Breakups

Deal with it. There is nothing you can do about it, trust me. You are not cheating on him since you broke up; what difference does it make? It is good for you to have moved on, hopefully to someone who will keep their commitments to you. Let it be and move forward. Question: What if you still love ur ex and can't get him out of ur head. Then what? well you should brake up with the other one if our x-boyfriend still loves you.

I am not sure but he may have realized that you guys are better off as friends..He may like you but like someone else at the same time so by saying something like this he has you around too...How did the relationship start?Were you guys best friends before you guys were boyfriend girlfriend?These are the key questions..

This situation should never happen in the first place. Instead of good old communication and expressing one's feelings the person who feels unloved (and many like her) make up all kinds of excuses to fit the scenario instead of communicating. They feel cheating is easier, but it's unfair to their mate because the woman hasn't made one bit of effort to truly communicate her feelings and work on her marriage (same goes for guys.) Cheating is cheap and there is no excuse for it. You either decide you aren't happy in the relationship and make a clean break and are free to date others, but, the person cheating is selfish and inwardly feels if it doesn't work out in the affair they can go back to their mate like a comfy old slipper. If I were the woman that cheated (and I wouldn't) and my long-term boyfriend cried I'd feel lower than a snake's belly and realize I'd made one terrible mistake and also how selfish I had been not to even try at the relationship and had come not only become unavailable to other's feelings, but had made up excuses for the actions I took. That depends on the womans compassion. Obviously, the respect is not there if she cheated on a long time love. If she has a heart it may bother her, if she no longer has feelings for him, it may not.

Women can be challenging at best and sometimes you just don't know what is going on in their wee minds (I know, I'm one of them! LOL) One thing about most women is it's not all about going together, being married, having children, but feelings. To be able to talk to your partner about ANYTHING without sex always being involved. To be able to cuddle without sex and just talk about interesting things between the two of you or about your hopes and dreams for the future. Sometimes the woman may be sad and not know why and all it takes is an arm around her shoulder and ask if you can do anything for her. Perhaps buying her a nice card that simple says 'I love you' or buying her some flowers (doesn't have to be expensive.) Trying to make her laugh when she's down or making her see that there isn't anything you both can't beat in this world if you stick together. This is a tall order for young men! It takes practice and wisdom. There is a movie I hope you will rent and it's an old one called, "The Scent of Woman." Al Pacino is in it and he's blind, but my, does he know women and how to treat them! I have met many lovely men in my lifetime and I'm married to one so it's possible men can show their emotions (they do have them) and cut loose. Yes, I think you should go after this young woman. Apologize, tell her you love her and you sure didn't mean to mess up. Tell her you love her enough to really make another go of it, but you both have to do it together. Bringing flowers wouldn't hurt! Be yourself, NEVER be afraid to show her your emotional side. Men in the past have been brainwashed into thinking they shouldn't express deep emotions or cry and that's one load of garbage. Men hurt, feel loss, get frustrated and frightened and a great man isn't afraid to admit it or show it!

actually victor drija is going out with oriana from "somos tu y yo" they were interviewed on the last day of casting and he gave her a present and kissed her on the lips. and they admitted too. I'm not sure if they are still together because I think he might be with sheryl rubio his co-star in the show but if not he is still going out with oriana

• If you feel you have matured and are more secure with yourself and now believe she is the right girl for you try telephone her (not texting her) and ask her if she will meet you somewhere quiet at one of your favorite places and tell her how you felt back then, but you have matured and want to get back together. You have hurt her a great deal by breaking up with her and whether you felt you were not good enough for her or not she probably thought you were ditching her for another girl. Explain how you felt and why you broke up. Let her know you have been miserable without her. If she is over you or has another boyfriend then ask her if you can at least come and get your things from her place (it's illegal for her not to give them to you if she has not asked you in the past to pick up your things) and then move on.

Becky tries to make Tom jelous by going up to other buys and hugging them and being a HUGE flirt with everyone. But in the end Tom doesn't like Becky and doesn't really care what she does.

get over it :P haha shame, he dumped you!

It could mean that you still love him/her or that you are completely over him/her and that you feel sorry for them

Get a better look! but if the chemistry just isn't right then no point in trying

• Most guys don't like girls to flirt too much with them (most guys love the adventure and mystery of trying to win the girl over.) It would be wise for you to restrain yourself from too much flirting, but just enough so that he knows you are 'sort' of interested in him. If he is treating you nicely and more so than anyone else then he probably likes you enough to ask you out on a date. Maintain that restraint of too much flirting and keep him guessing.
  

well dreams don't mean anything, and its not like your psychic or anything. Ignore it!

cry. its a winner.

love???? should i have to say any more. if you love her buddy, go for it!!!!!!!! maybe she made mistakes, just as you did, get over them! shes having a baby, good for her, good for you, this means she needs your support more now than ever. You LOVE eachother, so................ just love eachother. have a happy life.

Sure why not. Sure why not.

Some exes can be friends, but it usually takes some time lapse before this occurs. Both people need to have moved on; they're no longer interested in a relationship with eachother.

The problem with being friends immediately after a breakup is that it's often used as way of clinging on to hopes that they can renew a relationship with an ex at some point down the road. Instead of moving on, they invest time and attention into the ex, trying to read meaning into their words and actions, becoming hurt and resentful when the ex displays interest in and starts dating other people. It doesn't mean you should hate your ex or totally cut him from your life, but it's not a bad idea to give yourself some space right now so that you don't fall into this loop. When you do run into your ex from time to time, let him see the best of you--but don't put your life on hold for this man.

Our divorce is very hard on our whole family. Our choices have hurt everyone. As far as alimony, your comment is a joke. He still receives it while he competes against Mattress World. He is a good man and should follow his dreams. He has helped raise 2 wonderful sons. I am not perfect, and never thought i have been. 20 years of therapy have help me just except who I am. I have always thought people should not judge others and leave that up to God or Karma.... any way. I am quirky, over weight, just me. Please help the world be a better place and put your energy towards make this world a better place.

You cannot "force" or "make" someone feel something they may not. Let him know how you feel and what you would like then give him some time to think about things. Don't be overbearing, pushy or seem needy. If it just doesn't happen then its time to accept things and move on. Sometimes we may have overwhelming feelings for someone that are just not reciprocated and rejection is simply a part of life - granted not a nice one but we learn from these things and take them with us in the future. Accept things, allow yourself to move forward and who knows whats waiting ahead for you - think positive.

If you love someone that doesn't love you back then you need to get on with your life. If he/she doesn't love you then why would you still continue to make them love you. It wouldn't be called love if you forced he/she to love you because then it would be called lust not love. Maybe you love one is someone else not him/her, ok. Now if you have went with this person and you broke up then don't you think it's time to, keep stepping. I know it's hard but life comes with acceptance and rejections , just like college.

tell him to shut up and then you go and find another guy

That's exactly what I was going to say!

This means that he is hurt and needs some time to get over the break up.

Why on earth would you want to show him that being with you was the best thing that could have happened to him? He's a preditor of women and he wouldn't know a good woman if one bit him in the butt! Thank your lucky stars you are rid of this jerk and can move on. If you don't respect yourself and waste your time trying to prove to this guy that he had a good thing in you, then you are going to miss out on some terrific men that really do care about you. Kick this jerk to the curb! Good luck Marcy

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He's not ready to settle down and will continue to fool around as long as you let him He just says he loves you to get what he wants Let him have his freedom WITHOUT having you He's not worth it Love yourself and have some self esteem You don't need someone who wants to fool around on you If You married him he'd get bored and ditch you for someone else later on By then youd have kids and everyone would get hurt