Cheating

• A wise person never puts something in writing in this case as it can come back to haunt them. Although this is your friend you do not know the whole circumstances. It would better to phone her and discuss the situation, but be very sure that her husband is truly cheating and you are not second guessing the situation because this may well end their marriage.

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• Cheating in itself is selfish; demeaning to the partner; breaking the bond of trust you once had together. Cheating is not a way to resolve marriage problems and every effort should have been made to try to save the marriage and if it couldn't be save then get a divorce so you are free to date whomever you choose. Since you chose to cheat then you take the risks of either being stalked by a lover you are having an affair with; someone that loves you enough to fight for you or, the lover walking away and possibly destroying any hopes of saving your marriage. The person who is having an affair with you has nothing to lose (you do) and may get a kick out of playing risky games and gloating a secret over your husband. Think about t this ... how would you like your husband to have a young woman on side and this was happening to you? This man you are having an affair with is either in love with you enough to try and pressure you to be with him or he's a game player and taking risks. Either way, you lose.

A cheater, a slot, a adulterer, and a adulteress

22% of married men have cheated on their wives and 14% of married women have cheated on their husbands, according to current data. The data is inaccurate, because most couples will not admit to cheating in the first place.

Most men who cheat do have a tendency to be repeat offenders, primarily due to a lack of respect or concern for anyone other than themselves. However, there are always exceptions. If it happened once at a young age and he showed genuine remorse, there is probably a reduced chance of a repeat situation. Still, be wary.

by just letting it go, because once you make the decision to stay in the relationship you've either forgiven your partner or you learn to deal with theproblem, by you holding on to a secret grudge limits the joy and love, one could have in a relationship

You know you have forgiven someone when you feel relieved inside of yourself. You may be wary of your friend's actions, but that doesn't mean you can't forgive. Forgiveness is a feeling of mending hearts and a feeling of joy and freedom. You can also forgive a person (the hurt doesn't hurt so much once you forgive them) and move on from them into your future.

Since the two mates have simultaneously cheated and lost respect and trust for each other, but still love each other then they should sit down and communicate as to why they each cheated. Something was missing in their relationship and they had not learned the rules of good communication and loving each other means you should be able to talk to each other about anything. Also, humans make mistakes and if they can learn from their mistakes then they are that much wiser and more apt to mend their relationship. Trust and respect take sometime to earn back, but if the couple love each other they will work together on their relationship.

If she didnt feel anything for him you would know she talks to him and you would talk to him as well... if she secretly does it she obviously still has feelings for him. Or it bothers her that you still talk to your ex...

its obvious. he either realized that the grass is NOT greener on the other side or the girl dumped him. I wouldn't take him back though.. he did it once, he'll do it again...

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I admired your strength for kicking him out of the house. Now my question to you is, do you still love your husband enough to take him back? I don't know all the details of your relationship with your husband, but are you willing to be hurt again if you take him back. How will you know that he will not cheat on you again. You don't deserve to be hurt again and live your life with pain and betrayal from him.

He made his bed so let him lay on it. You need to think about you now. You finally get a piece of mind so continue it. Right now what your husband did to you is coming back to him. Don't let him manipulate you..

Answer also: Seen this so many times. Your unfaithful, cheating, adulterous husband says he wants you back because he didnt find better than what he had. He thought leaving you and going for someone else was going to be better. Well it has not worked that way and he is looking to come back. But why would you even consider taking him back? I hope your self esteem is not that low. Listen, MOVE ON. He did and now you do the same. Do yourself a favor, go get a fabulous haircut, get a manicure and pedicure or do your own at home, buy a new lipstick and nail color, some nicely scented body scrub and foot scrub. Walk and lose those extra few pounds and create your own happiness without that LOSER. Its all about moving on and doing what makes you look fabulous and feel good about yourself. Work it ok!!!!

Personally, i would take him back. Listen to his reasons, but if you do not think they are good enough, don't go anywhere near him. He may still have real feelings for you, don't let them go to waste.

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I think this is up to you, if you can leave with it. How did your husband had this long affair without you knowing it or did you knew it all along. I don't know the whole situation of your marriage but you must really love your husband so it's okay for him to have a second life. There's some women that can not accept the affair of their husband, including me, but yours is been 4 years now and it sound like you and your husband are still together. Can you live your life knowing that your sharing your husband with the other woman? I can't but it did happened, and my husband ex mistress was happy to tell me that we are sharing one man.

What about precaution when it comes to intimacy, does your husband protect himself

so he wouldn't transfer some sexual disease to you.

You need to really think about this, if you don't your husband will take advantage of you. And if his affair is been 4 years now, can you really believe him that he still love you completely.

If you see that sparkle in his eyes that he only has for you....

it depends on where you let him touch you

yes.

NO it isn't as you are not together so therefore its not called cheating its called dating

Of course being secretive with a guy means cheating! If you are having secret meetings with a guy but you are already going out or married to another then you are most definitely cheating. Y'all, this is so not fair to your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband. If you don't think that your boyfriend/girlfriend is in to you or doesn't make you happy then don't go out with them. If you are really having marriage problems then go see a counselor. But first you need to tell your spouse what is going on. It isn't fair to keep secrets from them. Especially one like that.

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I think not, especially when it comes to man in general. In scale of 1-10 nine percent of men do not talk or share what they're thinking. So you can not say that your husband or boyfriend is cheating. if you ask why they hardly talk they will tell you they don't know how to show their feelings aka emotion. And don't feel bad nor concern, the man I married also have this manners of not talking, he rather keep it for himself rather than come to me and talk about it.

You can tell because she went on a cruise!

Women of any age should not get mixed up with married men as it usually is nothing but an affair and the mistress is kept in the shadows while he has his family. In other words, he keeps her in the background and out of sight which means he is spineless and if he loved her he should have the fortitude to ask his wife for a divorce. Although your heart is breaking deep down you know this man does not love you as he has told you or he would divorce his wife and he is simply making up excuses. Of course it's depressing, but you chose this road to go down even though you knew the risks. Telling his wife (going over his head) would be the worst thing you could do and he would detest you for that action. You are being selfish by doing so especially if he has children. This married man is a user and you allowed him to use you so take the consequences and learn from this lesson and stick to single men. It will be difficult to move on and get back out into the dating circuit, but once you are able too you will feel free and there is a special man out there for you that will love you enough to marry you. If you don't have any respect for yourself then how do you expect respect back.

If you are in a committed relationship then it is considered cheating. It can be called a fling, a tryst, or a one night stand depending on the intensity of the affair. It is however, detrimental to the well being of the existent relationship and should cease and desist immediately.

Every individual keeps a few secrets to themselves simply for privacy reasons and they may not feel it has any importance in the relationship. Women do the same thing. There is no need to know every little thing about your partner unless of course they are cheating. If you have a partner that is cheating then it's immature and selfish on his part and shows he has little respect for you. This is a sign this person is not right for you and somewhere in the future you will meet the right person you should truly be with, but you have to move on from the men in your life that do not treat you with respect.

Tell your mate that you are going on a business trip for sometime. Then enjoy your time with your affair mate. Dress up in a nice suit or dress to make sure he or she dont'doubt you. If you dont have a job, tell your mate that you are going out to look for one. Dress up nice. And don't look excited. Look as if you are hopeful. When you come back, act as if you did not get a job. You'll never regret it.

No; you do not want your girl to sleep with another guy.

Definitely yes