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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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How do you lead a good married life after your spouse had an affair?
It is a very hard thing to do. Your spouse bottom line was unfaithful. Marriage is a covenant; a promise between two people to be faithful and love each other. If your spouse cheats then they have broken their side of the covenant, meaning you shouldn't have to keep holding onto to your end either.
It hurts to know that someone you love felt intimate about someone else; showing an expression of love and affection such as that to someone else.
I'm not sure if this is the case, but sometimes incidents happen when there is alcohol or some drug abuse involved; but it means they were not being considerate or responsible. Think about the fact that many people can still resist things that are wrong when they were drunk or high. But it does explain less of a sense of good judgement.
Something that no person wants to be is second best to someone they love, especially if they are in a commitment with that person; which in the normal case of having an affair, that is what the spouse becomes. And that is what the spouse made you was second best; you wouldn't want to always be that even if the spouse does remain faithful to you after the affair.
The cheating spouse was NOT the victim; the faithful spouse is. It is your decision whether or not to take pity on this. I'd say take these things into consideration when you think about whether or not you can actually make a healthy marriage out of that situation. And if you can I highly suggest marriage counseling. It is a good thing to have someone there helping and listening to your problems then laying them out for you so you can see it clearly and really get a feel for the situation.
Anyway, Good Luck :)
Can my boyfriend be faithful to me if he cheated before?
If he REALLY loves you then yes. But theres no garentee.
How do you stop loving someone who was so horrible to you?
- You either have a lack of self confidence or are simply physically attracted to this person and do not understand what true love is. True love is about loving someone for who they are; honesty; loyalty; encouragement and a sense of peace between the two of you. A person that treats another person horribly has no respect for themselves and basically not able to respect you because you keep taking this terrible abuse and come back for more and thus, the person has a lack of respect for you. Never let anyone treat you without the respect you give them and it's time to kick this person to the curb where they belong.
You didn't say if your husband is still in prison; is just getting out of prison or he is out of prison. No matter what the case there is no excuse for cheating.
With your husband in prison for over a year I am sure you meant to be loyal to him and things happen, but this is still no reason to cheat. If you felt you were in love with his brother you should have had the guts to visit him in prison and tell him. It would be wise for you and his brother to take some time apart so you are sure it's not 'lust in the dust' instead of true love. You have a lot of hard thinking to do. You have to decide if the reason your husband went to prison is enough to have you wait and live with him or divorce him. What is his brother like. Sometimes in families 'rotten apples don't fall far from the trees' meaning his brother could be like your husband, or, he may be a nice guy.
Because you used the word 'I believe I'm in love with him' you gave a good hint that you are not quite sure if you love him. You are certainly confused and before you light that TNT it would be wise to take that break from your husband's brother and start thinking of what your future would be like. Learn to be more independent and don't always feel you have to have a man in your life to get ahead in this world.
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Answer2: These things never end well. A broken trust between brothers and marriage mates, sad indeed. Your husband even thoug in prison deserves more than this.
Is it cheating for a married man to have a happy ending massage without his wife's knowledge?
If it was accidental then no, however if you went to a 'massage parlour' wanting a happy ending then yes!!
Catch someone cheating texting with virgin mobile?
Confront them. It's the hardest option, but the easiest way. Good luck.
How many kids has Nizar Jabara fathered?
2 beautiful children, who I am proud to call monkey freaks x)
If your boyfriend is very jealous and you want to cheat and keep him too How can it be done?
It can't. The best way to sove this problem is to end the relationship. Never put anyone else life in harmsway.
A divorce should do it.
Measure the tree with the meter stick.
== == I had this situation recently, I was the one talking to the person (ex) on the phone. I came to my husband out of honesty. I never cheated on my husband or even seen the person I was speaking with (they are an ex who had a hard time & I was trying to be helpful). It doesn't mean the woman/man is cheating in anyway if they are talking on the phone. *see discussion for further :-)
Look ask to meet this friend because any friend of hers should be friends of yours and if she becomes over protective of the situation then something is definitely going on because if he's just a friend she will have no problem inviting him over to meet you her husband but if she is willing to invite him and he is willing to come let it go obviously they are just friends Did she tell you they were talking or did you find out? Check her phone records for how often they talk. It might be an emotional affair. She is getting something you are not giving her.
Yes that is really unfair he should care I mean he is your husband after all and should care no matter what .
Second Answer: It is extremely selfish of the fellow to cheat on his wife while she is dying from a fatal illness. It is also considered a major sin. Now, if a wife gave her husband permission to seek a new wife while she is dying it is foolish. If this is a real case scenario the woman needs to confront her husband and tell him to stop and to find out why he is doing it in the first place. It is not a sin she should escape since it is an extreme betrayal of their love for one another and to her as a person. She deserves his complete love and attention until she goes to heaven.
There is a Hollywood movie similar to this theme:Stepmom (1998) starring Susan Sarandon (Golden Globe award) & Julia Roberts,
How can you get a lip kiss from a married women?
Why not try and get one from an unmarried one for starters. Asking a question like that makes you seem completely ignorant something single and married women do not like.
Should you trust your Scorpio guy is not cheating on you?
It's hard to say, since Scorpio is the most secretive birth sign.
Should you stay together when infidelity enter your marriage?
it depends on your relationship sometimes a cheating spouse will actually strengthen a relationship other times it will tear them apart past repair and sometimes things don't change as much as they would have thought to be. if you do stay together tho someone has earned a 1free pass to cheat and should use it at their leisure
He is weird OK!
Not always. The key words are 'he loves you, but feels cold inside.' This just doesn't include you, but his entire life. He may be frustrated, feel depressed and confined and just wants to be free. Many people go through this and men can go through these feelings around 40 years of age and it use to be called, 'Midlife Crisis', but is actually 'Andropause' a type of menopause (similar to women, but with lesser symptoms.) These are some symptoms:
- May change the way he looks. Changing his hairstyle and dressing differently.
- Making rash decisions. Example: buying a sports car to generally draw attention to himself re younger women.
- Wanting to travel (alone)
- He can become argumentative in your relationship.
- Depression
- Hot Flashes
- Lethargy
- Moody
- Doesn't want to talk to you or do anything with you.
- Is growing apart from his immediate family and friends.
- Feels he should have done more with his life because he doesn't feel he's reached the unreasonable goals he has set for himself.
- NOTE: Medications all have side effects so if your husband is on medications please look them up on the computer or, ask your pharmacist for a print out on any drugs your husband is on. Some medications can cause feelings of 'emptiness', depression and lethargy.
Sit down with your husband with the TV off and the phone unplugged and have a good chat. Don't discuss with him immediately if he is having an affair with someone at work. A few drinks doesn't hurt as 'loose lips, sink ships' (meaning: alcohol will relax people and they are more likely to speak their mind and be more open. You need to get to the bottom of his problem.
If he is depressed then suggest you BOTH go in for a physical. By saying 'both' this doesn't push the blame off on him. He should get a good physical that includes a T3/T4 thyroid test; a test for his adrenal gland and a test for testosterone levels.
Depending on what problems you are having and what he has to say suggest going on a vacation together if you can afford it and sometimes a change of scenery and some R & R can change a person's attitude towards life and the relationships in their life.
What questions do you ask your husband about how involved his affair was?
It might be best to not focus on the affair, but rather on how you'll repair the damage to your relationship. He needs to understand that once the trust has been violated a marriage doesn't have much to make it survive. Both of you need to work on regaining that trust. Schedule an appointment with your religious leader or a marriage counselor. There are definitely issues that need to be discussed, but you need the assistance of a mediator. You might even be able to ask that question in the neutrality of a marriage counselors office, but don't do it at home. Of course, that is assuming that you want the marriage to continue. It must be a devastating period of your life, but you really can come out the other side with a brighter future, whichever way you decide to go.
First of all, not all men cheat. But it has been psychologically proven that men do stray more than women. Possibly an evolutionary adaptation.
- Just because a man is a Christian does not make him a saint and Christian men can make the same mistakes as non Christian men. Some Christians are devout and will stick to being loyal, but some do not. Christians believe in God, but they are mortals and not perfect.
What happens to a freemason if he is caught cheating on his wife?
Adultery is a crime right? You can't be a freemason and have committed a crime so I guess he would be disowned from the lodge.
What does it mean when a man unloads emotional baggage to another woman he just met?
He might just want to confide in someone to help him with his problems.
Why would a man not respond to sexual advances from a woman?
Perhaps he might be married and is faithful to his wife; perhaps he is in love and not interested in advances from another woman.
