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Dating
We all get stuck and need advice about our relationships. The contributors in the Dating category work hard to give you that advice with the best intentions and sincerity.
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I would be very wary of someone old enough to be your grandfather that wanted to date you. The reason is more about him than it is you I'll bet.
AnswerI would say stay away from him. Why would he want someone that young to be his granddaughter? Im sorry but that sounds gross. I mean he would be old and wrinkly down there. Could he even get it up? I wouldn't go there honey. I don't see how you could be even attracted to him. Now I see and know why he would want you..a trophy girlfriend or wife. But gross too old for my tastebuds...What does it mean when he says he cares?
it means it does matter to him what goes on with you and everything and just maybe he really likes you you never know it could be more thatn just careing for you he could also mean he loves you but he don't know how to tell you. I am hoping its love, because I do love him and I have told him so.
I would say he was probably trying to open up a conversation that leads to a date. If you say he is shy, then maybe he was rehearsing this question. I faced the same situation before and I told him that I have to work on other stuff and asked him what his plans are for the weekend and he never got back. So was his question about my plans intended to be casual, if it was casual he would reply. But since he didn't respond, does it mean he was embarassed that he asked this question in the first place? Maybe Just nervous. Do you like him? It is totally okay for a girl to ask a guy out as well. Why don't you ask him to hangout sometime. Maybe you can get a better idea of what he thinks.
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What are some signs a guy might use to tell you he's not interested?
- Ignoring you
- Not keeping any dates you may have
- Not treating you with respect
- Never taking you anywhere
- Not socializing with your friends or his
- Using you for sex
- Not seeing him for days (especially on the weekend)
- Never saying nice things to you such as you're pretty, etc.
- Just a general lax attitud
- stops having sex or makes up excuses to not have sex like:im tired,its late and i have work,if u have something wrong with u hell use that
- does not cuddle,only when you ask hell cuddle then have something he has to do just so he can get away
- stop thinking of u and your needs and your feelings
- tell you he needs space
When people date I classify it as a "mini marriage" because you are sharing almost the same things in that relationship as you do in marriage ... sex, hopefully discussing your future plans, loyalty, honesty (and no cheating!) It appears this guy is self centered and wants to have everything his way (staying single) but wants you to wait for him when he wants you there. That is not a good quality in a man or woman. Tell this guy to take a hike! I bet he'll start calling you on a more regular basis and if he doesn't .. don't let the door slam him in the butt on your way out! Remember hon, when someone loves you they want to be with you. That doesn't mean you have to see each other every single day or even phone each other every single day, but it does mean doing things together on at least the weekends. Don't be a statistic and sit there waiting for the phone to ring. Fade out from him ... start dating other guys. Good luck Merry Christmas Marcy Oh my god marcy i was just telling my aunt the same thing you said. i will quit calling him the guy just drives me crazy. thanks for the advice. michelle Hi Michelle I am so glad you thought of it first! LOL When it's a person in the midst of a problem we often "can't see the forest for the trees" and you've had the answer all along. I was just telling my girlfriend the other day that I bump into so many jerks out there going after young girls (I'm married) and the stories those girls tell me. My nieces and Goddaughters are dating and it's scary. However, I do know there are some wonderful guys out there and by letting the door slam on this guys butt you set yourself free! Just imagine ... free at last! I bet by summer of 2006 you'll have met a wonderful guy. Good luck hon Merry Christmas Marcy
What does a man mean if he is married but tells you that you are special?
Of course you are special. After all, he's married, will probably stay married, but expects you to be there when he wants you to be and is probably enjoying or going to enjoy a sexual relationship with you. Women with dignity don't have anything to do with a married man (lots of single guys out there) and if anything, women should have the guts to protect other women. How would you like it if you were married and someone you loved was having or going to have an affair with another woman? I don't think you would like it.
he just thinks you're the best thing that ever happened to him, and you make him feel alive for the first time in years, and his wife is not understanding of his needs, but he can't promise you a future with him.
I hope you get the picture and kick this jerk to the curb.
Good luck Marcy
AnswerIt means that he wants to sleep with you and keep you around as a mistress, but has no intention of divorcing his wife for you. Stay away from married men, if they cheat on their wives, they will cheat on you and lie to you.ANSWER:
Sorry sweetie but that married man is a bad news. He knows how to say the right words that will make you feel special. Don't if I were you I will tell him that it's not proper to give compliment to others.
What does it mean when a girl said that she would do anything for you?
she is really in love with you
News flash: when it comes to dating, guys like to chase the women they find attractive. It's the thrill of the hunt. It sounds backwards and sexist, but it's true, and if you want to learn to navigate the world of men, you'd do best to learn the Secrets of the Boys Club. Here are a few to keep in mind:
He Likes it When You Are Your Own Woman. Dependency is not sexy. There's no need to rub it in his face, but make sure that he knows that you would be perfectly fine without him. Show, don't tell him-- display your confidence and individuality even after the two of you get into a relationship.
He Loves It When You Are Confident. Insecurity is a huge turn-off. The hottest women are the ones who look good and know it.
He Hates It When You Call Him. When you first start dating a guy, take your mother's old-fashioned advice and don't call him. If he is thinking about you, he'll call you, and if you beat him to the punch you'll ruin the thrill of the chase.
To Make Him Stick Around, Make Him Wait. If you give it all away on the first date, he'll lose interest. As tempting as it may be, move slowly when it comes to physical stuff. Need a clearer rule? Don't sleep with him until three months into the relationship.
He Secretly Loves It When You Are Unavailable. If he asks you out, tell him that you're busy that night (whenever it is) and suggest another night, unless he calls you more than three days in advance. If you make him understand that you have a life straight off the bat, you'll be less likely to come across as that over-eager, super-available, desperate girl.
If He Gets Intimidated, Move On. You need someone in your life who understands that you are a sexy, brilliant, beautiful woman who is going places in this world. If he ever makes you feel like less than that because of his own insecurities, dump him. Compromise your integrity once, and you're setting yourself up for a world of heartbreak down the line.
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AnswerHe either changed his mind (it happens) or he's playing you.
You can't change whether he calls or not but you can change how YOU react. Obviously you like this guy, but do you really want someone who tells you one thing and does another? Do you really want someone who makes you wait for him to call you?
You've been given a gift here. You've found out very early on that this guy isn't as in to you as he should be. Take that gift and be thankful for it. There are other guys who will fall all over you and actually call when they say they will. Consider the situation with THIS guy HIS loss and stop dwelling on him
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Ok take it from a guy...DO NOT listen to that lady who posted that crap about the boys club. Im not a player and I don't cheat on my g/f if I have one. This is what I look for in a girl. First off if I ask you out on a date and you say no I cant and theres a good reason why, that's ok. BUT if I ask you out and you say no just for the sake of it and your not busy or you'd rather go out with your friends, that just tells me you could careless if you see me or not an that doesnt go far with me. I prolly wouldn't ask u out anymore after that. Second If I meet a girl and she doesnt call or text me on a regular basis the first thing im going to think is...she has other guys talking to her (player, slut) or she just doesnt care enough to call me. If you like someone let them know the more you see an talk to each other the closer you get. An Finally I agree with that girl on one thing....don't give it up on the 1st date or the 1st week. Most guys will think your an easy piece of pun tang. At least wait a month til you guys do the dirty. I mean during the month wait you can make out and let him play stink finger along with waxing his carrot. After you've had sex with him he'll keep coming back for more as long as its good cuz theres many positions an it doesnt get boring. Only jerks hit it and quit it. As for him not calling after he said he likes u well I hate to be the barrer of bad news but he prolly found another girl. If you call him an he doesnt get back to u or answer then its a definite thing. If he still talks to u maybe hes just lazy an doesnt bother to call u.
Do guys like a pretty face or a nice body better?
- From a females stand-point they love both, but many good looking men end up with plain women with a great personality. We all look at good looking people with handsome/beautiful faces and great bodies, but it doesn't mean we want one. Some men go for a great body while other men like a pretty or cute faced woman. It depends on the individual. Of course men love both, and why shouldn't they and women love a handsome man with a good body, but whether we like to admit it or not, most of us need that personality and a person with a bit of a sense of humor.
- As a guy, it depends. If I want to look at a woman on TV, I don't like looking at skinny, tall, runway models, except maybe for a short time, because I think all they've got is a pretty face. However, that's just watching them on TV. In real life, maybe I would consider dating one. The women I like to look at the most, either on TV or in real life, have nice bodies, even if their faces are not the prettiest, maybe average looking or plain looking. Breast size isn't important to me anymore. The bikini model women on TV commercials for chat-lines, I enjoyed watching the most were, first of all, not like the other bikini models because my favourites looked like their bodies are sort of puffy, or inflated, almost at the borderline of starting to be what I would consider a fat body. Their faces were still pretty, even though I think the slimmer models had prettier faces, or maybe it's that the models with my favourite bodies which are well-built but not yet fat, have wider faces which I think are pretty, but not quite as attractive as a slimmer face. I'll always believe Marilyn Monroe was the most beautiful woman I've ever seen on TV, and I think she had a great body, sort of puffy, but not yet fat, and I think she also had a beautiful face, which was sort of a wide, round, face. Guys tend to like girls who have a mixture of both, for example, a pretty girl who isn't skinny or really fat, but what people don't understand is that if you are SUPER skinny then it just puts guys off so much as they feel like its not worth it, so for you girls out there, there is no point going on a diet to be a size 0 because most guys detest it.
Just for the record, don't try and be beautiful, or try to be skinny... All the guy only wants is sex or to show you off and make you seem like a prize instead of a real person... If I had my say, just put on a little make-up and just be yourself because any guy worth dating would think you're beautiful anyway
What are signs a girl likes you?
Girls are confusing. Some girls run in the opposite direction when they like a boy while others stay close by his side, looking for any opportunity to interact or get close to him. Some major signs a girl likes you are flirting, shyness, stuttering, politeness, eye contact, trying to be near you and secretive smiles.
- Does she go out of her way for you- even when she thinks you don't notice? Stand up and adjust her posture for you? If yes to any of these, she might like you.
Does a guy like you when he invites you over to his place and cooks dinner for you?
I sure do think so! Boy, you're one lucky gal ... 'cause he can cook! Some of the best dinners I've had were cooked by men. My own husband is a good cook and since I am as well we trade-off. I cook during the week and he loves to cook on the weekend. I also find nothing more sensual (if you are in the mood) than preparing a meal together. Not so long ago foods were included re exciting your partner. To this day things like strawberries being shared by two people, grapes, etc., can be provocative and you've heard of whipping cream out of the old spray bottle. LOL Seriously, sounds like this guy has a lot more to him than you may see, so go for dinner and have a great time. He sounds like an interesting guy. Have fun! Marcy Aww how cute!I think he definite likes you or cares a lot about you. This guy's a keeper. Relationship material..
It's hard to say. Guys usually flirt with girls that they like, but notice how i say girls......if he lets more than one girl sit on his lap, then you know it's general flirting. And don't let guys touch your butt because if they know that you "enjoy" it, you immediately lost all the respect that he may have on you. A relationship without respect probably won't last too long.
approach him. don't be afraid. if he likes girls and you present yourself in a good way. he will start talking to you. don't bore him or overpursue. just introduce yourself. let him know you've been meaning to talk to him. just give him time he'll come around. Simple..Smile when you see them.
He needs to keep himself knowing he's a "man" whether he's happy with you or not. But he may not be happy, maybe he feels trapped. Many people in our generation has this issue.
What happens if the guy you like has a girlfriend?
you stay away from that guy, and maybe when their over you guys might have a chance.. but don't go out of your way to try to get with him that's just wrong.
this guy sounds very immature. why would you want to be with someone who is rude to only you and says he kind of likes you? yer, he probably does kinda like you. it means he kinda has no respect for you and will like you as long as you let him continue to abuse you for amusement. either demand respect or cease to be associated with this young fellow. There is absolutely no reason for any person treating you rude and making sarcastic remarks. This guy is really showing his true colors and he can't use the excuse he's shy or feeling awkward around you because shy people are usually quiet and say little. I suggest you ignore him and keep walking! Believe me, this is just the tip of the iceburg with this guy. Even if he starts dating you and isn't quite so bad, his personality has reared it's ugly head and he can be sarcastic and rude to your family and friends. That's a lot of pressure on a relationship. Keep walking by this guy! Marcy
After how many months of dating a guy should he kiss you?
I am surprised he hasn't kissed you yet. Perhaps he's shy. Perhaps you've been missing the signals. Next time you are out watch him. If he brings his face close to yours, then you kiss him! Nothing wrong with that. Some guys are just awkward and shy and have a fear of being rejected. Good luck Marcy I have been dating him for a month, and I have just recently noticed that he will stare at me and I have been saying, "What?". I think that might mean that he was thinking about it until I say that. Do you think he will keep trying to kiss me or have I missed my chance? Thanks for any help. He should have already kissed you he must be shy. Maybe you should kiss him. Usually kissing is in the first week of dating. So, if he hasn't kissed me in the first week of dating, does that mean that he doesn't feel that strong about me? We do hold hands (in private, not in public yet) and he tickles me and jokes around with me a lot. We also have great communication and talk a lot. I would not want to kiss him because if he wasn't ready and he rejected me, I would feel mortified! Is there anyway that I can show him without telling him that I wouldn't mind being kissed? Thanks for any help. Months!!??? If you are over 16 and have had at least 4 dates, then a kiss is appropriate if the feelings are mutual. It is a little odd, but if we sit still long enough to think kissing is actually difficult to master. Some people are terrified of the first kiss and many young woman make the comment of "he kisses great" which puts added stress on a guy. A guy has to figure out what type of kiss the girl would like (and all girls are different) and he could very easily make a mistake. The pressure is simply on! You kiss him! I had to kiss my husband (when we were going together) because he was so shy and felt very awkward. Nothing wrong with that!
2 things; either you are mistaken and he has no real interest in you or he is too shy to make the first move. Try talking to him and making the first move, if he still isn't willing to come halfway, then he is likely not interested.
How do you ask a girl out who you get nervous around?
When a person really likes someone it's very normal to feel nervous. Don't forget, usually the person you are asking can get nervous to. That's what makes it all so great about romance .... liking someone enough to ask them out, then getting butterflies in your stomach and wondering if you are going to say or do something foolish. Most of us all go through that. You'll get over it with practice. If the girl is the type of girl you hope to be with (decent manners, good personality, decent sense of humor) then she'll try her best to make things as easy as possible too. Consider it an adventure between two people. Take a deep breath, ask her to a movie. You could also double-date with another couple (a good buddy of yours and his girlfriend.) Going to the movies is easier because the movie theater is dark, you don't have to talk all the time, and once out of the movies you could go to a cafe and the 4 of you could have a good time there as well. First dates are like job interviews, they make you nervous, but sometimes they are worth it. Good luck Marcy
Why do beautiful girls usually get fewer dates than that of an average looking person?
Because BOYS Hate to date with them. They are test less to have. YOu no the proverbs:--- " ALL THE GILTERS IS NOT GOLD" So all beautiful girls are testless..... Because we men are to shy to ask you out. We do not want to get turned down. Guys are usually intimidated by beautiful girls, so less guys go up and talk to them. They assume the girls already have a date, boyfriend, etc... Less approachable. People are intimidated by their looks or often feel extremely attractive people are shallow, arrogant, snobbish. The regular person thinks the very attractive person wouldn't date them or gets hit on all the time.
Do successful business men only like successful women?
No, I defintely don't believe that. Men actually like feeling like they are the only ones the are "REAL" successful. They like knowing that they wear the pants in the relationship. Rather they like to admit it or not, they are like to be the sole "breadwinner".
How do you know if someone fancies you?
you know if some one loves you because they allways pay attention to you or sit near you. also the black dot in his eye will get ever so slightly bigger, and they will try and make you laugh.
a tip about boys: let him ask you out encase you ask him out, and he never fancied you. g luck! x
a tip about girls: you should ask the girl, if they say no just say "it was a dare anyway." g luck x
Maybe he will try and catch your eye.. Continuously smile at you and maybe give a cheeky grin!!
It appears you aren't cutting this poor guy some slack. Some men are just shy and they can only go as far as staring or a quirky smile and you should be picking up on this. Make it a little easier on him and smile back, and there is certainly nothing wrong with asking him to go for a drink with you or even to a local cafe for a coffee. Take it slow and easy and get to know each other. Marcy
If the girl is the type you should be meeting, anyone that says hi to her should be well received. Asking her out is another matter entirely. Girl or guy that asks the opposite sex out on a date runs the risk of being rejected, but if we don't take that chance then we will never know what could have been. Sometimes chemistry doesn't work out between the two and that's all it is. If you ask her out and she tells you to "buzz off", "hit the road" and you have been nice to her, then thank your lucky stars you didn't get stuck with her and find out too late what a rude and crude person she is. If a girl is asked out and she doesn't have any physical attraction to that guy, then she can still be nice about saying "no." Take that chance and ask her out. It would be best you asked her out when she was somewhere alone and not around friends. Usually people will act unlike themselves when they are around their peers, but alone, you'll usually find them more themselves. Good luck Marcy Every one likes when some one says hi even if they don't know them. Yep, say hi, its simple and friendly..
