Cheating

You know because he is always there for you and calls you beautiful instead of hot and makes you the number one person in his life thats true love

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It depends on how bad the betrayed spouse was hurt. Most of the divorce couples who end up into divorce end up having a hard time starting all over again. But for those who divorce because of the affairs, the spouse who did the wrong will end up regretting what happen. Some will continued fooling around to prove that he or she can still attract the opposite sex.

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If you marry a man you had an affair with, you'd be crazy and here's why. If he was married and was having an affair with you what's to stop him from marrying you and having an affair behind your back? I wouldn't trust a guy like that if he gave me the moon.

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It depends on the individual, but if he marry the woman he had the affair with the woman will start asking herself if she can trust him. After all this man did betrayed his wife before, so how can she be sure if he will be devoted to her.

• If the mistress belongs to someone in that family she should apologize to the family. If she is not a member of that family then it is 100% up to the husband to apologize. For you to put the blame on him is weak and you are in denial. You could have said a simple 'no.'
  
• No you shouldn't apologize to his family that's his job he's the one who screwed it up now he'll have to fix it! I know what you mean when you said the husband started the affair because the same thing happened to me except i didn't have to apologize to his family. The husbands or their wife will try to put all the blame on the mistress but guess what it takes two to tango. If you would like to talk feel free to contact me.

Behaving Different.

If he/she has a lot of unexpected or sudden events or appointments.

If he/she seems distant.

If he/she doesn't include you in their world as much as they once did.

If he/she is conveniently unreachable when they're away.

Watch the movie, Unfaithful, and see how her behavior changes. It's perfect!

To determine if your spouse may be cheating, look for signs such as changes in behavior, increased secrecy with their phone or computer, or unexplained absences. Pay attention to emotional distance or shifts in intimacy, as these can also indicate issues in the relationship. Trust your instincts, and consider having an open and honest conversation with your spouse about your concerns. If needed, seeking the help of a professional, like a therapist, can provide additional support.

The best way is to find a new boy friend.

Some times this answer does not apply to everyone.

Because,

Some boys cheat and some boys just make fun with other girls but they love only one girl in their life that may be you.!

Try this-----

1. If he cheated? you also cheat him.

2. If he slaps you? then you also slap him.

3. That's it. But don't leave him. hold his hand tightly and say "I love you so much please don't leave me alone"" and say sorry to all your mistakes.

He may change his behaviour if he loves you so much.

Of course no one can obey the third trial because we all have ego. Right?

If you want LOVE then leave your EGO but not your HEART and LOVE on your LOVER.

Another answer: If he is cheating, he doesn't care. End it with dignity and leave him to grow up.

• When a spouse cheats and the other spouse misses the signs that he is having an affair it is because the wife feels she knows her husband well and trusts him as she should because both took vows when they got married. Although the signs of her husband having an affair may be quite clear many wives prefer to ignore them. Some of those signs are: the husband saying he has to work late several times a week; if he travels in his job he may get two tickets to wherever he is going and the extra ticket is for his mistress; lying about phone numbers you do not recognize on his cell; phone calls coming to your home and then someone hanging up or your husband secretly talking to the woman behind your back; perhaps the smell of perfume; the husband fakes being tired instead of having a sexual relationship with his wife; if the woman he is having an affair with is a friend of the couples his actions often give him away because he may well be looking at his mistress and she is looking at him.

Guys always have thoughts of sex but only he can answer if he actually likes you or if he may be just using you for sex.

drop him of at a foster home

Quite simple love, she's probably scared and feeling awkward because she didn't realize and expect that you know or even have her cell number. Now all hell break loose, ( excuse my language) and I bet that your husband probably know already what you have done. If he comes home, be calm act like nothing is going on, then wait if his going to talk to you or not. Just know that his mistress already told your husband what you sent to her. Don't let him manipulate you by telling you that he made a mistakes. Good luck..

Do NOT get married to the military.

I would say its 99% of them time.

I dont care who you are and how much your think your marriage is different from everyone else's. ITS NOT. I am speaking from experience.

I would also say its high, I don't know about 99% but I would say 95% of them cheat. I'm very rare when it comes to the Army, I've never cheated and never will, but almost every single person I know has cheated on there significant other.

Its funny, I ran across this and I myself would like to know the answer. I have been friends with this guy 4 years. We attend the same school and had class with each other. I was pregnant and had left their father..and he volunteered to be with me while I had him..(I didnt allow it). When I moved going on a year ago helped me move and he was there everyday visiting and checking up on us. He baked all kinds of goodies and cooked for me on a regular but he never crossed the line. So, one day I decided to share my innermost feelings for him..and at the same time he decided that he wanted to tell me something that he felt he should have been told me which was the fact that he was married. He still remains my bestfriend...but I love him dearly. I pray about this all the time bc I dont believe in adultery nor do I like feeling this way towards him. Actually, I feel like he should have been wearing his ring. I also feel like he should have been honest in the beginning about his status reguardless of them being seperated. I am a single mother of 2 handsome little men. I am abstinent and he knows these things. Why would a man lie about something like this? I was honest from the beginning. He knows what kind of woman I am because he was over here everyday. Some times I feel like I want to slap the hell out of him for not being honest...I hate liars....:(((

There are applications you can install on someone's phone to track their texts, calls, and web page views. This is a discreet application that the person will not recognize.

They like your attitude and behavior and personality. but not your decisions or they way you react to things.

Yes he would still think about her and what they did. He may or may not still have feelings, if he doesn't those thoughts may go away after time. Memories will surface when they are around each other and the man should remove himself from a situation where they encounter each other if he trying to reconcile with his wife or girlfriend.

Yes you need to give a second chance to every one what if your bf really want you to come back to him again it means that your bf really love you even he cheats on you every one of us deserve a second chance but that depends on you if you think your bf will do that again then don't give him a chance but remember every one of us deserve a second chance

11 is young to be worrying about not having had a boyfriend.
You have so much life ahead of you, and you'll have one soon! I didn't have one until I was fifteen and I'm so happy with my life right now. You'll be fine.
If you like someone, great. Go for it & have fun. If not, don't worry!

I would simply confront him. Ask him, if he tells you that he's not, and you still don't trust his answer, let him know that you're sorry but you're not comfortable. Let him know that you aren't trying to be difficult, but you'd like it if he could do something that could help your insecurities.

That's the best advice I can give you.

Good Luck!

Maybe also look for other signs...

Behaving Different.

If he/she has a lot of unexpected or sudden events or appointments.

If he/she seems distant.

If he/she doesn't include you in their world as much as they once did.

If he/she is conveniently unreachable when they're away.

Watch the movie, Unfaithful, and see how her behavior changes. It's perfect!

I hope that helps you!

Good Luck!

Yes. If you cannot forgive at this time and it is always on your mind he needs to be out of your life. but it is always better to save the marriage, that is a small part of life that some of us have to go through even tho' it really hurts now. You will be stronger in dealing with other aspects of a relationship.

Usually, the spouse will act very strange and leave the house a lot. Also, when you ask them where they have been they may hesitate and then quickly change the subjuct. To find out if they are having an affair, just stalk them. It may be difficult, but try to make it look natural. If they ask why you're doing that, don't cover up. Just tell them the truth and ask them if they are. If they refuse to answer, you know somethings up and i would walk out. If you have children, take them with you for a few days. Then come back and see how things are going. If well, you would have to go through some major marriage counseling and try to sort things out, but they should have never had an affair in the first place.

desperation. or the man is too much of a woman to do it himself.

Just tell her how you feel.... ask her would she be interested in going out to dinner with you.... Ask her if she's doing anything on the date in question, and then ask if she likes the kind of food served at the place you want to go. Then ask if she would like to go with you. Be casual about it if you're not really freinds, you might scare her if you try to act too romantic at first. You can act a little more intamate with a freind, but don't over do it unless you have reason to believe that she feels the same way about you. You might break the freindship if you flirt too much or try to get to 'close'.

yes. but only with consistency and determination. you must have the love of

God within you to begin the healing process or else old, hard, bitter feelings will keep rehashing. do you love the person? is this a one time affair? love will always find a way because only it knows and understands what trails and tribulations are all about. you both will need each other and counseling from God and from man won't hurt either. also lots or good sex and constant kissing(deep kissing) works.