Cheating

U can Pat his back and say im srry but i think we should see other people. Then try to hug him and say "i hope we can still be friends?"

Maybe just wishful thinking , or a harmless fantasy . Maybe she is trying to make you jealous. Tell her how it makes you feel when she talks like that. Maybe she doesn't know how badly this hurts or upsets you . Women are very kind human beings she does love you! but she also loves another man. do you remember when you were in primary school and you liked two people or maybe even three but you really liked one of them? its just like that, and your girl is just going through a little rough patch, it will clear up. You have to except the fact that you are the one but she has a few crushes. and maybe you should get your flirt socks on and show her what you've got!

• Most individuals flirt to a degree, but when someone flirts for example on the Internet they know they are on dangerous ground and therefore they are more than likely looking for someone to correspond with so yes, flirting and take that Internet relationship to another level and is still classified as cheating. If it weren't and you loved the one you're with then there would be no need to flirt on the Internet.

because they know they are there to pick up girls.

It sounds like he is, your boyfriend is taking you for a fool. Go and meet somebody else who will love you and give you the respect you deserve.

He had a baby with a mistress, while married to her so she divocred him, but stayed in his house as she had nowhere else to go, them being poor, but kept his baby.

I'm afraid not, because the wife will have the lingering notion and it will affect her ability to perform to her husband. Two scenario for this one is, if this couple stays together, the wife is the one that will experience the flashback of what her husband did. She will wonder how her husband made love to his affair partner. She will wonder how his affair partner satisfy her husband.

This is one thing that most husband who had the affair never thought of, how it will affect and destroy his wife.

You don't , and you are lucky to be still be able to type. These are unforgivable breaches of trust. Any man who would do this is the most reprehensible type of human being. You have destroyed an entire family. And if this is a joke, the joke is on you. Your still a reprehensible person for asking such a foul-minded question.

I'm perverted

Some wife will feel sorry, some will feel low when it comes to what they did. But we all need to realized that no one force us to cheat even we have our own reason why we cheated. Wife that cheated choose to do it and if they will feel sorry later on why in a world go there in the first place.

• Yes, an 18 year old relationship is worth saving be it marriage or a long friendship. Both are commitments and when things get a little stale or there are problems strong people work things out by good communication skills or get marriage counseling. No one said a live-in or marriage would be easy and anything worth having is worth fighting for.
  

it's not right that he does that but he's trying to 'save face' which is protecting his reputation and most guys won't show emotions in public.

Show how much you love her, every day if you must! who knows what tommorrow may bring, you may never be able to see her again. but if she really does want a child, dicuss with her, abotu its future. a child isn't only a girft it is a life and a huge resposibility.

== == * You deal with this by patting yourself on the back because you're one smart woman! As much as it crushes your heart you have come to the realization that this relationship will never work out. Love is just loving that person you are with and everyone else around is a mere shadow. Loving someone means you can hardly wait to see them and are thinking constantly about them. When you first start dating you should have the feeling of walking on clouds and all colors around you seem more brilliant. All is well with the world! Of course life isn't always a bowl of cherries, but, when young and we meet that one true love we are given the chance to fall into a fantasy of what could be and we should enjoy it for what it is. If worked on most relationships can work, but few people these days have little staying power. You should get out with friends and try having some fun. Not all women have boyfriends or husbands, and these are the women you can most relate too. While feeling free and independent you can have the time of your life, and it's usually at this time that you find that very special person in your life. The old motto "a watched kettle never boils" is so true. Meaning, if you sit around moping and missing this guy that didn't treat you well, you are wasting a lot of your life. Get angry! Get going! By doing this you will come to understand just what a strong young woman you are. No woman should bet all her future on a man. Women should first learn to be independent and when they meet that someone special then she is secure with her partner and wiser for it. People simply need head space so it's great when a woman can do other things without a man, and a man can do something without a woman. Most of us on this board have been hurt in the name of love, but got up, dusted ourselves off and got on with life. If you don't you are going to miss out on that great guy you certainly deserve.

• Yes, it is possible to have a first born child at 47, but it is risky and the mother to be must work closely with her doctor.

In my middle school:

test cheaters: 68%

homework copiers: 4%

report/project plagiarizers: 92%

girlfriend-boyfriend cheaters: 96% eventually

in all, don't cheat. Even if no one else knows, you'll know.

It depends on how solid your relationship is or if the both of you have been on some type of vacation. Put it this way, I wouldn't be too thrilled if I hadn't had a holiday in a couple of years and my husband wanted to go on a holiday with his buddy and it has nothing to do with jealousy. It's a matter of being considerate of your mate. If you trust your mate then there is no reason two buddies can't go on holidays, but I do think 2 weeks is really stretching it and why couldn't you go along? I would sit down and talk to your mate in a calm manner and tell him that you aren't too pleased about him going away for two weeks and couldn't they shorten this holiday. Only you know how much you can trust your mate. If you are having problems in your relationship then I would be concerned about him going away for those 2 weeks. If he has given you no reason to mistrust him then I would back off and let the two go together. It's really no different than myself going away with another girlfriend for two weeks. Would I? Nope! I like to share certain things with my husband, so I'd probably go away for one week, come home and do something else with my husband. I think that's fair. Good luck Marcy

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First of all let me compliment you with your question and I might say your question did happened to me a few years ago from the man I marry. First I will tell you that a long time ago I did admired this man for his faith and belief when it comes to religion. He is Protestant and I am a catholic, but this didn't matter to me because I do know we only have one God. Why did I admired him, because he told me he wanted to be a Preacher and express his love to God by talking to the men he work with ( Navy). knowing this I didn't need to ask questions because he is one of those men who love God and to me that is pure and good hearted person, but unfortunately he betrayed me after promising that he will never look at another woman as long as he knows I will be waiting for him. But he did and his own explanation was we weren't married then and he realized that after meeting a few women from other country, my faith was a little better. In short knowing how good he is being a christian I don't need to know what he did behind my back because were not married yet.

One thing though the answer to your question is, it doesn't matter if we believed in god or not, but when it comes to our own lust and excitement we will always know that God will always forgive us no matter what kind of sin we do or will be doing. It sad because this is the man who loves to read or talk about our holy bible, and dying for me to find a family church so we have a place to go to if and when we have problems. with our life. This is a man who loves to attend Sunday mass and teach or preach ,military men so they know that god will always be there for them. Unfortunately he was the one who set aside and closed the door in God's face because he met a woman on a dating site that made him feel alive being a man. This woman is also a good Christian that goes to church every Sunday and Tuesday. I did found out his weakness when it comes to what can make him feel alive, a woman who goes to church and can sit with him and discuss about religion and the bible.

Your not the only one who have this question, lots of women or people do. Don't get me wrong but I also hurt him but can't really ask God I need to close the door on him so I can have what I want.

I'm very sorry to say this, but it's about time you woke up and called a Divorce Lawyer. You have no idea on the chances you are taking when and if you have sex with your husband. Did he take care when he had sex with the guy he's involved with?

If you want the relationship to last for convenience sake, make a deal. You go your way, and I'll go mine, until you figure out how to seperate. Obviously the relationship is over.

If he was a narcissist, then nothing you did could ever be a good as he knew he "deserved." So he looked elsewhere, which he'll probably keep doing for the rest of his life, no matter how well the woman he's with treats him.
He wanted something other than what he got from you. I think it's the same answer regardless of his psychiatric diagnosis, if any. It would be harder to please a narcissist than the average person. The person trying to please a narcissist wouldn't get empathy back, among other things, so it might be for the best to have a narcissist leave you. But I don't think the trigger for that happening is much different than any other relationship.

Unless you can absolutely prove to yourself (no second guessing) that your husband cheated on you then there is a good possibility he didn't. There are more relationships ruined by second guessing a partner regarding cheating and it's called jealousy and a person that lacks self confidence and independence. If he did cheat on you; you actually caught him red handed and he's in denial then separate from him (kick HIM out) until he either comes to his senses and is willing to work things out and if he doesn't file for divorce. I know I am making it sound easy, but my first husband cheated on me and I was young and stupid and inwardly always knew about it, but was in denial. One evening I followed him and found him cheating with two women! I came home threw his bags out on the back lawn and locked the doors! I started looking for an apartment, found one with the help of a friend, changed jobs (for a better one) changed friends that my husband and I knew and started a new life. I took this time to get to know WHO I WAS and what my strengths and weakness' were and worked on that. I made sure this one man would NEVER make me a man hater or ruin the rest of my life. I dated for awhile, then married a wonderful man and we've been married 35 years.

If you need forgiveness then ask, if your still not over the roadblock then talk to that person and clear your conscience.