Dating

ok, you can never really know. The fact that he said he loved you is sweet, but sometimes boys say that to get you into bed, the fact that he asked you to marry him, shows he is ready for a long commitment and really must feel somthung very strong for you. Id say stay with him and see how it go's, if you dont fell you are ready for marrage yet then have a tak with him and im sure he will understand,

If anything he respects your opinon because you are either his friend or simply a girl. Men listen to other women when it comes to their physical appearance because they want to attract the opposite sex.

If you are interested in him then show some interest in him. It appears in this modern world that a woman can ask a man out on a date, so why not? If you don't feel this way about him then shine bright ... you probably gave him some good advice.

Marcy

I need to say that... boys even if they don't talk to you doesn't mean they don't like you. It could mean they do. To be honest if a guy doesn't like you it's probably hard to tell because they don't get into drama. The best advice i could give you is ask a friend to ask him if he likes you.

My answer-

well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and he have a phone so i cant call him i have to wait until he calls me and he says hell call me this day and he which is very frustrating but it usually means hes to busy with his friends so when i see him he acts like nothings wrong so he probably feel like calling you like my boyfriend says but it mean he like you

well if your boyfriend call you its he's busy but sometimes its good in a relationship to be the first one to call cuz that way he doesnt have to worry about calling you everyday and well dont be upset if he doesnt call you cuz that doesnt mean he doesnt love you. My boyfriend plays baseball everyday so i dnt get many calls but i usually calll him first and if he doesnt asnwer i tell him to call me back when he gets the chance. so dont get mad at him if he doesnt have a chance to call you

Just because your boyfriend doesn't call you it doesn't mean he's not thinking of you. however it also does mean he's not head over heels for you. He has obviously re-ranked his priorities where you are no longer at the top. But also it's important to see how often he calls other people. Does he call people in general? Maybe hitting people up vie telecommunication just isn't part of his daily lifestyle. But definitely, if he's a caller and still does not want to dial you, most likely does not have as much spark for you and most definitely is taking you for granted!

it depends on the guy. for any decent man, yes, it means he likes you. especially if hand holding is repeated often with no expectations of "rewards" later.

If he is not willing to admit that is an obvious answer that he is guilty. Unless, you have continuously falsely accused. Of course if he is guilty he does not want to talk about it! Men will deny it until they die because they dont want to lose their options. You are an option for them, incase it does not work out with the other person they still can be with you. If they admit it they know that they have lost you permanently.

You know this girl best, so .....

Is she pretty or cute Has she got a nice figure Has she got a terrific personality Does she have a good sense of humor Is she fun to be with Is she loyal to you, family and friends Does she make friends easily Is she intelligent Is she affectionate

Choose from any of these and then say something from the heart. I can't tell you what to say, but here is an example:

"Since the first time I met you, I knew I loved you. I think you are so beautiful inside and out and I love being with you."

Of course you don't have say what I did, and when you say something to her mean it! Women like to know they are beautiful, needed, loved and more than anything intelligent. Women are more intelligent then men often give them credit for.

Only you can put this problem into perspective and here is some reasons why a man may appear tired: Working shift work Working more than one job Depressed Problems within his family Unsettled feelings in himself His age Needs a holiday badly I could go on and on, but I think you know what I mean. Just because a man doesn't spend 100% of his time with you doesn't mean he is growing bored with you. Don't make yourself so available. Start going out with friends and having fun, go back to college, volunteer, but don't hang around for his every whim. Communication is a big factor too, so why not sit down with him in a quiet place and actually ask this question of him. You are taking for granted that he is bored in the relationship, and probably there are just other things bothering him and this is where you come in. If you understand he could be having problems then try your best to help him resolve them. Some men allow a woman to help them and other don't. If it continues and he isn't willing to give you a good enough excuse then tell him it's best you go your separate ways.

Of course you have a chance with a girl taller than you. Since girls care more about personality than looks (it always helps to look good though), a humorous, lighthearted personality goes a long way. However, it is uncommon to see a couple with the man shorter. Generally, the taller of the two has the majority of control, which is the man's role in most cases. You won't be socially outcast or forced to live on the streets if you date taller women, I guarantee it. How else would the WNBA players get dates? height is not what makes a man tall his heart is. be yourself and just let it flow. ctr

Yes, I know girls who like guys shorter than them. not really Some do, Some Don't. I've dated a guy shorter than me, but he moved. My luck. Answer Yes. Especialy in middle school when they don't really have a choice. Most girls (or at least they should) like a guy because of who they are and then their looks (unless they're just really ugly). So being short shouldn't cause any problems with girls liking you. I am married to a man 5 centimeters shorter than me now - it does not make a difference in the bedroom :)

Well, there are a lot of ways but not all of them work for all girls. For example if you get her flowers and a card they may think its cute but what if she doesn't like flowers. If I was you I would find out what she likes. Ask her or her friends. Then try to put together something. Taking her to the movies and giving her favorite candy, or flowers, or even just a note telling her. Some girls like a guy to be out going and honest so tell her that you like her after you take her to a place she likes going to. I can't help you much if I don't know what kinds of things she likes so just find out what she likes and if she is into shy guys or out going. Good luck and hope things go well. Gaining her trust in you and always being there through the good/bad of things. Telling her once in awhile she's pretty, has a nice figure or how proud you are of her. Pick out her good points. Be proud to show her off to your family and friends and always speak highly of her. Don't be afraid of telling her your feelings and share your problems with her as well. Most women are very bright individuals and they do like to be recognized for that fact. You can buy her a nice locket (go into any place where young girls buy there jewelry and ask for help from one of the salesgirls) and it doesn't have to be super expensive either. Buy her flowers once in awhile. Thanks for being of the guys that cares enough to ask how to improve themselves with the gals.

Most young people are shy (even older people) and to ask someone out on a date is almost like torture because everyone is afraid of rejection. It's very normal to feel like this and also feel butterflies in your stomach or even feel sick to your stomach. You are not the only one who feels like this. You have to trick your mind. What you keep telling yourself is the truth ... "Most people are very nervous and shy asking out a girl, but don't forget ... she's usually nervous too! My 2nd husband was 22 years old. He was shy and couldn't bring himself to ask me out. I knew his best friend Tom, and Tom and my husband and myself would go out to a pub, or a local club and just have fun. Soon my 2nd husband began to relax and was able to ask me out. There is nothing wrong with that at all, and actually most girls prefer shy guys instead of the brassy, know-it-alls. Because you are shy doesn't mean you are weak. So, perhaps try getting your best buddy to help you a little (if he has a girlfriend) to go double-dating with you. Just walk up to that girl and ask her out. Have a plan like going to the movies and that you will be going with another couple. Good luck Marcy usually woman or girls likes a man who has confidence to go up to her and say whatever is on his mind but if you cant find the courage to go up to her it might not be meant to be but if it is she will come to you when the time is right. another option you could always ask a friend to go up to her and tell her how you feel.

To me some older men are simply preditors for younger women. Around the age of 40 and up men go through a type of menopause (use to be called "midlife crisis" and although there are men that don't cheat, some do because they feel they are getting older, missing out on something and want to attract a young woman to feel youthful again. You are a trophy to play secret games with in a crowded room while he admires you secretly knowing you are his and some men will do almost anything to keep it that way. Be careful! You are not a doll up on a dusty shelf that he can haul down, wipe off and play with at his leisure. You are a person with feelings and a future. Remember, there is a wife at home (perhaps with children) that may possibly not know what is going on. How would you like to be that woman? You are a prize possession to this man at the moment. He may honestly think he loves you, but he's in love with youth and the "thrill of the run" landing a young and probably pretty girl. There is absolutely little future running around with a married man. If there was, then he would have no problem getting a divorce as soon as possible. I bet if you ask him when he is going to get a divorce and perhaps marry you, you'll get: "You know I love you with all my heart, but I just can't leave my wife right now .. she's ill" or how about this one, "I'm trying to find the right time to tell her, please be patient" or here's the real clincher, "It's more complicated than you think. Trust me!" (said the spider to the fly!) He wants the comfort of sneaking around on his wife, playing around with a mistress, and deciding when he has had enough and perhaps either returning to his wife or moving on to another mistress. It happens more often than you think. This decision is up to you, but there are always consequences to pay. Perhaps one day he'd look at you and find you aren't attractive enough for him. A pretty face is nothing if you don't have a good soul, keen heart and loyalty. In life, it's what is inside each of us that counts and not the outter part of us. Don't be dazzled by the attentive nature of this man, and always be on your toes. If you were wise you'd pick on a single guy anytime.

Do the two of you already know each other (i.e., been introduced, work together, share a class, etc.)? I ask because if you've had previous encounters with her the chances are good that she already knows that you like her. Females learn very early in life how to read guys. If not, then you'll want to very casually, but sincerely (and BRIEFLY)introduce yourself, explain to her that something about her(your choice) compelled you to meet her. Then ask her if she has email (DON'T ask her if you can have it; there's a difference!) Females are usually more willing to give out her email address to strangers than their number. If she says yes, then give her a pen and paper (have these ready) As she's writing down the email, say to her (very off-handedly)"why don't you write your number down there as well?" (hey, she's already writing; she might as well, right?) Finally, tell her "Thank You", that it was really nice to meet her, that you will give her a call sometime (don't say when) and then LEAVE PROMPTLY. Don't try to make any more conversation at this point; there's plenty of time for that later. Now, you are going to have to work on your shyness. Some girls like that about a guy, but most see it as an indicator of low self-esteem, which isn't attractive to them. You say that you want to ask her out SOON. Unless there's some time-sensitive circumstances here, I'd say you sound a little too anxious. She will pick up on that quick and it will ruin your chances with her romantically; you'll become "just a friend" at best. Tell yourself: "I am comfortable in my own skin and confident in what I do best" "I

Not so long ago it was really up to the guy to phone the girl, but now it's ping-ponging back and forth. It's acceptable for the girl to even ask someone out on a date. Sometimes this is a good thing, because many men are very shy and often lose out on dates because they just can't bring themselves to ask the girl they care about, and men aren't particularly clued-in to the signs women may give off and often they misunderstand the signals. In your case this guy is taking you for granted. You are a woman so be strong, and don't take anything less than what you give back. Meaning: If you are good to him and respect him, expect the same treatment back! Keep on dating and going out with your girlfriends, and don't be one of these young women that hangs off one guy and let's him walk all over you. The less you make yourself available to some types of men the more they want you. Good luck Marcy

Do what you say you're going to do, be where you say you are going to be, and be home on time.....time and experience are necessary to develop trust, so don't be in a hurry

Well as a black man that has dated white women both domestically and internationally i think it's just human nature to find the opposite and same sex attractive. Regardless of color...and they are known to have huge dicks!

Say things like: beautiful, gorgeous, pretty. Try not to say hot or sexy as much, because it makes them feel like you love their body, not them.

Some words I would love to be called by a guy are amazing, gorgeous, perfect. Do remember though, how you say it is really more important than what you say- words are technical, but you want to convey real emotion, if you want her to really feel the love. Look at her eyes with such intent and praise. don't think about the technicalities if you can. How you make her feel is really what matters.

Girls like to hear guys call them beautiful instead of hot or cute. It's way more mature. We love it when you compliment us on everything. We also love it when you say things like 'I am the luckiest guy in the world to have you' ''You're awesome.' and things like that. Be creative but not too pushy

Anyway, find out what the girl likes, and use those. Don't overdo it though.

What you need to do is observe the good and bad of how he treats you then compare that with how you see him treat other women. You can tell right away. But for now try not to get too atached to him because that way he can easily break your heart. You can do this by rating other guys you see. It always helps me. The best thing to do is stay away from him for a while. If he keeps coming back with dumb excuses then you got'em hooked. Good Luck!!! well there are loadz of ways like eye contacts and the way he acts around you some guys dont lyk to make it to obvious that they lyk you if you suspect him likeing you then just give him time he will soon ask you out....or maybe you should ask him out guys can be afraid to make the first move

things that you can do to show a girl that you like her are many first of all to me it seems that eing honest is the first step i think that if you go up to a girl then she may see that you had the courage and you were brave enough to go up to her. little things would be like writing a note or asking for her number in order for her to have a clue that she has an admirer. Girls are very observant. Girls can tell when someone does something out of character... watch her. See what she likes to talk about and her hobbies. Ex: she likes watching Thursday night television. Watch one of the shows she likes and then the next day spark a convo with her. If you maintain this relationship she'll start to look at you as a potential... wgirls do that with EVERY one who enters their "personal" space after a while. Then UP the "game." After maybe a month or so ask which movie coming out would she like to see. Let her respond but DON'T ask her out just yet. Let the convo go, but then maybe the following week say something like, "Hey. That movie you wanted to see, have you seen it yet? No? Well I wanted to go and I can't get my friends to go see it. Wanna go together?" It stays mysterious and it doesn't make her feel like you're "asking her out." You know? (I know this is long) Next step... tell her about your OWN hobby or interest. Maybe you like cars, say, "You like watching the race games? No? Oh cuz they're coming up so I'm a bit excited." If she responds to keep this convo going up she probably likes you. If she says no and moves on or yes and moves on, she probably doesn't like you that way. But take time! I hope that helped!

You are second-guessing what this young woman is thinking. The best thing to do is ask her out and slowly get to know each other. Sometimes the people we think are our friends aren't. Your friend (he may not be) but he could have said things to discourage this relationship or told her a little too much about you. Stop telling your friend about this girl! Take a deep breath and go ask her out. If she's a good person and she is interested in you then she'll get to see you with her own eyes what type of person you are. Good luck Marcy

You should at least have one thing in common. It could be the type of movies or rock bands you like and enjoy going to the movies or concerts. You don't have to like sports (it's a guy thing for most.) You both should be doing things on the weekend, but each have 1 day for your friends out of that weekend. It's good for each of you to give the other some head space. He's attentive and treats you well He's polite He's proud to introduce you to his family and friends He keeps dates, remembers your birthday and give you a small gift (you may have to remind him it's your birthday. LOL) I think by now you are getting the idea. If he doesn't treat you with the respect you deserve, is self-centered, keeps breaking dates and never takes you anywhere then it's time to get back on the merry-go-round called the "dating game." Good luck Marcy