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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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Tell him that you know how he sees you and that you can understand why he wants you but that you are not looking for a relationship but would just like to be "friends" and leave it there. You don't want to jepordize your friendship. something like that.
I don't think looks should matter when someones either loves or likes someone, I think looks are over-rated in dating and it's ridiculous. To answer the question directly though; I'm sure it's possible.
How do you know if your husband has a crush on his own friend?
Sometimes when two friends are close or share a special bond it may seem something that its not as well as spouses can become jealous of this friendship. If you suspect things are "different" between them maybe watch things for a bit and decide if you are seeing things that are not there and may just be jealous of their bond of it there may be in fact something a little more. You could always talk to him concerning your feelings (calmly without arguments) and see how he responds, chances are he will deny it but you never can tell. Does his friend have a spouse that you may be able to talk to about this?
Can you still forgive your husband who cheated 4 times?
one is enough , twice is better, thrice is good then four times is excellent.
How do you tell your boyfriend your cheating on him?
One, you tell him you are breaking up with him or break up with the other one and two tell one of them you are sorry and bye bye
You had a 1 night affair big mistake should you tell him?
if telling will make a bad situation better but most likely no don't tell most people "confess" something just to make themselves fell better at the cost of hurting others.
ANSWER:
This will be up to you. But remember if you decide not to tell him, one day she might find out and you will really hurt him because of the trust he gave you.
People think its okay not to tell because it's only a one night stand, but when you start lying, you will cover it with another lie, and another lie. So if I were you this will be the biggest challenge you will ever do. Your going to find out if he really loves you.
Break up with him because he isn't worth your time if he is cheating on you. He also obviously thinks what she has is better.
Should you tell your partner that u need a break after his affair?
absolutly if the affair has caused tension between the two of you. taking time off also gives you the chance to try and heal over what happened. they say absense makes the heart grow fonder, meaning if your head over heals for this person time apart is just what u need. if you dont give yourself time to heal the thoughts of him cheating will continue to weigh on your mind
Different person..." honey please be careful, if he cheated once what do you think he will do when you are NOT there. that would be his excuse to do it again... "you left me and I was lonely!!
How can you know if you are dating the right guy?
Well, first of all, holding his hand makes you warm and tingly on the inside, also the way he hugs you, the way he treats you. Any guy that loves you should be good enough. Does he look deep into your eyes and says the nicest things to you, if it makes you happy or warm, fuzzy, or tingly on the inside, you've picked the right man, and he's perfect for you.
Why do women date married men?
From either side of the story:
- The woman wants a guy she can trust, someone she knows is worth living and being with. He is married, so obviously he is a good chap of some sort.
- The guy may be bored with his marriage, and needs some "excitement" in his social life. So he will date outside the marriage, because his wife is just not good enough any more.
Should you continue a long-distance affair with a married man?
Moral arguments about cheating aside, a person should break off a long distance affair with a married man. If he is unfaithful with his wife, he probably won't be faithful to you, especially long distance.
What are signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you if you are in a long term relationship?
If he spends a lot of time away from you or won't answer your calls, or if he isn't romantically or physically attracted to you as he was in the very beginning.
How can you reassure your partner that you will not cheat again?
You should promise to his or her that you will never do it and you should study to be able to have the knowledge and never cheat again. I think that's the very perfect answer for you sir or ma'am. Hope this will help you .^_^. You can't. If you are going to give them another chance and forgive them you have to give them the benefit of doubt. I realize it is hard once that trust has been violated but if you are making the choice to forgive then you are going to have to try and trust them. Not knowing how serious your relationship is but going to counselling together is always a great idea as well. Sometimes spouses do genuinely regret cheating if the relationship is important to them and don't do it again but then there is the saying that is most common once a cheater always a cheater.
____________________________________________________________________ Answer 3 Your not cheating again depends on the reason why you did it in the first place. If you are a weak person that is easily influenced then you can do it again. Getting high and stupid are not valid excuses for making the wrong choices. If the other person seduced you then you can give a credible assurance to your partner. If you and your partner are having difficulties in your sexual relationship then your action could have been driven by repressed desires. Sexual promiscuity is like an addiction and if you are inclined to engage in indiscriminate sex then you have a big problem.
Boyfriend but like someone else?
if you like the other boy better than your boyfriend than do what makes you happier!
If you like someone else then you should not be in a relationship. Always remember though the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
Will a relationship work after cheating with his best friend?
It is possible because people by nature are forgiving, though it may take a bit of work to get to that point of trust once again. One of the best things to do is to get relationship counseling.
A relationship is about the emotional connection (romance), the intellectual connection (sharing opinions and bettering yourselves), and for the spiritual connection (sharing faiths and beliefs). Once all of this is there, you should feel comfortable with holding hands, and feel comfortable just sitting close to each other, as physical touch is designed by nature to be comforting. I said all of that to say this: dating is supposed to be about finding a life partner. If you two share the 3 above mentioned connections, both of you should care about each other as you do yourselves as individuals, which is pretty much love. If you two love each other, he should plan a time for the proposal, a nice continent on a golden band, and a nice sunset or sunrise setting in the most romantic place he can fathom.
Im sorry, but regardless of the attached, you can NOT control who your mom or your dad dates. BUT you can help it. This is not my situation, but my mom and dad got a friend divorce and i know what im talking about. So, if i were you, i would do this: Make sure you know for positive that he is cheating, because if it was all a misunderstanding, the cosequences could be severe. Get proof, then go to your mom and tell her everything. Tell her to kindly talk to your dad, and you may or may not want het to bring you into the situation. But, there is a possibility that you might have to. For example, if you dad denies cheating, you will have to tell him whatever proof you had. If he continues to come up with excuses, just fight with your proof. He may get you in trouble, and you can accept that. But he will eventually confess. But,take the matter the right way, and face the truth. All over all, you can not stop your dad from doing whar he is doing. Best wishes. Im sorry about the situation your in, but regardless, you can make it better.
Why does my boyfriend always looks for and needs attention from other woman all the time?
because hes being a player girl if i was you i would find a new man who nice and smart or maybe talk to him and confront him
Should you tell someone if you know they have been cheated on?
This is a really sensitive area and you really have to weigh the pros and cons but ultimately honesty is the best policy. If you do tell someone such a thing you had better be prepared to back it up as well as the possibility of losing any friendships you may have with these people.
EDIT SaraFV:
Well, I had a simular experience with my friend whose boyfriend wasn't cheating, but did flirt with other women and continued to participate in PUA (Pick Up Artist) activities. I didn't feel right about her not knowing. (My boyfriend did the same, but he told me about it and I'm okay with it, because it doesn't go any further than that.) So I told her. She was upset he kept that secret from her, but he was also upset that I didn't go talk to him first.
I thought: "Dude, she's my friend and I can talk to her if I want to." But then he pointed out that I could have told him that I knew about it and that I wanted her to know too, so either he'd tell her or I would. Which would give him the opportunity to talk to her himself. (Which is always better than finding out through your friend.)
I never thought of it that way and I do feel that he has a point. So maybe that's worth considering if you find yourself in a simular situation. Perhaps it's better to talk to the cheater first. (Perhaps you need to collect evidence before talking to him, because if he's really just a jerk and doesn't feel remorse, then you should be able to talk to your friend before you three end up in a fight over who's right and who's lying.) And follow up on them to make sure he actually talked to her.
There are a variation of reasons why women cheat on men (and vice-versa.) Immaturity, the spark has gone out of their relationship, they are getting older and want to prove they can still attract other men, or they are unhappy with their life and can't seem to figure out what exactly is wrong. Some women want careers and children all at the same time. Both can be attained, but perhaps not exactly at the time you would prefer it to be so patience and good planning are foremost.
Women should sit down, really listen to their heart, ask themselves if they are being fair to their mate. Sometimes, "the grass on the other side of the fence is not greener." Decide what you could be giving up, for what you think you want. \
Women love romance in their lives, a partner that will listen to their hopes, dreams and accomplishments and sometimes they do not get that satisfaction. This is a time in a woman's life when she has to ask herself ... does he beat me? Is he a hard worker? Is he a good father? Does he think of special occasions such as my b/d, our anniversary? If you can say yes to at least two good qualities you are a lucky woman.
Women are quite lucky in this world. You can flirt and get the attention (which all women do enjoy) but that's it. That should be enough. To go further is not right without breaking it off with your partner. Women love to be admired, considered sexy, attractive and smart. All women go through this allure in their lives, but a smart woman always sits and questions herself well before taking action.
True, there are many reasons as to why a woman would cheat. But all I can say is this, from personal experience, DON'T DO IT. I'm lucky that my man has given me another chance. But it's the worst mistake I've ever made and I would give anything to go back and change what happened. So, unless you don't love the one you're with, you will definitely regret cheating. But even if you don't love the person you're with, you should still not cheat because cheating is just plain wrong no matter how many different ways you look at it.
Some people are addicted to falling in love. For the first few years, months, weeks of a new relationship there is more, for lack of a better word, passion. You can't think about anything else, you don't want to do anything but be with the person, you feel giddy and excited all the time. This is infatuation and it is very powerful. It fades with time, and in a healthy relationship it is replaced with something deeper, better and easier to live with. But a lot of people also miss that first stage and they might chest bc they are looking for that feeling again, or bc they met someone that makes them feel that way and they don't muster up some willpower to stop themselves. People cheat for lots of reasons, but I think most women cheat for the passion, not the sex.
There is no one for why anyone cheats but the simplest one is that because no one is perfect. I truly believe that anyone given the right situation will cheat because how can you resist. I've cheated and I believe its wrong but I still don't feel guilty because I believe that it was something that happened for a reason. I know that all of the times Ive cheated its not been because the other bloke is more attractive or any reason like that, its all been because of how they've made me feel. They've made me feel special and attractive, which probably means I have really low self-esteem even though I come accross as confident. Also all the blokes Ive been with while with someone else have also been in relationships shows that Im not actually interested in a relationship with them as I don't want to leave my boyfriend but I do think they are fulfilling something that hes not. I think that people cheat mainly for the attention and the excitment, and who doesnt like to be complimented and when your with your "bit on the side" that's all you get compliments and all the positive parts of a relationship, you don't have to deal with arguments, its simple and fun.
Personality. I would say it is the deciding factor. Also some women make excuses on why it was Ok for them to cheat but they think its wrong if they are cheated on. This is called hypocracy.
It all comes down to personality. Cheating is cheating no matter who does it or what the excuse is. Its always wrong.
If you have been cheated on should you stay or should you go?
Every relationship is different, as every person is different. Depending on your living situation/work situation, I would recommend just easing back into the relationship SLOWLY if you decide to forgive them and move on, just feel it out as you go. A little bit of time will tell you what you really want, and what will make you happy.
Not all advice is good advice! Some people react with myopic emotional prejudice without taking all the relevant information into consideration. Before following someone's advise you must consider all that you have to gain or loose.
People cheat for many reasons. Some cheat for the pleasure and excitement of the act. Some cheat because of encouragement from others. Some cheat because of unfulfilled sexual desires. Some cheat because of unhappy relationships. Some cheat to compensate for personal (emotional) weakness.
Was your partner a good and loving person?
Did you two have a good relationship?
Does your partner demonstrate to you that he/she cares for you?
After you answer these questions honestly, consider what you relationship is worth to you and make a rational decision!
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Discussions*If You stay, It must be for you, not for him. I separated from my husband 17 years ago, we remained friends, but he has never changed his behavior. I understand why he is the way he is, and he has the right to be and do whatever he wants. I also have rights, I don't have to put myself in the middle of it. I cannot sleep with him. I don't want to die, and I will not play Russian roulette with my life. He already has admitted to having contracted Hepatitis C. I am finally divorcing him. I am ready to live , and love again. I took my time, and am ready for it now. Do what is right, and remember God loves you, and wants you to be happy. It may take a while, but in time, you can be again. Let him make his own choices, and you make yours.*Leave, he/she did it once, he/she'll probably do it again.
*I think you should only stay if you really love him and think you're relationship is worth salvaging. When I was 15 my first boyfriend cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. I was really upset but took him back because I was in love with him. It took a long time to truly forgive him, but we got past it and stayed together another 9 months before calling it quits. Even though to me cheating is a sign of disrespect for a relationship,part of me is glad I stayed with him because I was more at peace for us to split amicably then for us to break up over something as painful as been cheated on. I got to really come to terms with what he did, and move on from it with him. Easier said then done of course, but yeah I think it really depends on the state of your relationship and how far the cheating went, is it a one off or something done over and over. Repeated cheating is a sign of a habit that your partner might not be able or want to break.
*well if he has done it before already then he hasn't learned that its wrong yet and he will do it again.so don't fall for the inosent trick. be strong and say no
*I was in a relationship for two years with a man. Wedding plans were being made and he told me every day just how much he loved me. He also cheated on me 5 times. Our relationship didn't start off too good though. He was dating a girl who I had never met and he cheated on her with me. I didn't think about what I was getting into. After a while they broke up and when he asked me to be his girlfriend I couldn't have been more happy. I never trusted him, and that ultimitly lead to our break up. After I found out he cheated the first time I cried for days. He'd lay with me and rub my back telling me how sorry he was and that he'd never do it again. He told me that he loved me and he was stupid. "Please forgive me." he'd beg. And I did. Then he did it again and again. One time he stayed the night with another girl instead of walking me home. I knew what he was doing and he knew I knew. When he was done though, I let him in my room.
My life was hell. I was constantly crying and beating myself up, "what's wrong with me? Why aren't I enough for him?" Eventually, he broke up with me. The last girl he cheated on me with he ended up dating for a year, then she cheated on him. He hasn't dated anyone since and has recently called me telling me that he still loves me and how stupid he was. I then got the joy of saying everything I always wanted to.
Point is, he says he's sorry and he is. But he wont stop. You forgave him and he'll expect you to forgive him again. Men are like children. Just a slap on the back of the hand isn't going to make them stop. Make them pay!
Due to my present situation and a past relationship; I say it's time to leave and use this experience to make better decisions in the future.Before my current relationship I allowed my ex back after his first affair, and he apologized and was so sweet trying to re-establish the trust. Then multiple affairs occurred and then in the mist a long term affair, that was the final blow. That's what resulted in my current relationship, to a married man; at first it started out innocent and as friends he was dealing with some personal issues with his spouse and I was being harassed, stalked and anything you can name by my ex. A deep friendship developed and one thing led to another; it wasn't long after that, we became pregnant and he told me he loved me. It's going on two and half years, it took until a month ago for me to acknowledge any feelings for him and to allow myself to love him, and all the while my ex has been trying to reconcile. M/m wife now knows about our sons and the relationship; she said she wasn't giving up on them, i have encouraged him for the sake of the children involved to stay with her, because I know that isn't what he expects me to say. She has demanded that he severe all ties with me and the boys and let the courts work it out; he doesn't want too. She has blocked my number from his cell phone and he continues to call on another line of mine; we are still sleeping together, she is constantly calling and trying to keep tabs on him. I told him it will get worse, I have let her know that I even know that she has threatened to kill him, if he doesn't leave me alone and end the relationship. I have told him what her next moves will be, so that he will have a heads up. Little does she knows that she is slowly pushing him away, whether it's to me or another woman. her marriage was over long before me and I am not the problem, she plays most of the blame on me and then the rest on him and not looking within herself. No the trust can never be replaced in that relationship it has gone beyond reconstruction. I truly know this first hand; there will always be doubts and insecurities. I can trust him, because I trust that he's human and will fall short. I know what I feel concerning infidelity and what I have wanted to do to seek revenge and what led him astray within his marriage and I can relate to it; mostly that's what start affairs, someone feeling the same emotional heartaches that you are experiencing, he was constantly cheated on within his first marriage and the spouse not only left him for another but conceived a baby with her lover while still married to him. No one would understand your pain,but another that has experienced it, and you will be able to open those lines of communication and establish the necessary ground rules that will strengthened the bond that the two of you will form. That's why I can love him enough to let him go, if I have too, I will want to crawl under a rock and die, but children are my first priorities and he loves his kids....think about it, long and hard, before you try to work things out with your ex.
*First of all if he cheats at all you should leave him because he/she isn't worth your time and they'll do it again because trust me I been through it and it isn't worth it.
*Okay, Girls I am a guy, I thought i'd at what i have to say, because like all of you, i too have been cheated on, but by a girl, personally, i don't find it fair that alot of women call men dogs because of the man cheating on their women, women believe it or not do the same thing. It takes two to Tango, and if you think about it, all the girls that your guys have been doing things with wanted it as much as he did, so he didn't tell them about you all, but who knows if that would have changed anything? I had a girl once who wanted me when it was convienent. So where's the big difference between your men and my girl? And i too let her come back, because i was aware of the cheating, just because i thought i loved her. But man was i wrong. it took me ages to get over her, and she always came back saying "your my soulmate, blablabla". then she cheated on me again, and one day i said to myself this is bull, and i told her i never want to see her again, sure she still writes, mainly when she's drunk but hell, i couldn't careless. My point is just that we aren't that diffrent, so why call us dogs when you do the same?
As to the actual question, i think it's your decision, you decide, how much does he mean and can you do without him? Personally im sure you can do without him, even if you choose not to want to believe it, but i realised too, that when someone does, so much wrong you can fall out of love with them, and if it helps, think of the bad things that they have done, and remind yourself everytime they say sorry and soon enough you'll be over them.
From my ExperienceWhen I was 19 I was cheated on by my then girl friend. Her excuse was she didn't know who to choose because she was in love with the other guy and me. So I stepped back and gave her space so she could make up her mind. A week later she tells me its me she wants to be with. After 6 months she asks me to marry her and it was quite all of a sudden. I said yes because I was in love with her. In a week I find out that she was cheating on me all along and in fact she lied to me when she said I was the one she had chosen. Infact the only reason she asked me to marry her was because her other guy had left her for someone else. I was shocked and quietly dissapeared. After a month she stopped calling and e mailing and havn't trusted a girl since then. And probably never will.go !
go as quick as you can ,
I've been through that stage and i kept going back it's nothing but a crap load of lies .
How you feel?
well.. it really depends on how much you love this person.. if you truley love him/her then every one deserves a second chance, but if that person keeps on doing that same thing over and over again then you shouldn't hold on cause they obviousley don't respect you or your feelings
If they have in fact cheated on you, and you know for certain that they did then I think the best thing to do is to walk away. If this person really did value what you guys had, then they would have respected the relationship and not cheated.
Let go of past, don't make the memories you had with them pull you back to them. Go forward with your future and make new memories with someone who will give you more respect than they did.
I strongly believe in the quote "Fool me once, shame on you fool me twice, shame on me." Whose to say that they won't cheat again?
It is possible that he/she had broken up with you but you didn't understand them so you thought you were still going out but you weren't. That happened to me once. I was really mad until he explained it. I felt really stupid for a while.Then i got over it and started dating someone else.
Why is it that men accuse their girlfriends or wives of cheating without talking to them first?
Mostly whenever a man just ups and accuses his girlfriend or wife of cheating without talking to them first is because they either heard something about you, doesn't trust you,or is cheating themselves.
How do you catch someone cheating?
This is the best way.... its easy to catch some one....begin to act weird.... like something is up....then after you have been acting strange ..... be forthright and confront....though you may not be sure this person cheated...you have to act like you know...but dont confront until you have enough feeling in your gut to be able to be certain they cheated... once you confront them if you still have that gut feeling and they say "no" and they "dont know what youre talking about"...... keep going....tell them you know and that they might as well stop lying....if they reply with "who told you that" or they start guessing...then its obvious they cheated... they go straight to the convicted person...typical... so the way you caught that person: is by them admitting to it unknowingly......so i hope this helps you catch the cheater.
Another Answer
Here are some ways to catch someone cheating. Note that these might not be legal in all jurisdictions.
Check Phone Bills
If they have a cell phone, you need to take a look at the call log. Look for numbers you don't know. Also, check your home phone, if you don't have the details of the calls on your home phone on your bill, request it. Also check cell phone bills.
Analyze the numbers and data. If they call you and find out where you are at then they call another number after every time, call that number.If you can get a voicemail great because their name will most likely be on the voicemail.
There is also the option of using spy softare to track cell phone usage data. In the end, proof like this will be important. Make sure you're positive they're cheating before taking this approach though.
Follow Them
Hire a detective to follow him or her, or follow them yourself one night.
Get a day off from work or your normal routine on the days your SO usually calls that mysterious number by reviewing the phone bill, but don't tell your SO. Borrow a good friend's car that your SO will probably not recognize or pay attention too with tint and sit there within view of of your SO's car and pretty much stock them if they leave and follow them. Take pictures if you see anything out of line, but don't reveal yourself.
You can hook on a car tracker which maps out everywhere someone's vehicle has been also. If you see him or her going to a woman's house or hotel ask him or her about what they did later. They will lie of course. It would be even greater to watch which hotel room they go to and go cover the peephole and knock on the door and have them open it. If they know you are out there and won't leave or answer the door and they have a cellphone and you have one call it and listen to it go off inside the room. :) IF it is a other person's house or apartment and he/she answers already have your cell ready and call it as soon as they open the door and BS's about your SO is not there call it and listen for the ringer going off around the corner of the hall way. Your SO will poop their pants. If they say they aren't their even though you saw them go int there and If you feel warrated spray the person cheating with your SO with a pepper spray fogger and fight past them into the house or hotel room you saw 100% your SO go into and catch them in there.
Investigate Computer or Internet Use
Look on the internet for signs a spouse is cheating. You might buy a keylogger. Never let them know you installed it. They may not even communicate with their other lover on the computer though. If your SO uses the computer a lot though this one is good and produces evidence you can even print out. They may be at work when they use their email account but once they log on from home even once you have their screenname and password and can check their account anytime. It takes about five minutes to install and cost me about $40. You see everything. Web page screenshots, every key typed, every website visited.
Look at Credit Card Statements
Look for receipts or charges on a credit card for dinner or lunch for two, or hotels.
Semen Detection Kits
If you are a male and don't regularly have sex with your SO you can buy checkmate which is a home semen detection kit cost about 45 dollars and takes 5-10 minutes. You can tell what those white stains in you girlfriend's underwear are. (Women, don't use it on your man's underwear. I can tell you cause I am a man and might have a little semen in my drawer and I don't cheat.)
Surprise them at Work
Bring them lunch at work unexpectedly and be friendly to all his/her co-workers giving them muffins and pasteries. This does a lot of things. It lets the other people know your SO is taken and in a relationship. The people in the office will know he or she is taken and will be watching them. There is always someone in the office who has been cheated on in the past ,or unsuccessfully hit on your SO, or plain just doesn't like them and will try and expose them. Your SO will have to try to keep it underwraps more and use the cellphone and other means giving a paper trail. Having a friend in his office is good, but beware of them also.
Look Inside
Look at the reason why you are suspicious. Are you doing something wrong yourself. Guilt is a powerful thing. My buddy's girlfriend who was cheating on him was always suspicious and accusing him and since he was my roomate, I know for a fact he wasn't cheating on her. Then he got suspicious becasue she was always accusing him and he caught her. Now she isn't his girlfriend and he has sex with her and lots of other women and he has the right as far as I'm concerned. He was faithful to her and didn't take the numerous oppurtunities thrown at him. Now he just has fun.
Are you just plain unhappy with your relationship and want out? Maybe you don't want to be the bad guy and break it off and want a good reason too other than you are just bored with them or don't love them after all the things they have done for you. Maybe you already have your eyes on someone else and desire them even though you haven't cheated. Be completely honest with yourself and what you want and the true reason you are suspicious.
ANSWER
Frankly I think if you know someone is cheating it is not worth the time and effort (nor are they) to catch them - just pick up and leave. Another chapter closed. Why do you suspect they are cheating in the first place? that will lead to your answer...
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What do men get out of cheating on their lovers?
- It's definitely an ego boost. My current partner was a terrible sleeze in the beginning when we first started dating. Flirted with girls and never owned up to it. I hired a P.I. and he was so nervous when I confessed I had him followed. It's only now 3 years later that he has started to grow up (38 years of age). I left him 4 times and silly me gave him the benefit of the doubt every time as I always try to see the best in everyone. Unfortunately now I hold less repsect for him because of how he has made me feel and the insecurity that has plagued me due to his flirting and lack of respect he has shown me. I don't feel I have deserved it and not blowing my own horn but I think I am a relatively attractive woman and a mother of two. I don't understand what makes men think they can do this. When I would question him he would say "I cant help if they look at me and give me the attention". I would tell him he was weak if he felt he had to blame it on the female. He thought it was a great ego boost but would never admit it and them blame the girl. A real man wouldn't treat a woman like that. Are there any real men around that treat women with repect anymore? I have a bad taste in my mouth now and don't think I could trust anyone...... A question that both genders have pondered since the begining of time. And the answer is...who knows? Maybe it's just an ego booster. A sign of insecurity, maybe? Maybe they are just jerks. Maybe, maybe, maybe... If you ever find the one and only answer, please share it with me. I have a feeling it will be as elusive as the Holy Grail. Which might be how some men see their quest (lust?) for another also. usually they are insecure and this makes them feel better about themselves, also something to ponder is...it really as small as she says it is..most men who cheat have major insecurites and look at woman as a form of supply not as a real human with equality... it's purely ego... a man is a man if he can carry more than one woman on his shoulder. . Thrills. Sense of superiority. Living up to their "macho" ideal. Keeping their options open. Debasing two women or more who are in competition with one another and in a one-down position in relation to the King of Kings. Control. Distancing. Never having to stand or fall by their merits as honest, open, vulnerable and genuine individuals -- so I'd guess that it's an ego saving strategy for the spineless. It's important to remember that not all men are cheaters. I've been married for a decade and my wife has cheated on me and I've never cheated on her. Honestly between the two of us, I'm much more healthy, clean cut, good looking person. I'm 6'4" 200 lbs and I get hit on a lot. I've never strayed even when she cheated on me, I never once looked the other way. the point I'm getting at is find a man who will honor and love you. If you're a good person chances are you'll find what you are looking for. Don't waste time on someone who doesn't value you and your feelings.
