes, it was.
At a Jewish funeral home or synagogue or at the graveside.
D. Weinberger has written: 'The funeral and cemetery handbook =' -- subject(s): Burial laws (Jewish law), Handbooks, manuals, Jewish Funeral rites and ceremonies, Jewish mourning customs, Jewish funeral rites and ceremonies
At church/ a funeral
yes white lilys for funeral because it is peace sign
I am assuming you mean "What should a non-Jew do at a Jewish funeral?" If that is your question, then the answer is: don't do anything that stands out. Just follow the lead of those around you, carrying yourself in a conservative manner. Wear business attire and sit in the appropriate section by gender. Remain quiet for the funeral service and the burial service. Do not accept any offers for participation in carrying or moving the casket or filling in the grave, as these should be performed by Jews.
Friends and family of the deceased
Yes, but it is not required.
Shaul Israeli has written: 'Dabar le-dor' -- subject(s): Hebrew Jewish sermons, Jewish funeral sermons, Jewish Funeral sermons 'Sefer Mishpete Shaul'
I wouldn't care to bring home flowers from a funeral, but that's only a personal preference.