Cheating

Only you can define your feelings concerning this - if you trust one another and are loyal then chances are he will be faithful but its not uncommon for people on vacation to stray. Only you two will be able to talk about this and you will have to decide if you believe him. if your boyfriend goes on vacation why dont he take you so if he didnt take me on vacation ill think he is cheating on me

* If one believes in gossip then they are going to have a very confusing and miserable life. Always go to the 'horse's mouth' which is your girlfriend. You need to learn communication skills and both of you should be able to talk about anything. When you talk to her do not accuse her of cheating, but tell her what so-called friends are saying about her. Let her know the truth and then you'll find out the truth one way or another. Let her know that you would never cheat on her and if she ever cheats on you that will be the end of the relationship. Mean what you say! I'd trust the girlfriend and once you have that talk with your girlfriend and if you are satisfied with her answer then you should confront your friends and tell them to knock off the gossip!

Probably yes. However, it may depend on why she's sleeping around. Is it simply because she likes variety, or is she trying to find an 'ideal man' who probably doesn't exist? It's also possible that she wants to avoid the commitment that a permanent relationship involves. On the face of it, none of this is auspicious. Joncey It is no different than young guys sleeping around so why be so hard on the girl! Some women if interested in a young man at the right time may sleep with him, move on, find someone else and repeat the process all over again. This doesn't make her a bad person, and is no different then some guys sleeping around. As long as she didn't cheat on her partners then it's really none of your business what she did when she was single. No, this doesn't mean she'll cheat on you, but was experiencing her own sexuality.

Since he's been taking care of his ex for ten years there isn't anyway you couldn't have known this so why did you marry him? If she is ill or they have children together and he's got a backbone then he should be caring for his children, but that's all! If you don't like it then sit down and start communicating with him. Don't yell, scream or start an argument over it because you'll lose the whole point of resolving the problem. Tell him he can't have you both!

they dont know what to do and since they told you they love you they think they can do whatever they want

• Time to mature and get a backbone. If you are bored or not in love with your wife then sit down with her and tell her and file for divorce. You will break her heart, but it would be better she know now than you cheating. Cheating is selfish; immature; inconsiderate and hurts not only the wife, but any children and family. Often the grass on the other side of the fence looks greener, but more often than not it is not and by the time you realize that you could have lost the true love of your life and ruined your own life completely. A man or woman that cheats will end up paying the price in the end. Think about it!

'Dark matter' and 'dark energy' have not been observed or proven yet.

Lies are false statements that are made with intent to deceive. A simple false statement is not sufficient to constitute a lie. There must be the additional intention to deceive.

You would probably feel sad.

ummm this is a really difficult question coz different circumstances lead to different answers but he could be talkin to ani1, a work mate, a friend, it could be ani1 it could even be a telemerketer.......friend this friend who has a boyfriend but calls this other guy we all kno more then her bf but she not cheatin they just gud friends, so it could mean nothing........if ur really concerned talk to him bout it ask him wats goin on

• The reason most couples with problem marriages cannot save their marriage without professional help is because neither can 'see the forest for the trees' which means they are too involved in the problems to realize what they are and that is why a marriage counselor is needed because he/she will help you sort out problems in the marriage as well as tools to strengthen the marriage by learning good communication skills.

• Yes, there is a small percentage of women who are so devastated by their husband's affair that depression sets in and if she does not seek out help from a psychologist to get through this difficult time and depending on her personality she may well go into a deep depression that could last years to a lifetime.

You go there and see! or put a gps tracking device in his phone or car!

There are some advantage if you decided to have a fling, such as your wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend and children will feel betrayed if they finds out. But for you, you will have this "new friend" that will change your life because you are thinking that this person is wonderful. This person will become very special to you because you feel happy just being with this person, and before you know it you are having 2 different life away from each others. And if short to have a fling or having a fling will destroy your life and others that you love because it was only a fling.

To err is human, to forgive is devine. I don't know if you're religious but God says He hates divorce. It's been three years. Hang in there. =Answer= God didn't want any woman to stay in a bad relationship where someone is hurting you mentally or physically. It's been 3 years that the cheating happened and the other poster said it well, "To err is human, to forgive is devine." It appears you either can't let go of what happened 3 years ago or, he's up to his old tricks again. If you feel he's cheating on you again then confront him about it. More than likely he'll deny it so you are going to have to go on the sole character of this man and decide to either stay or leave. If he is cheating staying for the child's sake is the worst thing you could do.

• There are different types of emotional affairs. A man can fantasize about an attractive woman without that woman ever knowing, or, he can become friends with her and not be physically interactive with her, but emotionally attached to her. Emotional affairs are often just fantasies and nothing more and it is common in both men and women or, something is missing out of his marriage and he may innocently talk to another woman about his marriage problems when he should be talking to his wife. 'Just look, do not touch' is the rule. Men may love their wife, but it is common for them to either look at pornography or admire a good looking woman, but the same goes for women and they will admire a good looking man and some women enjoy pornography along with their partner. This is by no means a suggestion that you watch pornography with your husband if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Both of you should sit down and talk this problem over. Give your husband the opportunity to express his feelings and you should listen without getting into an argument and then he should listen to how much he has hurt you. Once you have that out of the way then you have to decide if you want to stay together or not and if you do, then you should seek marriage counseling if you afford it. If you cannot afford it then you can both put your heads together and make a list of things you like and do not like about each other and try to change some of the dislikes. Also, if possible, a change of scenery such as going on a short or long vacation just the two of you will bring you closer to each other. Often husband and wife are so busy working; looking after children and worrying about finances that they forget about each others feelings.

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Confront him. Tell him to knock it off and that it wont be tolerated. If hes doing it by text messages tell him if he doesnt stop you report him for sexual harrassment. Irregardless if you want this to stop stand up and be strong...send a strong message Kock it off Tell your sister, and an adult. They will stop him. If they don't, these messages qualifiy as sexual harassment and are punishable by law. Save them so you have proof.

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Your boyfriend probably just has a lot friends that happen to be girls. I'm a girl with a lot of guy friends. One of my best friends is a guy who is married. I have know doubt that he spends more time with me than he does with his wife. She is a very secure person and has no problem with this. She has her own very busy life. Our friendship is strictly platonic! I've had trouble with boyfriends being jealous of my guy friends. They are usually the very clingy type. There is nothing more unattractive than jealousy.

No , but Aoi the one who cheated on Sousuke Takaoka . Its true .

Your wife. Imagine the relationship you could have if instead of looking outside your marriage, you looked within.

Not being secure with yourself.