Breakups

The fastest thing known to man in the universe is light. Light travels at a speed just over 186,000 miles a second. However, I believe there is something that travels faster; bad gossip (rumor). Stay away from it, and urge others to do the same until all facts become known. Remember, no one sees reality in its most purest and perfect form. We interpret what we hear, what we see, what we read, and we call that reality, and it could be the furthest thing from the truth. It's a matter of perception. Perceptions can be correct and on-target, or false and/or inaccurate. Stay away from rumor and urge others to do the same. It can only come back to bite you in the butt!

* Only he would have the answer to this question and if you are that curious you should try to meet with him and hopefully get an answer out of him. You would have known his personality to some degree so if he acted self centered, didn't have your best interests at heart then is isn't ready to commit and is selfish enough to not care how he hurts others. Don't sit around and mope over this and start getting out with friends and back into the dating circuit. People such as this guy will get a taste of his own medicine sooner or later. Here's a good quote for this situation 'the head of the snake will eventually bite you in the butt!' This simply means when a person dates someone and isn't respectful towards them and is selfish and immature enough to leave them hanging then they will get what they deserve sooner or later.

He wants to have sex with you.

you could tell 2 your parents tht u broke up but really just meet with him when they dont know

You am, am You? I see why your struggling. Married people that want to stay married don't do these things.

This guy needs a smack in the face of reality! What goes around comes around. "EX" means just that and he no longer has ANY say in what his girlfriend does or whom she sees. Why should she care? She should move on and quit worrying about what her ex thinks. She is now dubbed "a free spirit!" Marcy Absolutely NOT!! Tell him he has no right to dictate who you speak to, or even who you date!!! HE cheated, you are moving on which is good, and if he tries interefering I would tell him he needs to stop obsessing and move on. This is for the best as he is being totally unresonable.

If both of you are available, try asking this person out on a date. Start over and see where it goes from there. If one or both of you is involved in a relationship, then you are out of luck. Just be friends.

I would ask them out if they are single. Keep in mind that sometimes when we run into ex's from our past we can create nostalgia because maybe our present is a bit lonely and /or boring. Im not saying this is what is happening with you. But sometimes we romanticize the one that got away. Usually its best to keep moving forward and welcome the future. But sometimes its meant to be and it comes back.

Hi John It depends on the two individuals. Some people like the thought of "opposites attracts" because it makes life very interesting while others prefer someone that thinks and acts like they do (personality wise.) It appears unfortunately you ex girlfriend is the latter. At least she was honest. Don't feel too bad. There are 3 - 4 times more women in the world than men and you'll be like a kid in a candy shop. There is a special girl out there for you and like many of us, there are just certain roads we have to go down (sometimes it hurts us emotionally) before we find that special someone. Good luck

DON'T PAY a Psychic online!!!! They are phonies and most aren't even Psychics and have other people answering your questions. It's a waste of money! I'm afraid you are going to just have to do it the old fashion way. You have a choice of phoning him and setting up a time; you could go out to a favorite hang-out and discuss your relationship, or, if he has a girlfriend then you are going to have to walk away no matter how painful it is. If you were meant to be together you will be. When I met my second husband we split-up for 6 months only because I refused to live together and deal was he married me or kept on going. It was very painful, but I filled in my time with work, fun with my friends, dated other guys. I was attending a wedding for friends of both my 2nd husband and I and he was Best man and I was a Bridesmaid. He hardly spoke to me at the wedding and I thought that it was over and decided to get on with my life. Lo and behold within the middle the following week he finally found the courage to call me (he told me his mom got mad at him and said if he loved me to call me.) I didn't make it easy on him because I never wanted him to pull that off on me again and he never did. We have now been married 35 years. So, there is hope. Meanwhile get out with those friends of yours and you just never know, you could meet that special guy that you really should be with.

maybe, and maybe not. It could just be her extreme way of actually trying to get you to give her the attention she needs. see how you can change urself to better the situation. Take her out. make her feel special. Buy her a gift for no apparent reason. cook for her. tell her u appreciate her when she does something/anything for u. give her a bedtime massage. etc. discuss with her what she needs, and tell her u will give her what she needs. But also, tell her it is wrong to be staying over with that guy.

U both can work things out, just find things URL both could do to suit each others needs. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but effort makes its beauty a reality.

:)... all the best, and God Bless ur marriage.

You've got to ask him. When you as him look at him watch everything he does. You can tell if he's lying or if he's completely sincere. Flirting could be unintentional but you never know. Until you ask!

The bottom line is this: First of all, do not focus on him. Focus on yourself. How do YOU feel??? ALWAYS use your "Internal guidance system." Keep it simple!!! You either feel good or you don't. Don't over think it. Never be desperate. This situation is just one of your many life lessons. There are plenty of young men who will treat you with the respect you deserve, but we teach people how we want to be treated. Break the habit NOW of accepting unacceptable behavior in a boyfriend. He's doing this because he can! Once you are very clear in your head about what you want in a relationship, you WILL automatically attract those that are in vibration with you. This is a fact!!!

Like a delicate sea shell, or a snail shell I guess.

• Since you know that your boyfriend's mom has talked to him then he knows what he hadn't done would hurt you and he should be communicating that to you. Good communication skills are a must in a relationship so sit down with your boyfriend calmly and gently try to get the information out of him. If he refuses then you will have to nudge him a bit by telling him that if he loves you enough he should trust you enough to tell you and perhaps the two of you can work the problem out.

(coming from a guy) if you still love them tell them. if they are shy or afraid of commitment talk with them about that.put yourself in their shoes

dont you rather he knows the truth then be played. if you really care about him and you dont want to break his heart then you should be honest with him.

mainly because of the fact he didnt like/enjoy the way she misused her powers...(mindreading ect.) he thought it would be better if he.....let her go, AND because of his ageing issue . he didnt much like the fact he'd look that way....forever .

Toma has stated in recent interviews that he's currently too busy with work to have a girlfriend. Lately there has been a dumb FAKE rumor claiming that Toma is dating a girl from Malaysia. Ignore it since there is simply NO PROOF and just one of many stupid rumors created on the internet and people who like to believe everything they read keep spreading it around.

Sometimes they really feel they don't want to hurt you but don't want to be with you either and most times we want to think they will come back but the chances as slim to none. It is best not to wait around what just may not happen.

Sometimes they can be sincere but basically he is trying to let you down easy without causing a fuss but wants to move on. Let him go, let go and move on.

I think you both need to sit down and decide how things are going to play out as if you cannot get over her but live together and she wants nothing more than friends it would be best for both of you to not live together.

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Yes if he realises you were a better human being or a better lover but Do u want him back anymore...he would do this again to you...leave u for someone who he thinks is better...HE is'nt worth it if he left you for someone else.

There are many issues that cause insecurities in relationships; these can stem from either or both having fears, self estem issues, trust problems, these can all have an effect on a relationship especially if both have some.