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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Is cheating grounds for divorce in Alabama?

It depends on how you define cheating. If it was adulterous in nature, then yes.

Im Pregnant and have been abandoned?

then dont have sex now u have learnt ur lesson

Should i keep contact with him even if he was the one who finished with me. He says he loves me an needs time to think about what he wants. He says he needs to do this if we are to have a future?

If you were to explore human nature you may come to the conclusion that our needs are always based around who we are in this world. When someone tells you that they are in love with you but need to think about what they want, then you have no choice but to step away. There are many reasons for this, but I think the biggest argument for doing that is the preservation of your self asteem. For you there is the torture of waiting, of wanting them and loving them. You wait day by day, afraid to push them, afraid to step away. No matter what their motivations for this decision he/she is telling you they are not sure they want to be with you, you cant escape that. Now spend one moment and ask yourself if this person is honest, dont let your love for them cloud the answer, trust your first internal instinct to answer to that question, is it yes or no. If you know them to be real and honest, then accept that they are taking their courage in their hands and treating you with the respect that you deserve and no matter what the end result of their soul searching, they care about you and understand their responsibilities to themselves and to you enough to be honest. We often have little control in our lives, what we do have control over is how we let something affect us. So what are your rules? Mine would be........... an allowance of time, four, six weeks? I would say to this person I love you and I am willing to give you this time but only this time, I shall expect you decision. Then I would step away, I would fill my days and nights with things that relax me and please me. Under no circumstances would I contact them, I would let them come to me, give them the experience of possibly missing me, let them taste a life without me in it. Please remember the greatest love is one that is given to you freely, because then you will have all of that person. Do you really want anything less ?

How do you get out of a long-term relationship if you are comfortable with them and live together?

No break up is easy or pain free. As your the person wanting the breakup, it's a good idea that you should be the one that moves out (if your are renting). Start saving your money and ask a friend or family member if you can move in with them until you can find a place of your own. Be honest with your partner that you don't feel compatible anymore and you believe it's for the best that you end the relationship. If they're living with you at your residence. . .again, be honest, but ask them to move out. Give them a couple of weeks to a month to find a new place. It won't be comfortable for either of you, but staying for years in a dead end relationship isn't good for either of you. Long term? Be honest. Straight out - let your partner know you no longer feel the way you use to. Don't lie - don't find an out - be honest. They deserve that much.

If your ex was with his girlfriend for a year then you got together why would he break up with you for her but still say he loves you and cheats on her with you?

Well to me it sounds like your ex has the biggest male eagle ever, if he wants to be with this other girl then let him but don't let him do the dirty on her and cheat with you. Come on if it was the other way round it wouldn't be nice on you right? Just give up on him, ok so it maybe hard but face it, its better then getting all upset about it. My advice is forget about him and move on. Dont talk to him, don't give him the satisfaction. He obviously is keeping his options open. What do you think he would do if he split up with her? Yeah come running back to you because he knows you ould take him back. So be strong girl and don't let him walk all over you, and if he does truly like you he will split up with her and be with you properly, not just as a bit on the side.

AnswerMany guys have no sense of loyalty or honor and are pleased to "get a little" anywhere they can. If you're giving it out while he has a girlfriend, he's happy. Maybe the girlfriend doesn't want to be sexually active before marriage and he thinks she will be a great wife so he wants to hang on to her for the future, but he wants a little sexual gratification so he turns to you. Not very moral or honorable, but some guys are that way.

An even more disloyal possibility is that his current girlfriend is sexually active with him but he likes a little variety, so he calls on you.

Either way, he doesn't seem very mature.

You're being jerked aroundIt means you're being jerked around and should break it off cleanly with him or her.

How do you get your ex boyfriend back when he broke up with you because he was stressed?

I'm sorry hun! The same thing happened to me. Just remember this saying.....If a guy really loves you, set him free. If he comes back, he was yours, if he doesn't, then it was never meant to be. If he loves you, he won't be able to be without you. I had to wait a month for mine to come back to me.

What is the meaning of love begets love?

Begets means 'to cause', i.e. if you love someone they will love you back.

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Just because you love someone, doesn't necessarily mean they will love you back. What this quote really means is that in order to be loved, you must be willing to love. It's similar to "love is a two-way street"; you can't expect to be loved if you won't love that person in return.

If I broke up with my boyfriend and he moved on after only 2 weeks to another girl is there a chance we can get back together?

He might have went to that girl as a "re-bound." He may have some feelings for the girl but he has to have the same feelings for you that he had for you in the past.

There is a chance that you can get back together but, it all really matters on the type of guy that he is

How do you get over a married man that u use to be good friends had an affair with but now he doesnt talk 2 u and u hate him now but can't stop thinking about him even though u have a man?

You probably won't ever get over him. You married him for a reason, whatever it was, and you cheated on him. That sort of thing doesn't ever stop bothering you. The most you can do is try to justify in your own mind why you had an affair, and try to forgive yourself.

Is it possible for Exs to be best friends?

i would think so. i mean im best friends with my ex

Is Cherrelle still with Alexander?

C and A were never together. They did a story about him on Biography and A's one and only love back then was cocain.

How to Break up with a live in girlfriend?

Break up with her like you would anyone else. You must have a reason for breaking up with her, so state your reasons and then ask her to leave. If you don't have a valid reason then its up to you to sort out the problems of where she will go etc

What is the best gift to get when your girl friend break up with you?

roses and a card saying "thank you for being just...great!"

What would you do with your boyfriend behind your friends backs?

  • The correct situation is what happens between you and your boyfriend is none of your friends business and is private unless you so choose to tell them something private. What your boyfriend tells you about himself should remain between the two of you and your friends need not know.

Getting back together with ex-husband?

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  • Good communication skills are the best way to try to resolve problems. Telephone your ex and ask if you can meet somewhere and discuss your relationship. Your ex will either be willing to listen to you; try the relationship again or, you may run the risk they don't want to get back into another relationship, but the truth will set you free to move on and meet that special someone that should be in your life.

How do you get boys to knowtise you?

first it's spelled notice. second, you can get him to notice you by wearing perfume, dressing in cute clothes, that kind of stuff. don't change yourself completely but change a little in order for him and other guys to notice you. you have your whole life ahead of you, don't get caught up

What if you see your short term ex at work occasionally and know you both still have feelings for each other?

If you find this situation is awkward try to avoid him when possible - work relationships that end can become compromising for both individuals. If you do have to cross paths be cordial and move on. If you both still want to be together than you are going to have to get together and talk to one another about this situation outside of work.

Im breaking down im almost 17 in a fue monthes you your boyfriend love each other he is 16 you know he isn't ready 4 a kid but you think im pregnant and you don't know how to tell him?

It may help if you tell another really close friend first and then have them with you when you tell your boyfriend. You WILL need to tell him if you plan on keeping the baby. He'll find out one way other the other as your belly grows.

What does it mean when a man tell a woman that he miss her so much?

It simply means that he misses you and still has feelings for you.

What does it mean when your girlfriend says sorry if did wrong to you?

That would be for you to decide - meaning if they say sorry and you believe them then that would be up to you if you are going to forgive them or not. It is hard to trust someone that has breached it and some that say sorry just to fix what they did wrong knowing it was wrong but only say sorry to get through it.

What if you become drunk in first date and kiss her cheek a lot?

She would be freaked...unless she's not normal. Who would become drunk on their first date?

What to do if your boyfriend thinks of only himself?

dump him, he is not worth it if he thinks that the whole world revolves around him. If he can not start thinking of others. it may be time to find a better boyfriend

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