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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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Do girls cheat as much as men or less than men do?
girls are not cheated boys ... they are cheated themselves...
they are move away from boys but they dont know how much the boys loved them...
so they are cheated themselves...
How can you tell if someone lies to you?
If she makes a pause that means shes thinking of what to say next . She might sound a little suspicious when she's lying .
You might notice changes in your friend's body language when you are talking; there's no point specifically looking for clues, but you'll get a feeling something's not right.
You'll also notice inconsistencies in your friends comments and statements over time and if you reply, 'but I thought you said something different last time we talked about this?' you could find your friend becomes evasive or even offended that you are questioning what they say.
But truly, you can't be absolutely sure if your friend is lying. The fact that you are worried about this indicates you've already noticed signals which make you doubt your friend; you need to think about what these signals are and why your first reaction is to consider dishonesty.
Your instincts are frequently correct.
How can you tell when a guy is jealous of your boyfriend?
Well, Ive had this happen to me before. I have two guy friends that i was really close with but they got really jealous of me and my boyfriend dating. They were going to fight each other but i just told them to stop and one day they decided that they didnt want to talk to me anymore so i told them okay and now me and my boyfriend are having a great relationship.
All i can tell you to do, is if your willing to stop talking to your guy friends then do that and make your bf your number one priority, Or dump the guy your with to make your guy friends happy.
Has anyone gone from mistress to wife?
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Well, it's a very specific situation, but generally speaking, a man/woman who cheated on their partner or use to do that regularly CAN change their ways after meeting their true love. I have a friend who used to cheat on her boyfriends regularly (kind of shocked me when she told me about it) but after she met the man who is now her husband, she changed. Funnily enough, her husband was even worse than her, and now he's madly in love and a model dad for their two kids:)
yes
How do you guard yourself from cheating husband?
You can't no matter what, but if this is the first time your husband cheated on you and he is trying to make amends to what he did, this will be up to you. If you think that you still love him and you can move on by forgiving his stupidity, then you know best.
From my past experience I can't live with my husband for having an affair. It doesn't matter how it's been but every time I see his face, it reminds me on how good he treated his mistress than me. I thought he was a quite type man but I was wrong, he loves to talk. For 20 odd years I know that he never show his emotion and affection, but I was also mistaken. So for me to have a piece of mine, I didn't let my husband come back to me anymore. To many memories and so much pain.
There are various reasons, but the most common is a man (or woman) can be brought up in an abusive family and learn the habits of abuse be it verbal or physical or both. In some instances men/women will become jaded in life because they don't feel they may be where they feel they should be as far as money, fame, fortune and a good job. Some people can have it all such as a great family bringing them up and fairly good luck out in the world and just be plain mean to the bone. Scientists are studying the human habits of abusers to find out what malfunction of the brain causes an abuser to do what he/she does (just like criminals.) Abusers are about control. Unlike many think (because most of us have little sympathy for abusers) they are like a run away locomotive that can't stop the bad habits, and especially men will refuse counseling for their problems. To men it's a weakness, yet they actually feel weak when they abuse and hate themselves for it, but can't stop. That's why many men will promise to never harm their spouse or children again, but always do. Abusers can love, but don't know how to love normally. In order to survive they need total control and that's why they usually are nice to the person they meet (almost too nice at times) generous, funny, and the victim doesn't even see it coming. The next step is either the abuser convinces his/her victim to live with them or get married and slowly they isolate their victim from their family and friends and then the abuser has 100% control. Even though they may not know it they are artful at manipulation and weakening the mental state of their victim so the victim feels they must have done something wrong to deserve it; is too fearful of the abuser or has low self esteem and is too embarrassed to tell anyone. There are more and more laws being passed to protect both men and women and also Abused Women's Centers for victims to escape too. There are programs for females/males that are victims of abuse as well as children. The number is as close as your Mental Health Clinic.
the married man will be surely affected by his mistress on his work because emotions are uncontrollable. if the man is trying to make his marriage work he should first try to earn the trust of his mistress. love and trust are the two main pillars of any relationship.
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If a married man is trying to make his marriage work, he shouldn't have a mistress. (Because love and trust are the two main pillars of any relationship!)
What should you do if your boyfriend has another girl and he keep lying?
Why is he still your boyfriend? If you don't like what he is doing, leave him. Life is too short to put up with nonsense.
What do you do if your boyfriend wants to kill himself and takes it out on you?
You should definitely try to talk your boyfriend into seeking professional help first and foremost.
Secondly, do not blame yourself, he is apparently going through some type of inner struggle and you are not to blame for anything because you did nothing wrong.
Talk with him about his problems (if he cares to talk about them) be supportive and understanding. If he starts to take it out on you, try to explain to him that you are not the one to blame, and he should find a professional to talk to, to find out why he is having these feelings.
We've all got problems, things in our lives that we are dealing with emotionally/mentally.
Sometimes we all need a little help, and there is no shame in seeking that help from a psychologist/therapist or support group.
In fact it makes you a stronger person when you face your problems and realize and understand that you need help.
And you yourself also need to consider a support group or just sharing your feelings with your friends and family if you already haven't.
Being in a relationship with a person that has a mental disorder and that's often suicidal is extremely difficult on many levels.
Best of luck to you, and your boyfriend.
How do you tell if she is over her ex husband?
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Why would a best friend cheat with your boyfriend?
- Your best friend is not your best friend at all because if she was she would never hurt you in this way. She did so because she can and some women are jealous of their friends if they are married. Also when your best friend is around both you and your husband she may have fallen in love with him. Both your best friend and husband are to blame, but mainly your husband as he could have formed the word 'no' at the very beginning and chose not too. You would be wise to get rid of your best friend and let your husband know you are not putting up with him cheating. Good friends simply would not do this to hurt another friend.
Can he love you if he keeps hurting you?
1. if u are asking why does love hurt and he loves u that means that he likes someone else or he is not feeling it anymore.
2. if u are asking if why he doesn't like you it is probably because u make it so obvious in front of every one that you like them so if they say yes to your question do you like me? Then you will tell all your friends and it wont be romantic any more. But try to still like him but not show it.
Why is your best friend treating you like crap?
If you are talking about YOUR best friend, maybe the question should have been:
Why is my best friend treating me like crap?
Maybe she/he is treating you badly because you did something they didn't like. If they are dating someone, maybe they think you messed with his/her boyfriend/girlfriend.
PS. You should seriously give a lot more information.
How do you get revenge on a boy thats a player?
When you get a player, and are played BY that player... you play back. When he breaks your heart use the hurt and channel it to revenge. First off you use a friend that he doesn't know. hook them up without him knowing that you did. Make sure the friend isn't vulnerable to sweet words of love and all the tricks he used on you. Since you know all that he likes make her the perfect girl for him. If you see he starts to play her tell her to break it off. If he begins to fall in love with her then your in. Once he does keep playing off of it til you know his feelings are so strong he would just about die if she left. Then when he is comfortable and happy, rip her out from under him, like he did you. The heart is a vulnerable thing, anything can be manipulated if studied and the heart is one of the easiest things. make his game your game except sneakier.
****Tips:
- 1)make sure you know him well, know his game and the way he plays- they always have a pattern.
- 2) don't use a easy to hurt friend tell the friend in advance and see if she is good for it.
- 3) don't let him know you are friends! That messes up the mission!
- 4) do it once, don't over do it with the same guy, it shows that your totally not over him.
- 5) Don't be obvious, a good player can tell when he is being played and remember to remind the girl he is good and it'll be tough.
- 6) if you fail, don't keep trying.
- 7)have fun Chick and remember my tips and advice! ;)
*******How to spot a player:
- It is kinda tough at times. You may think only the pretty boys do it, but no, watch out for the average dudes too! they can be just as deadly if not more. If you don't trust him, stay that way until your sure that you can. If someones says they are cheating on you or that he is with them. Most likely chick.... He is.The average ones are smart ones. You never expect them but they are the worst. They steal your heart right from under you WHILE they are doing it to some other poor little innocent victim. (For the record: older guys like younger, naive little virgins for a reason!) If they want some don't give it to them, respect yourself and use MORALS!
- *********Alright so i know a lot of you girls think that this is bull that's been written but trust me. I know how guys are and this is written from a girl that's been played point of view. yeah you thought you loved the guy and They made you think they loved you back but the reality is sometimes you are used. A lot of the times guys aren't hat you think they are but take the chances of life and stand through the hurt. yeah it hurts& sucks but that's life. deal with it and it may get better!
- *********One more thing: If its hard to be with someone you love.... Leave. because most likely, its not worth it.
They never return the girlfriend's calls, or if they do then they say they are somewhere else and don't want to be disturbed as they are with their 'mates'. They act really offhand when they meet up with their girlfriend, and may fly off the handle at their girlfriend for no apparent reason - except there is a reason but they cannot say it for obvious reasons (they want to keep the secret, but the girlfriend may be close to finding out the truth...) They also keep their phone with them at all times, and always empty their email Inbox before they go out.
How do you find out if your wife cheated on you in the past?
Go strait up to her say "I won't be mad but please tell me, have you cheated on me in the past" then look her in the eye lifeless and say "I will always love you" and wait for an answer.
How do you tell your boyfriend that you found out he is talking to other girls?
Be honest, polite and calm and just tell him how it makes you feel when he speaks to your friend. But remember he is with you and is likely talking with her because he is around you two as well as it is your friend you may be reading more into it then necessary and are getting jealous over nothing. Also remember that guys don't tend to put up with jealous girlfriends and becoming this way could push him away and inevitably lead to losing him.
Why would a man stay in a loveless marriage if he's in love with another woman?
Hmmm. Is he really in a "loveless" marriage or is he just telling you he is? There is the possibility that he is just too much of a coward to leave, and even if that were the case, would you want to be with someone who appears to be incapable of being true to himself as well as those he claims to love? don't you deserve better than that? I would be concerned that he isn't being straightforward with himself, you and his wife. When people truly love someone (and themselves) they are honest no matter what the cost.
Do you leave your cheating husband?
yes. its like a game...if other person cheats, u dont like playing with them and u leave the game. so i say u should leave the cheater
Can I tell if my boyfriend cheats by the amount of semen he has?
The only way you'd be able to tell by their semen is if you found it on/in someone else. Trust your instincts. The site provided below has a list of signs of cheating, but these are not foolproof or applicable in every relationship.
Do you get full custody if your husband is cheating?
I don't blame you for being hurt and angry and I know if you had your way you are angry enough to keep the children away from him. However, it's up to a judge to decide that one and as long as he doesn't do drugs or is abusive to the children he probably will get partial custody. Please remember, that children don't completely understand what is going on with their parents, and all they know is it's "mom and dad" and they don't want to be caught in the middle deciding who to be with. They are extremely upset when mom and dad split up. Please do your children a favor and bite your tongue and let them see their father providing he is responsible. Put your own difference aside and think of your children. The anger will subside, you'll meet someone that will treat you better and the hurt doesn't last forever. Good luck Marcy
If a boy hangs around with other girls does that mean he still likes you?
Hey, just 'cause he likes you, doesn't mean he can't spend time with other people. He might be trying getting you annoyed or jealous, but don't do it. He wants to see how you feel. Trust me, lots of boys do this and I've had experience.
Will a husband cheat with his female friends?
It is a sensor that is telling you too look out for this man.
He is a chiller.
That's what you call it because if he is cheating on you and you had a baby without telling the father of that child then there is going Tobe a lot of fussing.
How do you tell if your woman cheated?
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Women is plural but let just talk about this woman you wanted to know if she is cheating. I do not know how long you know her or even if you have a relationship with her, but for a woman to cheat, she will have a good reason why. If you are the partner, then ask yourself if you are good to her, have you make her your priority, even making her feel special? If you want to know the answer, the best thing is talk to her and you might be surprise what you might learn...
How to catch a cheating spouse?
The best and most effective way to catch a cheating spouse is to leave it up to the professionals, there are various top private investigators and computer specialist like atomgrim .com that can help you to find out.
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