The abuser makes a critical psychological mistake called assumption. He assumes it's ok to abuse you. Why is it ok to abuse you? Because he makes another assumption: you are always wrong. He is predisposed to it. Also, he assumes that you are weaker; thus not only are you always wrong and he always right (according to him, because of another assumption: the strongest is always right), but you also cannot defend yourself. You do not have the power. Mind that this is all only in his mind and that none of the above is usually (if not ever) correct.
No i used it and I have nothing but good reviews for it.
no but you can't either cause he might murder you, you never no. call 911 RIGHT NOW to end it for good.
the states right have do a very good job because if there was no states right the women could not do almost nothing in the world
Once you leave your abuser put it in your mind that you are leaving him for good! There is no going back! Few abusers ever seek psychological help because they truly believe there is nothing wrong with them and no one is going to tell them otherwise. Some abusers will even fight the police and still swing at their victim while the police are standing right there. Abusers think they own their victim and that there are no authority figures that should be meddling in the abuser's personal affairs. YOU don't send the abuser to a program because he has to want to go. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. If he agrees to go he's pulling your chain! Abusers are sneaky and sick individuals and by believing he will go for help and you are still living there you are putting your life at risk. Physical abuse is not to be taken lightly and women are murdered for a lot less. Leave! Find out where your local "Abused Women's Center" is, or contact Mental Health and they will put you in the right direction. Not only does your abuser need help, but you have been psychologically bruised and you need some help in healing as well before you can expect to have a productive lifestyle. Good luck hon and be careful! Marcy
Nothing appears to be free
I wouldn't know because I'm not a gangsta but everyone has their opinions, so their isn't one right answer.
The minority opinions of today might be the majority opinions of tomorrow so it's good to let your opinions be heard for the future.
call the cops on the abuser, tell the abuser, and when he/she make just stares at you laugh like a maniac. You will be the center of attention in ur bf/gfs eyes.
It means that regardless of circumstances, hindrances and any obstacle, that a good person will always strive and will always do the right thing.
You two should seek counseling. Good luck and God Bless:)
yes, if they want to change then they will have to work as hard as they can. Change is hard but still good if you are changing to the good side.
she is really good