Of course you're going to feel guilt or remorse. That's because you have a history with this person and a conscious. But does not mean you should let your abusive partner move back in. It is unsafe for you and for him or her. The best thing for you to do is keep your abusive partner out of the house and slowly lose contact with him or her.
No...it should make them lethargic...they were abusive before the drugs.
If a friend were in your situation, what would you advise?
It is highly unlikely that man who does not have an abusive personality will become an abuser if their partner grew up in an abusive home and refuses help. Good men know they should never hit a woman which in some cases can lead to male abuse by a woman. The stress of being around an abusive person be it verbally or physical abuse is bound to have effects on the non abusive partner, but most men will only take so much and have the opportunity of leaving the relationship.
Anyone who reaches out for help and is willing to receive that help whom is in an abusive relationship should get that help, and there are resources both online and in the community to access the right kind of assistance.
Oftentimes, abusive partners will transfer their aggression physically and mentally. In addition to whatever abuse your partner is already giving you, this just might be one more thing. It could be insecurity, anger or hatred that is causing your partner to do this. Examine it but look out for yourself first! Your safety and well-being should always be a top priority!!!
I don't quite understand. To control when you have sex, you either need to be abusive or promiscuous which you should NOT be. To control how you have sex, you'll need to be aware of yourself and your partner.
Tell them how they feel if they comfortable to.
Abusive relationships are some of the most difficult ones to resolve. THis type of relationship assumes that one partner is abusive and continues to be so because there is no response to the abuse. The difference here centers on "self-assurance." The abusive partner continues his or her behavior because there is no response. I can not suggest how the abused party should respond because in most instances they feel diminished. This situation can only be resolved through extended counseling, if at all.
No, there is no reason at all. It is completely unacceptable.
No there will always be doubt but if you talk to your partner about the doubts then you will feel better and the doubt will not turn into mistrust. You should trust and be trusted.
Itβs important you discuss these things with your partner as they would help give you and your partner a better understanding of what each of you want for the future.
because why would you want to be with someone who is abusive towards you