Breakups

well i think that you should talk to him or her about what you think you should do and if you don't want to talk to him or her then do what you feel is right

No, they have always been just friends.

play along with it then all of a sudden change to not being jelouse and stay that way.

truth be told, he never stopped loving you, men like to do things because they want to know that you still love them

I heard that as a kid from my grandparents - it's a common expression in Yiddish "Lukh in kopf" means "hole in the head", and they'd say "You need that like you need a lukh in kopf"

Don't know if Yiddish is the true origin though....

like poop

Your brother had his personal reasons for break up with his girlfriend so you will have to respect him for that. Basically all you can do is let him know that you are sorry things didn't work out for the both of them and that you love him and are there for him if he wants to talk things out. All you can do is hope he takes you up on that offer and if not, then he will handle it and move on eventually from the break up.

Well there aren't very many things that are always relationship killers. What might seem a reason to break up with you for one man doesn't necessarily mean it is for another man.

Cheating would be one of the things that are most of the time dealbreakers.

but I can't give you a list of reasons that are universal for all people I'm afraid.

Some men break up with a woman for having freckles so to speak, and others tolerate absolutely everything. You're just gonna have to find out the boundaries yourself. Talk to your boyfriend, so you get a pretty good picture of the things he can't abide, and the things he values most in a relationship. Only he can give you the information you need about this. So talk to him, it'll help, trust me.

Heres the thing, Me and my ex have been together for 5 yrs.. High school sweethearts.

We broke up twice.. the first time i broke up with him because i was young and wanted to experience more.. we remained friends for a short period of time. We talked for a little be here and there.. Then about a year later we Started talkin again. and we got back together. remaind 2gether for 3 yrs. About six months we broke up. Over misunderstanding.. He then a month later started dating someone. But like 6 months later. We started talking again as friends. Him and the girl broke up 2 months after that. Me and him talked about if there was a chance of us getting together. He was like there is a chance, blah blah blah. just not right now.. which i understand completely. My question basically is..Do you think that theres a reason we keep coming back together?

and Do you think he still loves me?

no. it depends on how far you'll think it will end. he likes you that's a good thing there's something there that sparkles. but he should always love you no matter what you did was wrong, how much you put him through it should be all love. and also remember its not about your husband its about your kids,you have 5 KIDS!!!! atleast put them first. they need both of you guys and if he can't understand then try taking care of it on your own. its good that he cares about you but that should mean he loves you. care is love. so he does love ya.

There have actually been many cases where a guy still hangs out with an ex or vice versa where they no longer have any kind of romantical interest anymore. Usually when someone moves on they don't want to deal with the drama. However, in instances where you find yourself being neglected and ignored because he's been making a lot of plans with his ex, then it's probably time for a talk and serious changes.

No. I went through that. It was nothing but heartache and not feeling good enough. If hes not sure, make the decision for him and end it. It is really up to you, but if he seemd sure then probably not, there is no point pushing him. Stay if having a casual relationship is OK with you, if you aren't looking for a serious relationship either then it should be no problem, its ok to have fun. But if you want more, then be honest with him. Maybe he'll come around if he feels he is losing you, maybe you'll get his true feelings. Good luck Nope, you are wasting your time. Leaving him will make him think and if he realizes you are more important than his fear of committment, then he will come after you. Otherwise, spread your wings and fly away. Find a new man who will give you what you need. Well it's up to you want yes eventually he'll come around to the idea but you have to decide if you want to continue hoping and wishing that may next week or next year or next month he's going to get serious about you and him. It's up to you no one can tell you what to do because I'm not there I don't know but if you feel like you could stick it out without having a serious relationship then go for it otherwise let it go. Its totally up to you but in my opinion you should "take a break" if he misses you and decides to come around then you know he is worth it..otherwise you'll know to move on and find someone who is worth it.. Drop him like a hot potato and let him sweat. He will come back like a dog with hsi tail between his legs and if not then he wasnt worth it. You be the boss more. Its spose to be mutual in relationships and he has too much power. You take some back!

• Since you feel you are old enough to date then you must consider yourself mature enough to do so and that means acting like a man! Face her and break up with her and give her a reason in as kind and gentle a way as possible. You should learn to be more responsible for your own actions as there will not be someone there throughout your life to clean up the mistakes you make in your life.

STEP Nine of the 12-Step Program says,

"Made direct amends to such people [I've harmed] wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others."

Making amends is something all recovering addicts need to become good at. It's also something that every Christian needs to become adept at - every human being is called to such a task; a noble one in human terms because it's a divine mandate.

Making amends, or otherwise, restitution, makes right (or better) what was wrong, where it's possible. Sometimes it isn't possible, so repentance (the commitment not to do it again) or forgiveness are the only actions available.

But where it is possible, it ought never to be done at the risk of hurting other people. Making amends is a loving activity and if our making amends hurts people we've failed love.

These are some considerations to ensure the making of our amends doesn't make things worse:

1. Our motives for making amends must always be checked. If it's really to make us feel better we have more thinking to do. But if we make amends in the hope the other person/people will benefit, we have the right bearing to begin with.

2. Once we have the right bearing, next we have the opportunity of prayer; to carry the item of restitution with us for a time. It could be days. It could be months. We're in a position where we can't afford to get the approach and delivery wrong.

3. Test the water. We ought to gauge whether they're in the right position for our making of amends. We can do that by giving them a little heads-up; some idea of what we'd like to do, to find out if it were to be permissible to them.

4. Sometimes the truth will hurt no matter how or when it's told. But if we're the perpetrators of the hurt, we'll do all we can to set up the communication of truth so it protects others, even if that means we have to pay those costs. The simple fact is the truth is more important than the perpetrator's own protection.

5. At other times we'll figure that making amends isn't possible for the time being, or perhaps ever. Too much risk for collateral damage exists. But a making amends that's viable at all times is simply doing our best to bless the other person's life.

6. Blessing another person's life is a matter of interceding for them in our daily prayers, as well as seeking to please them any way we can. If we've hurt someone significantly we owe them our safety - to be a safe (non-combative) and affirming influence in their lives. Blessing another person is about relieving burdens, not adding to them.

7. Making significant amends is also a commitment to never hurt this person (or people) like this ever again. This, many times, is a thorough daily re-commitment.

In making amends we must never make things worse. We must not traumatise people. Making amends is improving someone's life, not making their lives worse.

If they care about you and they are always there for you. You can tell if there your BFF if they know what hurts you and what makes you happy. If they make fun of you, or they laugh at somthing that really hurt you, then there not your true Best Friend. But only you can figure out if there your Best Friend.

It means you need a new boyfriend.

You wait until he talks to you. Don't bug him all the time. Give your man some space, and sooner or later he will come around. And if things don't work out remember he is the one missing out on a good thing. But most likely sooner or later and he start to miss every thing he likes about you!!!

It is best. It will prove to him and yourself that you have moved on and completely over him,you can't put your life on standby becaus he will be around.

Spring is considered the season of love, and thus many people find another love. The odds are generally coincidences, however.

u really cant get your girlfriend not to break up with you. If you try that will make her want to break up with you even more. Trust me im a girl and i hate it when guys try to make me not break up with them. If i am breaking up with them i have to have a reason. So if your a guy with a girl who is going to break up with you its either because you did something wrong and she didnt like it or because she wants someone who will treat her with respect and loyalty! Thank. You. GoodBye.

just be honest and tell him its not a big deal its hard but say i want to break up and be honest

• No, you should not ask your boyfriend about his ex girlfriends anymore than he should ask you about your ex boyfriends because it was in the past and manners dominate discussing past relationships as they were private at the time. Just enjoy each other and looking back at the past stunts you from getting on with the future.

That is great - there is no reason you cannot be friends after a break up. Just because you dated does not mean you cannot be friends after the fact he obviously enjoys be around you as friends but realizes he is not interested more than that. I understand that you may be upset over the break up but you will understand eventually that things move forward and its just better all around and mature to stay friends.