What signs should you look out for that he likes you?

Answer 1

The stare. The stare has always been the first sign of knowing a guy likes you. He will stare at you like you are the only person in the room. The shy ones will stare at you, but the moment you look at them they will turn their head. But the bold ones, they will wait for you to turn around, just so they can smile at you and see you smile back. The stare is not that creepy kind of stare or a mug, but it is a stare that shows he's looking at you and admiring you. The stare is what shows that he wishes he could have you alone, just the two of you. The stare can also be the "check-out." During this time, guys usually look for attitude factors, when trying to figure out an approach. Factors such as style, mood, and mostly body language. So if you're looking sad or down, it gives him a reason to ask why you're having a crummy day or he'll stare in your face with a look of concern. Attention and Noticing."A concentration of the mind on a single object or thought." He will show you out of the ordinary attention. He pays attention to what you do when you talk. He pays attention to your appearance, your style, and everything else about you. When he's giving you "The Stare," just take it as him showing you that he's noticing everything about you. Every move you make and everything you say. He will laugh at everything you say, even if it's just the simplest. He will try his best to conversate with you more, and others will notice it. The big hint is, when he notices LITTLE things you have done; even if it was just being silly and making a small joke or even being nervous about something, HE WILL NOTICE. If you are wearing something new, if it's eye shadow, perfume, a shirt, a dress, or some shoes, he will notice, and if he does, he is definitely interested. He Remembers. He remembers everything you say and/or do. This goes back into the "Attention and Noticing." Let's say you two have a conversation about something, and you really don't expect for him to remember anything you've said, but a couple days later he brings it back to you. He remembers the exact day and time you both talked about it too. Seems Interested. Now on this, I can speak from personal experience. When a guy actually sits back and takes the time to get to know you, he's definitely interested. He may not come right out and say it, but it's through his words and through his actions. A guy told me once before that, "I've already figured you out." See. He wants to see what you like and dislike, and any guy who wants to do that definitely likes you. [Speaking from personal experience]. I'm a person who likes to laugh and have fun, so I and my guy were on the phone one afternoon, talking and he said, "See you like to talk on the phone with people that are going to make you laugh, because you like laughing and you're not going to engage in a conversation that doesn't interest you." Take note that we had only known each other for two weeks and he had already figured me out. This leads back to "Attention and Noticing." So he actually takes the time out to figure you out and find what interests you. If you're happy, he's happy. There was this guy I was getting to know and I was also confused on if he liked me or not. One day we were text messaging and I was telling him that I was sore from practice and wasn't feeling good. He asked me, "Is there anything I can do to make you feel better?" I told him, no I was fine, then he said, "If you're happy, I'm happy so let me know." When a guy likes you, most of the time he wants to make you smile. He wants to see you laugh. He wants to make you happy. This phrase, "If you're happy, I'm happy" is a big step in the "Getting to Know You" process, because that is something you usually hear in a "Relationship." But he let me know, in so many words, that he's here for me and willing to do whatever it takes to make me happy. And that's how it. When a guy likes you, he will try everything and anything he can to make you smile.... Even if it's just a joke or two or something to show that he's there. HE WILL DO IT. Now let's think if I was a good friend, who had no interest in me at all, he would have said something like, "Oh, I hope you feel better." So why couldn't he just take that route? Because he's interested. If a guy is willing to take out time to make you happy, in any way possible. He is Interested! Admire. He admires your style and everything about you. His stare and smile shows admiration. You're wondering why he can't take his eyes off you. It's because he's admiring you from head to toe. Inner beauty and out beauty. He shows that he's watching you and everything you do.. Even if it's just you saying hi everyday, sending a text or an email, a note or a letter. He admires you for taking the time out to show you are interested in him. He respects you, he has a high-opinion of you, and he wonders if it's the same to him as it is with you. He will approve of everything you do because he admires you. Joke/Play. He loves to joke around, play, and mess with you all the time. He loves you make laugh and smile. And with that, if he makes a joke he looks at you for your reaction, just to see if you laughed. He tries to show you that he has a sense of humor, because no woman wants a man who's boring and cant make her laugh. So he tries to keep your interest by always keeping a smile on you face. He's tries this by saying things he know you can't resist to laugh at, which leads back to "Attention and Noticing." He notices what you laugh at and what you don't. So he does just the right things to get you in your jokey, silly mood, so he knows that he can connect with you on a more nonsensical type of level. Compliments. He compliments the things you do. He compliments your hair, your smile, your style, your beauty, your walk, your talk, your class, your eyes, your maturity, your clothes, or something simple as your personality, or worse, your hand-writing. Lol. If a man actually takes the time out to "Notice" these things about you, and not only notice but "Compliment" you on them, he is so "Interested." Most men try to compliment on things that a friend or relative wouldn't. He wants to be different, unique, peculiar, so he does things differently and says things differently. He says these things so that you'll think about what he said when it happened 3 hours ago. He knows that if he said something that you aren't used to hearing, you'll be thinking all day, "I can't believe he noticed that." Conversation.Conversation is GREAT. Whenever you talk, whether it's in person, over the phone, or thru text messaging/internet messaging, it never gets old or dry. You can be on the phone with him for hours and hours and there is never a blank moment and you never get bored. Now, this is great because during the conversation, notice that he is trying to find something to connect with. A subject to stay steady on or he will switch subjects very often to see where your head is. Communication is key and if you don't have a good level of communication, no way he's interested. But with this, you'll know he's interested because he'll do a lot of the talking, a lot of asking questions, and try to keep you involved in the "Conversation." He'll try his best to keep you on the phone. Or he may simply let you talk and he listens, but he will never stay quiet if he is interested. He may no be the on to start the conversation or be the one making the approach. But when he starts to talk, he won't stop. We will show you "Attention" even thru communication, thru his conversation, by simply listening, and coming back with something to say. Common Factors. You guys have a lot in common. Most of the time when a guy likes you, he tries his best to find things in you that are similar to his own. [Speaking from personal experience]. My guy and me were talking and really goofing off. We kept going from subject to subject, and taking our conversations in circles. So I said to him, "It's amazing how we can go from subject to subject and still be able to keep up with each other." Then he said, "That's because we both are hyperactivity, we're both goofy, and we can do that." He would compare us being goofy and silly on the same meter very often. Because he wanted to find something in me that we had in common. Just like in this situation, he will find anything that you two have in common and try to keep it up in the relationship. He's trying to relate with you in the best way he can, but doing it from a male's perspective. See, he knows h can't relate to you on a girl-to-girl scale. So he tries it through things like personality, and interest. You're Mine. Guys are so jealous and protective. They have a mind state that says, "What's mine is mine." [Speaking from personal experience]. On Valentine's Day, this guy bought me a present and gave it to me in front of the guy that like me. The guy that likes me showed that he was jealous by messing with me. I assured him that nothing was going on with the guy and me and I didn't like him, he said, "I know and that's why I'm messing with you." Dead give a way. HE'S JEALOUS. Most guys, if they really like you, they don't want to see you with anyone else and they hate the thought of you with someone else other than them. He will try not to show that he's jealous, but come on, how good are guys with that? So he will joke about it and try to make fun of you and the other guy, which tells you right away that he doesn't like it. If a guy shows signs of jealousy when you are with another guy, such as, a friend, boyfriend, etc. He likes you and he wishes he could be in their shoes. The Relationship. Usually the relationship acts over a "hook." Maybe what started the relationship or maybe a common interest. I remember one relationship starting over a orange soda. Spectators believe that the goal in every relationship, in more ways than not, is to adopt a reflexive. Meaning that we should imitate a mirror; my heart beat should match yours, both in time and in pulse or you should be thinking what I'm thinking about, when I'm thinking about or something like, I say something that you were thinking about. True enough, opposites attract and chemistry teaches us that. But usually the very material that bonds them must be subsided or the very foundations of the relationship is held up without submission. How could a Buddhist marry a Christian? It wouldn't work. Either one will fold or both will hold "Differences." In a recent book I read, "Tuesdays With Morrie," the main character quotes a very important passage when another character was having problems at home. He says, "People will always work out, but their values wont." How true is that?

Answer 2

well..I think you should look and observe how he reacts towards you..and how he treats you within the presence of other people...does he not respect or recognize you in the presence of others...he has to be naturally nice...I don't mean he should fake...but you can see if he is faking..coz it will definitely appear to you one day if he is not real..so observe for him to treat you with respect that you deserve....