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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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How do you stop the agonizing pain of betrayal after your husband's affair?
Good one and a hard one to answer. Some people never do and you will have to decide if you are one of those people. No one can make up your mind but you. What was damaged, among other things, is your trust and respect for that person. Those are HUGE items in a relationship. They are often reasons people are together in the first place...you feel that you can trust someone, you are safe with them, safe to confide in them, and that you respect who they are and what they stand for. Once that is damaged, it may never be the same again. However, that doesn't mean that it has to be over. It may just be different. LIfe won't go back to what it was before but if there are still things you love about that person, and you still want to share your life with them, you can make it work. Just know, if it happens again...it will keep on happening. Good luck to you.
Is it considered cheating if a girl is with a boy and girl at the same time?
If everyone involved is okay with it and, at least, one of the people involved is her significant other, no. If she has sex with a boy and a girl, who one of which is not her significant other, then yes.
If your wife is cheating can you tell from white spots on her pantys?
It's not an impossible task, but it'd be very difficult to tell. Women have natural discharges, so it could be easy for a husband to mistake that for adultery on her part.
sometimes,possible because he still have feeling for his ex
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Some married man might but they will never admit it because of the pride and dignity that they have. The only person that might know is the mistress. If the married man fell in love with his mistress because everything is new, different than what he have with his old wife, yes he will think and missed her.
With the mistress, gosh she will be thinking of her ex lover. She will missed the time that they spend together away from his family and friends. There are some mistress that will have hard time when her affair is over. When you loose someone you love, your heart will break either you are the wife or the mistress.
If a husband wants to keep his family together why continued his affair?
- If a husband wanted to keep his family together then he would not continue with an affair. The husband is selfish and weak by not caring how he has hurt others involved and weak because he cannot make up his mind by either staying with his wife or leaving and joining his mistress. The wife should seek marriage counseling first only if he is willing to go and if he is not willing to try then his wife should at least file for a separation.
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If a married man says he wants to keep his family, maybe he meant it but he will continue his affair because he hasn't get caught yet. He is not stupid to give up the good things he have with the other woman if his wife doesn't know what he is doing. The only way this man will say or even tell his mistress that he wants to keep his family, is when his affair is been discovered. It's only right to say and do or else his wife will have all the leverage against him...and it happens all the time
C can you tell if your girlfriend isn't cheating on you?
- Every couple runs the risk of one or both cheating on the other. Good communication skills are a must in a relationship. Sit down calmly with her and discuss how you feel, but do not accuse her of cheating. You may have trust issues because you have been hurt in the past by someone else. Talk things out with your girlfriend and be sure to let her know that cheating by either of you is not acceptable and it would ruin the relationship.
Would husband cheat if he had perfect opportunity?
it basically depends on the mutual understanding betwen you two. And from my point of view, if you love your husband and you are loyal him and put up your 100% effort to make him happy by your love and care, he would never think about doing such things, but if not then cant say!!, because what i know is men actually needs care and love like a little baby, which after marriage a wife has to give and which a husband expects. try to do this if he would be cheating he would never do it again. May god bless you both.
What is the downside of seeking revenge?
Angers God, distroys relationships with you, the person and God but makes Satan really happy. To stop this, repent, accept Christ as your Lord and saviour and spend some time with Jesus (read the bible
Meaning of dream when girlfriend is caught talking to another male?
Caught... talking?
I think your use of the verb means you're a bit too much the jealous kind. "Catching" is a word reserved for when people are being seen in a situation they normally shouldn't be in.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with your girlfriend to talk to other men. If dreaming about it made you sad or even mad, you need to analyse the situation a bit. She's a human being, not a possession, and you see her talking to other boys, you don't "catch" her. The fact that she's with you is proof that, for whatever reason, she's interested in you than more than in any other guy. But she still has her own life too, you're not married or anything.
What do you do after a big fight with your boyfriend?
Eat. Icecream.
Well, I think a lot of this answer depends on who the people are, how close they are, and how long the relationship has been going on. Typically, I feel like two people who have just had a big fight need some time to cool down and think things over. You should never be too proud to apologize, and neither should he. Be sure to truly forgive him, and don't hold a grudge. Holding a grudge can make you bitter for years to come. If it's been a few hours or longer, go ahead and take the initiative and send him a text or call him to talk it out. Chances are you've both cooled down. If the fight was over something important, take into consideration the fact that maybe the relationship isn't worth saving. Also, make sure fights never turn physical. This is a big no-no, and means you need to get out, now.
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Go for a walk and calm down, then while your walking re think of what happen between the two of you. It's going to be he said, she said but things needs to be solve in a nice way, don't you agree?
Can a married man from another country marry a woman in USA?
yes Barack Obama Sr. was married in Africa when he married Barack's mother.
The laws of the individual country would determine if he could be found guilty of adultery.
When a wife leaves her husband does that mean she has another man she loves?
No, not always. There are many women that are extremely independent and can leave their spouse and be on their own without having another man waiting in the wings. It's a myth that all women leave their spouse because of another man. Some women do and others don't.
A bit more:There can be many reasons why a wife would leave her husband (and vice versa), so those who don't really know the circumstances should never make assumptions, nor should they gossip among others about what they *think* the reason is.- She and her husband may have grown apart over time.
- They may want different things from life.
- One may want children, and the other doesn't.
- She may simply have fallen out of love with him.
- She may feel the need to pursue a career or a college degree.
- She and her husband may have issues they can't agree on.
- She may not be physically attracted to her husband any more.
- The husband may have cheated on her.
- There could be problems such as alcohol, drug abuse or gambling.
- She may just be feeling "restless" and not even understand why.
- She may feel she and her husband just need a temporary break from each other.
- The husband may be emotionally, physically, or verbally abusive to her.
- The husband may have trouble keeping a job, or even refuse to try to get a job.
Should your boyfriend be talking to his ex on the phone?
No way your boyfriend should not to talk to his ex about you guys because it would mean he would be trying to make his ex jealous amd come back to him and it would also mean he is just using you to make his ex jealous!
This is to all the girls who have boyfriends and is doing what the question ssaid.
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To answer you question, I do so from the mistress standpoint something I am not proud of it but something I am dealing with. Basically your "boyfriend" otherwise known as cheating husband wants his cake and ice cream too. He is vested with his wife and family and wants to see if he can fix it. He wants to keep the mistress on the burner incase his plan to save his marriage fails. I am in a similar situation. I met a guy had sex a week later found out he was married I refused to move onward till he got a divorce. Now keep in mind he told me he was single so he lied to me out the gate. 2 months later I called out of curiosity he spent the weekend with me. That monday I called his wife and told her. Just to free myself and to be done with the whole adultress situation. I let go of him and was free from anything to do with him. That was the 2nd monday of November by the first of Decemember he called to check on me. The day after I told his wife she moved out and he wants to continue our relationship. His child knows that we are dating and but she does not. I worry too that their relationship will mend itself out as she does not know he has come back to me. But in the end I have been very blunt with him and not allowing his tactics. He knows I will always find out and I will not sit and take it. I can walk away. So he has learned to be honest with me and straight forward so much it is annoying. I wish you luck but in all honesty if he can't commit to you then it is not worth it. Mine is commiting so much it is scary meeting my parents, my siblings, my friends. Etc. Typically affairs do not include the entire family
Is it true that every man cheats on his wife or girlfriend when she is pregnant?
NO! Several men are despicable like that, but believe it or not, there are many decent husbands out there who can wait nine months for their wife!
I agree with the above contributor 100%. I might also add, that sexual relations between husband and wife do not stop when she is pregnant. Most will continue until the third trimester; just not as aggressively. Whoever gave you that information is evidently a very uninformed individual.
How do you tell when married woman is interested in married man?
You really don't unless she is unusually straight forward. Even if you do feel she is the best thing to do is walk away - she is married.
Is it possible that a single man fall in love with a married woman?
I don't know if I would call that a particularly smart idea. At some point, his wife is going to be making a case that she deserves most of his money. If she can point to his infidelity (with you) she can make a stronger case. It is best to wait until the divorce is finalized.
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Could I? wow not sure. It will take a while for me to fall in love to someone, esp. if this man is married but separated. It doesn't matter if this man is separated, he still married. If you fell in love with this man, can you trust him enough, knowing he is separated with his wife. Anyone can fall in love especially if a man (aka- married man) is separated or not, women does it to without a doubt.
I will give you my personal experience, the man I married said so many lies on his profile inside the dating site ( before I found out) he met a married woman as well on a dating site. They dated, seen each others and fell in love to each others while this man was still with me and out children. So you see, a married man don't need to be separated from his wife to fall in love to another person.
Will your marriage ever be the same after your spouse affair?
- People are only human and make mistakes so if this is the first time your spouse has cheated on you and they are willing to go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with problems in the marriage then yes, there are marriages that survive an affair and end up being stronger for it.
Why am i still in love with my ex when he cheated on me?
Don't beat yourself up so much. You're young and when any of us were young we thought we could change the bad habits of our boyfriends and some of us even married them! There must have been some good times with him and those are the memories you are holding onto. Losing someone even to cheating is like grieving for a loved one that has died and, in ways, it is a death ... a death of a love at least on your part. Don't be so upset about him finding another girlfriend because he'll grow bored of her too and end up cheating on her and finding someone else. Also, these cheaters end up hurting themselves and they'll pay the price. Give yourself some time, then get out with friends, meet other nice guys and start dating again. This guy is and never will be the right guy for you. If you don't have respect for yourself then don't expect it from anyone else. Cheaters are losers! So are guys that abuse their mates or women that cheat and abuse their mate.
I want to really KNOW if my husband is seeing another person?
- Only you can find out if your husband is cheating on you and you can either hire a detective to follow him or find a girlfriend that will be willing to drive you around and follow him and catch him in the act.
How do you get your ex to forgive you?
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my question to you is why is it important to you whether your ex will forgive you. I think it's time to move on and maybe one day if you manage your life for better that's when you can make amends to your ex. That is why we call them ex. Always remember, everything happen for a reason in our life.
What do married women want from other men?
Most husbands are seeking both emotional support and sexual satisfaction from marriage.
Are your dreams about your boyfriend cheating true?
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Dreams are all about things that we do each day. There are dreams that will disturb us because of what we do. Dreams is only dreams and its always separate from what we are thinking. Do not let a simple dreams bothered you, because it will never come true or even real.
It means that he has fallen in love again with the woman.But something I want to know:If the married man felt so bad and angry when his mistress cheated him,could he imagine the situation when his wife would know that HE CHEATED on him.He must be very ashamed of himself.
What are some reasons why some married women have extra marital affairs?
Some reasons are to feel sexy and wanted, to have attention that she may feel is being denied to her, to start up a relationship outside of her marriage, or it could be just a part of her personality even before she was married, that is, being highly flirtatious.
