Is it crazy to kill yourself because you know that you cannot be with the special person you love?

Answer 1

Yes. Killing yourself is not your solution. You need to remain calm and sort through your thoughts. Think of how other people might feel if you killed yourself. They would probably be crushed, especially if they knew that they were the reason that you killed yourself.

It hurts right now. There is no question. What you suggest may seem like the only solution, or at least a better solution than getting up every day and feeling the same. The thing is, it will pass. Time does not heal all wounds; time doesn't heal any wounds. All time does is provide distance, and with distance the pain becomes more bearable. And, that is life, bearing the pain. Anyone who tells you otherwise has lived a pampered existence, and will crumble to dust with the first shock of pain.

Cliches are not what you need. You don't need proverbs either. What you need is to do this. Get up every morning and breathe. That's it, nothing more. Make no decisions that will affect you in the future until time has given you some distance. Just breathe. Eventually, you will have the strength for more.Don't rush it, let it come to you.

Finally, reach out to those who will listen, and leave the rest alone. You don't need pity. You don't need anyone to fix you or your situation. It is what it is. You can't make the other person love you, you can't make anyone love you. No one can. All we can hope for is that one day, someone who does love us will trip over us and realize they are not alone in the world. Then you won't be as alone either.

Yes, it is not worth it to kill yourself, especially over something like this. Think of the people who love you and who would be devastated by your death. Their lives would be ruined forever - literally. Do you want to put any family and friends through something like that just because you can't be with someone you love?

Just because you can't be with the person you love right now doesn't mean you won't love someone else one day, and that day will be sooner than you think. I don't know your age, but I would guess you to be fairly young. And it's been my experience that the younger a person is, the more extreme their reaction is when they can't have the person they love. I promise you, in six months or less, you will no longer be in love with this person, and will probably wonder what you ever saw in them. And would you really want to give up your life, not knowing what great things are just around the corner for you?

I do believe there is that "right" someone for everyone, but if you can't be with this person for whatever the reason is, then they are not that "right" someone for you. Call it fate, destiny, God, or whatever you want, but there is a reason why you can't be with this person, and it's because they are not the "right" one for you.

I know you are hurting right now, but you will not find happiness if you kill yourself. Not only will killing yourself not solve anything, but you will have robbed yourself of all chances of great happiness just a bit further down the road. There is no one on this earth worth killing yourself over - no one!

Even though the pain is really bad right now, I promise you it will go away. So allow yourself a short time to grieve for the one you love, then move on with your life and live the best life you can.

You are not the first one to not be able to be with the one you love, nor will you be the last. So please forget about killing yourself. Killing yourself might solve your problems but it might create misery and hell for your family and friends for a lifetime. Follow all the advice on this page, you will not regret it. We promise.

We promise you that it is only how you feel now. The majority of people have been there and experienced that. Trust us, it eventually passes no matter how painful it is now.Killing yourself is not a solution to life, even though it may feel like it now. Try very hard to allow time to pass, allow your wounds to heal. Focus on very simple everyday things. In addition, if you have family, other people would feel bad if you killed yourself. Please tell those who care about you how you feel and ask them to help you.

If you have nobody to talk to about this, ask a minister, priest, doctor, or health care adviser, etc., to help. If you cannot do that, please ask any supervisor on this website(Answers.com/WikiAnswers.com) to help you.

Suicide Prevention HotlinesDepending on where you live, you can call the Suicide Prevention Hotline at one of the numbers below. They can also give you the number to counseling services, as well as other organizations that can help. If you prefer private counseling instead of group therapy, but can't afford the costs, call the colleges/universities in your area. Many of them offer counseling services for very low fees, much lower than a therapist in private practice would cost, and some may even be free.

The emergency help numbers for the following countries are:

• US 1-800-784-2433 (toll-free) or 911
• UK 08457 90 90 90 or 999
• Ireland 1850 60 90 90
• Australia, call Lifeline on 13 11 14 (local call) orKids Help Line on 1800 55 1800 (toll-free)
• Europe 112

Call the emergency number for the country you are in, right now, and tell them that you are thinking about suicide. You will not have to give them your name if you don't want to, so you can speak freely and honestly to them. They are trained, skilled, and compassionate people who really do care and want to help you. All you have to do is just make that call.

Answer 2

It is not crazy, but it is important to seek help and support from loved ones, friends, or a mental health professional. There are always other ways to cope with difficult emotions and situations that don't involve self-harm. Your life is valuable and there are people who care about you and want to help.