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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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What is the difference between focus and concentration?
concentration means to pay attention to someone or something whereas focus means to look attentively to an object so as to gain some information on it.
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Focus and concentraton has the same meaning but in a different way. "Focus" is an attention on something, like when we focus on our study not on playing games. " Concentration is all about paying attention carefully to what you are doing.
Will a married cheating man's wife find out about his affair?
- Eventually, yes, the wife will find out about the affair. She will either find out on her own or one of their friends may see him with his mistress and tell her, but she will find out! Cheating is selfish and cheap and shows that this married man is thinking of no one but himself and his mistress is nothing special and eventually he will cheat on her as well. There are losers all around when married men/women cheat.
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Yes she will but not at first, especially if his always busy at work, or busy with his monkey business, and no time for his wife. If he don't stop before she finds out, his problem will become heavier and their life will never be normal anymore..
Shold you fight the guy your girlfriend cheated on you with?
If a woman have the chance to cheat would she?
This is a diffcult question it depends on how good the relationship is. if you fight alot chances are pretty high she would cheat. but if you are not fighting alot than chances are very low.i am a woman myself and i would not cheat unless things were apsolutely horrible in the relationship so ask her girls like to know what their man is thinking so be a man and step up to the plate.
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That is true it is difficult for some women, but I will use myself as an example, there are few incident that I was approach by a few, especially where I work and even when I was still in the navy, unfortunately as an Officer in the navy, we do follow what we were told specially sexual harassment. I was dating another officer but not in the same squadron I was working, but even that was very easy. Unfortunately I was flattered but 3 Officers that tried are all married and from there I was disappointed with their behavior. Being in the ship and in the water for months at a time, some men will show their behavior, but not good enough to think they can.
I got married to an Officer in the Navy, and this man also goes out in the water 7 months per year, did I trust the man that I married? yes I did. Was it lonely to be alone while he was out there thousands of miles away from me?, yes it was. Did I had a chance to just call my ex boyfriend because I missed my husband?......no because my love for my husband was sacred and I promised God and my families the day we got married that I will be with him till death do us part. I had lots of chances to be stupid but I never thought of doing it because my husband didn't deserved betrayal from me. When I got married I know in my heart that there will be time that I will be tasted for my sincerity to my husband, and I am proud even now that I never done anything that my parents, God and myself be ashamed of. Well my husband did twice that is why he is my ex now..
Should cheating on a spouse be illegal?
Yes, I think it SHOULD be illegal. If you take the vow of marriage to be faithful, that is an obligation, a contract. Thus cheating involves lying, betrayal, breach of contract and people have been put in jail for that. If you don't want to be with the person you are married to either be celibate or DIVORCE. I should have divorced my first husband 5 years earlier. My second (yeah, what was I thinking!) cheated within 9.5 months- well that I know of, could have been sooner. When confronted- more lies. Yes, I have corroboration not only with the women he cheated with, but friends(?!) that introduced them. WHY? If you don't want to be monogamous get the freak out of the marriage-- spineless life and live sucking creatures!
What if you cheat on your boyfriend but you don't tell him?
if ur cheating...that means u dont need him to be happy. leave him and tell him the truth why
Why do people deny certain things?
They think that the result of telling the truth will be worse then to deny it
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I agree, but for some of us, if we deny or tell white lies it will help us not to be on a hot seat, or in trouble that might hurt someone who we care about.
There is of course the point that people deny things is because they are not guilty of what they are accused of.
What do men get out of having more than one women?
- Not all men want to have two women in their lives. Some men just can't seem to commit to one woman and they are like kids in a candy shop. These type of men have few morals and are selfish not thinking of hurting the one that loves them. Some men just love women and want to have short relationships with them and move onto another woman. If they are honest about it to the woman they are about to have a relationship with and she agrees then she should be prepared that he will not remain true to her. Both men and women can have fantasies about the opposite sex which is common, but it's think, look, but don't touch. Long relationships can often get boring if the two people don't work at their relationship and keep it as interesting as possible and that's when one or the other can stray. Some men want to regain their youth back and feel if a younger women is interesting in them they feel attractive once again and try to recapture the magic of when they were once single. It's a rush to meet someone new and try to get them to date you and then have sexual relations with them. It's called, 'the chase.'
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The only thing they can get out of it are, broken marriage, having no trust, and possibly transmitted disease.
What to do if you think a girl is cheating on you?
If you think that a girl is cheating on you, then she is most likely not worth your time.
Why would an individual keep cheating on the same person?
They cheat because they are insecure. They obviously feel like they need to prove that they can get someone other than the individual they are cheating on to make themselves feel better.
Does an affair with a married man at your work work out?
- Women that have affairs with married men are selfish and inconsiderate. The risk coming between the man and his wife and any possible children. There has always been a silent code for generations that a woman or man should not take someone else's mate and that includes girlfriend/boyfriend. However, this code of ethics in the human race is fast fading and high morals seem to be a thing of the past. Married men are searching for something and the top priority is sex; some men want to recapture their youth and other men are bored in their marriage and are ego maniacal enough to enjoy the attraction from another woman. It is not a good idea to get mixed up with a boss or a coworker because most of the affairs or relationships can well break up and in your case the risk is even higher. This makes it very uncomfortable for both parties to have to see each other in the workplace and may well cause problems in their work performance. So to your answer, no, affairs with married men at work seldom work out. With all the young single men you should be mature enough to know you are being used by this married man and should end the relationship and start dating single men.
What can I say in a letter telling friend her husband is cheating?
- A wise person never puts something in writing in this case as it can come back to haunt them. Although this is your friend you do not know the whole circumstances. It would better to phone her and discuss the situation, but be very sure that her husband is truly cheating and you are not second guessing the situation because this may well end their marriage.
- Cheating in itself is selfish; demeaning to the partner; breaking the bond of trust you once had together. Cheating is not a way to resolve marriage problems and every effort should have been made to try to save the marriage and if it couldn't be save then get a divorce so you are free to date whomever you choose. Since you chose to cheat then you take the risks of either being stalked by a lover you are having an affair with; someone that loves you enough to fight for you or, the lover walking away and possibly destroying any hopes of saving your marriage. The person who is having an affair with you has nothing to lose (you do) and may get a kick out of playing risky games and gloating a secret over your husband. Think about t this ... how would you like your husband to have a young woman on side and this was happening to you? This man you are having an affair with is either in love with you enough to try and pressure you to be with him or he's a game player and taking risks. Either way, you lose.
Do girls cheat on guys they love?
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If your in love you won't cheat. If a girl truly loves a guy, she won't cheat. And vice versa. If a guy truly loves a girl, he won't cheat. If you love one another DO NOT CHEAT!
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If you're going to cheat on someone, then you might just as well stay single.
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I don't think all girls cheat on their guys. But if she does it, she was given a reason why. We all need to know that no matter who we are by gender if we were given reason it will be easy to cross that path. So to avoid this, we need to love each others or else it will end up on that direction. In my own opinion.
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Normally, people who cheat have a problem within themselves that has nothing to do with their partner. Cheating is a form of avoiding the real problem, something that the person may not be aware of, but certainly doesn't want to think about or deal with. This is true of girls who cheat and boys who cheat as well. It's of little comfort to know this except to be aware that when someone does cheat on you, it has nothing to do with you.
What's the percentage of cheating couples?
22% of married men have cheated on their wives and 14% of married women have cheated on their husbands, according to current data. The data is inaccurate, because most couples will not admit to cheating in the first place.
If a man cheated on his last girlfriend will he cheat on his wife?
Most men who cheat do have a tendency to be repeat offenders, primarily due to a lack of respect or concern for anyone other than themselves. However, there are always exceptions. If it happened once at a young age and he showed genuine remorse, there is probably a reduced chance of a repeat situation. Still, be wary.
After being cheated on and staying together How do I stop being so controlling?
by just letting it go, because once you make the decision to stay in the relationship you've either forgiven your partner or you learn to deal with theproblem, by you holding on to a secret grudge limits the joy and love, one could have in a relationship
How do you know if you have forgiven someone?
You know you have forgiven someone when you feel relieved inside of yourself. You may be wary of your friend's actions, but that doesn't mean you can't forgive. Forgiveness is a feeling of mending hearts and a feeling of joy and freedom. You can also forgive a person (the hurt doesn't hurt so much once you forgive them) and move on from them into your future.
Since the two mates have simultaneously cheated and lost respect and trust for each other, but still love each other then they should sit down and communicate as to why they each cheated. Something was missing in their relationship and they had not learned the rules of good communication and loving each other means you should be able to talk to each other about anything. Also, humans make mistakes and if they can learn from their mistakes then they are that much wiser and more apt to mend their relationship. Trust and respect take sometime to earn back, but if the couple love each other they will work together on their relationship.
Why would your girlfriend hide the fact that she still calls and texts her ex boyfriend?
If she didnt feel anything for him you would know she talks to him and you would talk to him as well... if she secretly does it she obviously still has feelings for him. Or it bothers her that you still talk to your ex...
its obvious. he either realized that the grass is NOT greener on the other side or the girl dumped him. I wouldn't take him back though.. he did it once, he'll do it again...
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I admired your strength for kicking him out of the house. Now my question to you is, do you still love your husband enough to take him back? I don't know all the details of your relationship with your husband, but are you willing to be hurt again if you take him back. How will you know that he will not cheat on you again. You don't deserve to be hurt again and live your life with pain and betrayal from him.
He made his bed so let him lay on it. You need to think about you now. You finally get a piece of mind so continue it. Right now what your husband did to you is coming back to him. Don't let him manipulate you..
Answer also: Seen this so many times. Your unfaithful, cheating, adulterous husband says he wants you back because he didnt find better than what he had. He thought leaving you and going for someone else was going to be better. Well it has not worked that way and he is looking to come back. But why would you even consider taking him back? I hope your self esteem is not that low. Listen, MOVE ON. He did and now you do the same. Do yourself a favor, go get a fabulous haircut, get a manicure and pedicure or do your own at home, buy a new lipstick and nail color, some nicely scented body scrub and foot scrub. Walk and lose those extra few pounds and create your own happiness without that LOSER. Its all about moving on and doing what makes you look fabulous and feel good about yourself. Work it ok!!!!
If a man cheats on you for four years but still wants to stay married what should you do?
Personally, i would take him back. Listen to his reasons, but if you do not think they are good enough, don't go anywhere near him. He may still have real feelings for you, don't let them go to waste.
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I think this is up to you, if you can leave with it. How did your husband had this long affair without you knowing it or did you knew it all along. I don't know the whole situation of your marriage but you must really love your husband so it's okay for him to have a second life. There's some women that can not accept the affair of their husband, including me, but yours is been 4 years now and it sound like you and your husband are still together. Can you live your life knowing that your sharing your husband with the other woman? I can't but it did happened, and my husband ex mistress was happy to tell me that we are sharing one man.
What about precaution when it comes to intimacy, does your husband protect himself
so he wouldn't transfer some sexual disease to you.
You need to really think about this, if you don't your husband will take advantage of you. And if his affair is been 4 years now, can you really believe him that he still love you completely.
