Breakups

A narcissist knows nothing about love. That word does not exist for these monsters. They leave a realtionship for a variety of reasons. Like for one: They are not getting enough attention from the spouse. Remember it is all about them. They have no feelings and never have so they they can't relate to feelings. They leave a realtionship for sex, because they may not be getting what they want from their spouse. Keep in mind, they simply only care about themselves not about anyone around them. Sometimes it takes several people to possibly please them or provide them with enough Narcissitic supply (food source for them)and if what they want hurts someone they could care less.They are emotional vampires. If you are with one run as fast as you can away or you will end up emotionally drained and broken hearted. There is no cure for these freaks. Mine left over 50 times in 5 years...but he ALWAYS return because he does know I love him and I can remind him of his accomplishments unlike a new partner. So they'll leave but not really cut off contact because we are their supply.

he means he was not thinking right.. lo siento

• Your ex is ego tripping and considers the fact that everyone should be honored to have any attention from them. Your ex may want his cake and eat it too ... don't all for it! He may want a sexual relationship only without any commitment. Tell him to hit the bricks and you should get out in the dating circuit again and eventually meet the right person you should be with.
  

This is not easy I know... But u definitely deserve better.. Those who betray ur trust and love are not worth to remember.. Also keep one thing in mind as he/she betrayed u they will do that to others too.. It better off such people... Good luck :)

• You have a lack of self confidence in yourself and possibly fear the future for that you will be alone for a long period of time, but not true! You have become far too dependent on your ex before, during and after and it is time you leaned on family and trusted friends and walk away from your ex. Cheating is cheap; selfish and hurts those around both of you and degrades you when you know full well your ex has another partner. He is getting the best of both worlds knowing he can come back to you whenever he pleases for a sexual relationship (and that is all it is) and then staying with his partner at the same time. Kick this man to the curb and venture out into the reality of life; start seeing friends; socialize because by doing this you will meet more people and eventually find your true love.

• When some individuals are very nice and are a good and willing friends sometimes one or more of their friends will take advantage of those good qualities in their friend. Expect more from your friends and stand up for yourself by learning to say the word 'no' every so often and when you do they no longer have the power to manipulate you.

nah tht jus akward! :|

Well, if you want your ex-girlfriend back, it obviously means that you still have feelings for her.

First thing you should do, is make sure that your feelings are certain.

If you're 10000000% sure, divorce with your wife, i know it hurts, but you gotta do it if you have feelings for another woman.

You can explain to her if you want, it all depends.

Also, be sure to be certain that things are gonna last with your ex-girlfriend.

Unfortunately she has already made her choice as you already set the president. Once the damage is done it is hard to believe one can change especially if it has been a short period of time as one would say anything to get back what they lost. It is best you let her be now and move forward and learn from all of this - really take the time to fix what is considered to be your "bad habits" as to not repeat this in future relationships.

You're treading into a messy situation here. It's not against the law to date an ex's best friend (or to date a best friend's ex), but it's unwise to ignore all of the potential consequences that most likely will occur if you get with this person.

Their friendship will be severely altered if not severed; and even if you don't care about that, consider what happens if the best friend decides to confide in your ex, either while dating you or after the romance is over. Are you fine with having all your dirty laundry--your bad habits, everything you did to and with the ex and the best friend---hashed over and scrutinized? Having your new girlfriend ask you about why you did this and this with the ex?

It doesn't matter how attractive she is----there's only a few billion other women in the world you could go after and not have to deal with this much drama.

If he broke up with you that would indicate that he does not want to be in a relationship with you for whatever his reasons and chances are he doesn't still want to be with you because if that was the case he wouldn't have left. I realize that is not what you want to hear but it may be the reality of the situation. You need to take time for yourself, let go and move forward.

The purpose of pain in relationship break ups is to teach us not to make the same mistake again.

**The body feels pain so that you do not go further in the action that caused the pain and inflict real damage to muscle and bone.

It's so you can react and not hurt your body

Then he's not ready for you: you should move on and find someone who's ready to be in a relationship with you.

You're approaching all of this in an overly dramatic way, which is bound to fail.

If you like him, tell him so, and see if he wants to try dating.

If you don't, then stop wasting time on him and move on.

There are many reasons, but the one I go with is that they think that their girlfriend isn't good enough for them anymore, so to make themselves happy, they go and find someone who they think is the girl they're looking for. But in the end, they won't have either one.

However, this isn't always the case. Sometimes it's just a matter of them not being happy with themselves. People who feel dissatisfied with their life often look for improvement in all the wrong places, and one should be aware that it isn't always the men that make this mistake; women are just as guilty. They're looking for something that is going to make them feel better. Maybe they miss the thrill and excitement that you lose when you're with someone for a long time, or maybe they're just bored with their life in general (similar to a mid-life crisis). They get bored with life and want more, but they fail to really think of the long term effects. They don't consider how much damage it could do to their relationship or that it could change their whole life, and not always for the better.

Cheating is always wrong; no exception's. If you aren't happy with someone you should be frank and honest with them before looking for somebody else. Trying to have your cake and eat it too is just morally wrong and selfish. This isn't so much an opinion. When you take vows in marriage, you make a commitment to someone, and hurting someone in this way can be really damaging to them. Even if you aren't married, cheating is still wrong.

talk to him... try to find the right solution for u, him + da baby

you need to be ther for her and not force her to move to fast. if you make sure and have a good time and keep it light and fun for awhile she'll kinda forget about the vow and let herself open up and be open to the joy she has now. don't push her about a relationship, don't be too clingy and up her tail all the time give her some space to heal but make sure and show her it doesn't have to be all serious all the time. when women smile alot you've done a good jpb opf making her feel special.

there is no such thing as miss world !

are you kidding me? of course there is such thing as miss world. get your facts straight before you post . idiot. it was as simple as typing miss world in on Google or youtube to see that is IS real. the site has no information on how to become miss world tho. i'd recommend miss America or miss usa. they are both more well known however with miss America it is much less of a beauty pageant, it's a scholarship program. definitely do miss USA and then continue on to miss universe if you are looking for a legit beauty pageant.

Never stay with someone that is not in love with you. They don't have "staying power." Your life will be miserable. Think of this: You could get the same treatment by having a female roommate, so why stick this one out. You deserve better! It is not up to you to make her feel more secure in herself. It's a road all of us have to take alone. We learn from others, and as we get older we get wiser and feel more secure in ourselves. It's time to move on. Don't feel guilty about it. She survived before you came into the picture and she will continue to survive. Don't cheat yourself out of a young woman who is willing to love you for you. Good luck Marcy

Remember the time you and him were just strangers and you didn't care about him at all? Well,you have to try and go back to stage 1.Try to see him as another strange face in the crowd..We can't really help you get over him because these are feelings you're talking about. I was in a similar situation before and on top of seeing him all the time, I had to see him with his new girlfriend.Funny thing is it didn't bother me one bit.I realized it wasn't him that I missed but the moments with him..There soon will be someone else living those moments with you..Good Luck..time heals everything and he too will become a past..

The question really is why do you care? You shouldn't want to be with anyone who treats you with such disrespect. Including your so called friends. Read some self help books to build your self-esteem. == Narcissists DO NOT CHANGE. Sure they will be happy - for a while. Then WHAM!! He and she doing and saying this to HURT YOU. The less you care, the more disposable she will be. Stop caring!! be glad he's not with you and he's someone else's problem now.

Does he usually show this lack of effort? Saying happy valentines day isn't hard is it! And if he was broke he still could have put in the effort to make you a card, or do something special for you that didn't require money e.g cooking you a meal. That's would id do if i was broke anyway. Have you notice weird encounters with him? Any signs he's cheating on you? If you think he's lying to you, I think you should. There are many more guys in the world that love you but are nervous to tell you because you have a boyfriend, by the way I'm a girl. I know he has hurt you, but not saying Happy Valentine's Day shouldn't be enough to split you up. Start communicating! Tell him how you feel. Some men just don't get it when they are young while other young men can't do enough for their girlfriends. If he's forgotten your birthday or other special occasions either you have one lazy boyfriend; he doesn't care or he's fooling around. Get to the bottom of it and if he doesn't seem interested in your feelings then kick this guy to the curb. When I was first going with my husband he was laid-off temporarily from a Union strike and had little money. He bought me one red rose and a card. I was so thrilled and it meant so much for me (even though these past 35 years he has given me a dozen red roses at Valentine's Day) that one red rose meant more to me than anything. I ended up pressing it in a book and still have it. You deserve better hon!

You need to respect her needs. She needs someone that she can trust; you have violated that trust and she is saying that she can't trust you any longer. Your most responsible and mature option would be to be mature, give her the space she needs and learn from your mistake IF you decide to become involved in another relationship with a DIFFERENT person. Life is about learning from our mistakes. Couldn't have put it better myself. You figured you found somebody better, hurt your girlfriend over it and now you "want her back." For how long this time before you find somebody better? Move on Jack, this one is all done for you.

You need to find out within yourself what love means to you. To most of us love can't really be defined and the best we can answer is to love that person with all your heart (can't wait to see them) treat the person with respect, honesty and loyalty and know that you will be there 100% for them .... now here's the kicker .... "You have enough self respect and confidence to expect the same treatment back." Move on! This girl doesn't seem to be for you. You seem like a nice guy so be a little more selective of who you date. There are 3 - 4 more times the amount of women in this world than men, so you'd be like a kid in a candy shop! Good luck