If he is willing to work things out he should be happy to go to marriage counseling. Find a licensed marriage counselor, it will be a good place to start. Good luck.
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You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
You should not be having an affair with a married woman but if you love her and she really loves you more than your husband you should ask her to divorce him! if she doesnt then she might not really love you as much as you think.
Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark. Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
Confront him/her and tell the truth, if you are or aren't having a(n) affair with her boyfried/husband/fiance.
No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
No. Let sleeping dogs lie.
Only if you know the husband will not try and kill you
no leave the relationship she obviously doesnt love you if she has had a four month affair!
No. Because if she has kids why would she want to have anything to do with him or if she doesnt she should be commited to her husband.
I think you should be patient and take your time steadily with him. He wil eventually let out on you. If not i guess hes either not trusting you. Or doesnt feel like talking about it
If it is yes most definately.