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Dating
We all get stuck and need advice about our relationships. The contributors in the Dating category work hard to give you that advice with the best intentions and sincerity.
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How do you tell if a woman likes you?
Well if a woman blushes(alot) around you there you go!If she tries to show off in front of you.If she talks about her ex in front of you.If she winks at you.If she talks about sex in front or to you.If she re applies her make-up when shes around you. Hpoe that helped since im a girl myself!
How can you tell if a guy likes you and is being shy or is just rude and doesn't like you?
If he appears awkward around you he's shy. If he sees you and goes red in the face he's shy and if he seems to appear at places you are at, but can't seem to bring himself to talk to you then he is shy. Rude is when a guy calls you names or jokes around with you in an inappropriate manner or, if they spread rumors about you or play jokes on you at your expense. Rude is ignoring you completely.
How can you find a real man who will love and respect a woman and respect and love himself?
Most women claim that they want someone who will be able to love and respect a woman, provide for a family and be dedicated to the home, but then so many of them decide that THAT man is too boring and they chase after the "dangerous" and exciting man. Those women end up getting what they demonstrate that they want instead of what they SAY they want. In order to attract love, you must first love and respect yourself, and everyone. Love is an energy force and will attract whatever you put out. Know yourself completely. Only then, will you attract a man who loves and respects himself. Concentrate on yourself, and take a good honest look at yourself and your attributes. Love yourself and others. Then, when you least expect it he will come...
How can you get your boyfriend to admit that he cheated?
If you know he's cheating....why do you need him to admit it ;kick his but out and get you someone who will do you right Buy some panties that r not your size plant them and ask him where they came from if he can answer he is lying.
What does it mean if a guy is mushy about you to his friends but never when in your presence?
It depends if you are in a relationship with him or not, if not then he clearly has a crush on you, and is to embarressed or shy to tell you to your face. If you are in a relationship with him then he clearly feels for you, as guys are not normally mushy in front of their friends. he may think you dont feel the same way, so wont do it in your presence. Go and talk to him.
How can you know if a guy changed his mind about having a relationship with you?
I felt in love with a guy from college, so I desided to tell him all the truth. After i told him, he said he felt the same way for me and he kissed me. A week later I invited him to my house so he could meet my parents and he said he didn't wanted to go. He told me he didn't wanted something serious with me, but that he still liked me. The only reason I envited him to my house was becasue he was the one that wanted to meet my parents. I think that guys are so hard to understand, but one thing i know is that when they start missing you, they'll come back. If you have a similar experience and you want to know if he feels something for you, the number one thing to do is to show him you can be happy and independent without him. When a guy feels like he isn't loved any more, he'll start wondernd "why?" Sooner or later he will realize what he's about to loose someone valuable. By the contrary, the more you show him you miss him, the more important he'll feel and will reject you even more. Believe me, in most cases it works, but if it doesnt... just try to understand that you weren't ment to be with him, and there are many other guys that can give you the love that you desire. GOOD LUCK and take CARE!!
How should you approach a girl you like?
First smile at her whenever you see her..next, start saying hi..keep eye contact... finally go up and talk to her..introduce yourself, if you already haven't met..ask her questions and be nice..
Hard question to answer briefly, but I'll try it. In a few words, with confidence. That doesn't mean with swagger, but without looking like someone's about to bite your head off. She's just a human being like yourself, although you may have already given her superhuman qualities in your head. Just be confident, try to stay relaxed and smile a bit. The last thing you want to do is come off like a babbling mental patient, who has no self esteem. If you're going to ask her out, then just ask, what's she gonna say "No"? And that's the worst that can happen, you'll get over it and wonder why you were so stressed out in the first place. And if she says "yes" you'll still be wondering what you were stressin' about. Be confident, smile, relax and say what you have to say, she's made of flesh and bone just like you and I, and after it's over and your heartbeat returns to normal, you'll be wondering what all the fuss was about. Hopefully it works for you, it has for me over the years. Good luck!
dude.....just do it....worst answer is no....she's just a girl....she will happy to talk unless your a lil puss who comes to her all nervous....they sense fear dude....trust me.....be relaxed and ask..its easy
just say hi occasionally and flash a smile when she`s looking at you.then,eventually,she`ll come around.believe me dude
What should you do if you like a girl but her friends hate you?
If she likes you that's all that matters. If she's swayed by the attitude of her friends then you should move on. No one deserves to be treated in this manner unless they are a bully, troublemaker, or have disregard for others.
How do you be kind and respectful to a guy?
It should come naturally, but sometimes, if younger it's harder to figure out. Being honest and loyal and listening to what he has to say is a good start. Be genuine with him and also give him a little head space and show your own independence (meaning: it's good to go out with your girlfriends and have fun and not always be with your boyfriend every minute of every day.) In turn, he should be doing the same thing for you. When you get to know each other a little better it's great to talk about your hopes and dreams and plans for the future. Good luck hon Marcy
How do you make someone fall in love with you?
Falling in Love is quite complicated. There are just so many contributing factors that we need to put intoconsideration. Particularly on the men's side.
Most of the ladies today are attracted to guys with fancy things and a lot of cash at their disposal. Some like a man because he is very good in doing something. Some seek for good looks. Some seek for fun loving people. Some seek for sexy eyes. Some are into the voice. The list is endless.
But at the end of the day. There has to be something about you that will make you appealing or amazing.
Find something that you can do. Do it Good. Do it Better. Do it Best.
Regularly Work out (physically). Look good. Find something to keep you occupied most of the time. Something positive and No woman likes a fat **s that sits at home all day doing nothing but watch football.
Try to be smart always. Clean teeth , fresh breath, nice shave, clean hair cuts and try to do away with those body odors.
Accumulate a few gadgets. Work for a nice house , then a nice car, buy some furniture and other things. Not that women are materialistic they need evidence that you will be able to support the family and take care of them
Life is never really that easy
You have to work for everything worth having
Lastly Develop a positive attitude
Alternative Methods:
You can also try: Voodoo, Love Potions / Spells, and Stalking - results seem to be varied on each of these, but most end with you in a mental institution or jail.
IE: You can't make someone fall in love with you, sorry but you just can't do it, accept that "Love" (by whatever definition you use) is not something that can be forced or coaxed.
If you're in the same class, and stuff, you can talk to him. Talk until you have nothing else to say.
Then just ask him. Or confessing, a better word.
If he talks into games, talk along with him and play with him.
I fell in love with someone too :D
Act cute; don't try to be completely different but if you don't feel like how you are acting you can always change a little
I have a ton of boyfriends, and all I had to do was hang out with them a lot at our spare time, and act cool. Flip your hair, (if you have long hair) and say ``Who cares?`when the teacher says a question. Make sure the teacher never heard it though.
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The following methods are based on the psychology of falling in love:
Meet his criteria: No matter how people say that they are not too choosy, inside their minds is a quick list of basic criteria. And before even considering dating a person, these criteria must be met. Meeting his criteria does not automatically make him/her love you. But not meeting it makes you lose the chance of him/her falling for you. Examples of basic criteria could be stuff like:
Must be a non-smoker
Must be in good shape
Must be non- religious/religious
Must have a sense of humor etc.
Find out his background and try to meet his/her mental checklist. Doing this will avoid the possibility of him mentally rejecting you as a potential bf/gf before he gets to know you.
Show that you're what he needs: People are unconsciously attracted to people who are similar or posses the quality they want to have themselves. For instance, an intellectual but shy guy will look for a partner who is also intellectual but more confident than he is. So, in this case is to play the role of a confident woman so you can attract this type of guy. By send the impression that you're what he needs, this becomes very effective.
Program his subconscious mind: Make sure you're always in sight so he gets to see you a lot. This is enough to let you enter his subconscious mind. Your next step would be to reinforce your subconscious mind programming with the help of your friends. Have them constantly talk about you to him/her. It is much better if you can have mutual friends do it for you. The more they talk to him about you and you awesome you are, the better your chances of staying in his subconscious mind.
Position yourself well: Try to be associated with the "confident", "independent", or "funny" type not the "inferior", "nerdy", or "clingy" type. Make sure that when people hear your name or think of you, what they have are positive thoughts of you. This way you are assured that he/she will be interested and want to be associated with you.
Yes it would be a good idea and while you're at it ask your girl friend to tell you a little about this girls likes and dislikes (if she knows.) It will give you more to talk about. Good luck (hope it works out!) Marcy
Communication is everything in a relationship whether you are just going together or are married. You should feel comfortable to talk to her. Suggest that you do more things together on the weekend. During the week it's a good thing for both of you to have some head space. She can go out with her girlfriends and you can go out with your buddies. Often men in general don't suggest places to go and expect the women to figure out the social functions for the weekend. Take her out to a favorite night club dancing and have a few drinks. Go with another couple if you want. Another time you could go out for dinner and take in a movie. Perhaps plan a nice mini vacation if you can't afford to go on a more expensive vacation. Get planning! Good luck Marcy
When a guy tells a girl she is beautiful what should the girl say back?
The eyes have it! Lower your eyes, look up at him sweetly and you don't need to say anything else!
What signals are being sent when you smile and say 'hi' to a girl walking by and she smiles back?
This could be anything... Either she's very friendly and polite and just returning your smile - OR - she digs you... which is a good oportunity to strike up conversation and see if you have a lot in common! Good luck! I would say it's sign of interest..strike a convo and see.
Since most of the youth have their cell phones glued to the side of their head like a huge abnormal growth, I would say he either chooses not to answer some calls, or he's into computer or dating girls. It's odd to me that a young man wouldn't be out with at least his friends and staying in contact with those friends by cell ... especially on the weekend. I don't know if you are asking because you like this guy, but if you do, move on because he's rude and crude and is using a flimsy excuse. You can do better! Good luck Marcy
Do girls like looks or personality more in a guy?
Girls can be very picky with this sort of subject. Us girls really do look for personality and style in a guy. As long as the boy is sweet and cares for her deeply, then he's the one. If you already have found that in your lover, you should start looking at how hygienic he is and his humor. Girls want a guy that uses deodorant daily and takes showers regularly. Girls want happy guys that keep them smiling and laughing. As long as they have a great sense of humor that your girl will get, you should be okay. :)
How do you know when you love or like someone?
Obviously it's easy to like someone and to feel a sexual attraction to them. Many people confuse their lust and infatuation (usually occurs during the first months of a relationship) with love. You idealize the person for awhile because you're not seeing their less than great qualities. In short, you haven't known them long enough to take full measure of the person they are in all aspects. It's all too easy to emotionally fixate on certain aspects of a person--their looks, their charm--and try to ignore their abuse, their cheating or irresponsibility. Love isn't the excitement or arousal, the rush you feel at the thought of someone. Love may occur many months or years after you've known them, when you accept who they are, great and a few poor qualities, and you place their welfare and happiness above your own needs. You treat them as you would want to be treated--no abuse, no manipulation. You respect them, trust them, and value them as your best friend and time apart or distance doesn't change the way you feel. Your loving them does not mean you demand them to love you in return or that either of your feelings many not alter in the future.
How do you tell a girl you have feelings for her?
you can either be fearless and tell her straight out you like her. ok that's one way but the best thing is to show her you care treat her like shes special and just be nice and gentle. treat her the same way you would when you njot with your friends and start conversations get her to warm up to you. Answer
Well I am about your age, and I've fallen in love. I mean really fallen in love and I don't know the reason but the person who I love is in highschool and a great person might I add and to my opinoin has good everything. Anyway, if you like a guy and I mean really like the guy then you should just take the first step and that is to talk to him because nothing will be done otherwise. If you're scared though then take baby steps such as telling him, "hi". Just becaue the person may not have feelings for you then (if that should happen) - that doesn't mean he or she wouldn't in the future because once the person realizes you've been there, and everything they want then you're going to come into their life like a bolt of lightning!
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Dr. Grimm: I sort of agree, but the easy way is to be yourself, don't try to be someone you're not. If you do and he finds out you're fake it is just going to make things harder on you and him. I think you need to wait for love to come to you, but if you are that ready for it go get it, don't flirt around or anything like that, but if you find someone you really like let them know, the first step is always the hardest, but once you climb it you will see how much someone really means to you.
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Tell one of her friends that you like her. It will get back to her real quick.
The best thing to do is just be open and honest with her. She will appreciate your honesty and may open up to you about her feelings.
What should you think when a guy says to be patient with him when beginning a relationship?
depending on the person it is tell them that you understand and that you can be patient with them. It means take it slow if you want a good relationship that will last. He obviously doesn't want a fast moving relationship and those types of guys are the ones you want to keep. Fast moving guys want one thing......sex.
"A guy will chase a girl until she catches him." Don't chase a guy. Let him come to you. It seems the guy who plays high school games is usually not worth your time so if he is waiting for you to make a move, then make him wait. If you are worth the chase, he will come to you. Besides, it makes a woman feel appreciated when she is wanted.
How do you know that your boyfriend is no longer interested in you?
Listen to the Cher Shoop Shoop song, "It's In His Kiss".
What does it mean if a guy looks at you for a long time and does he like you?
That means he thinks you're hot. For younger guys, this will mean he likes you. For older, more mature guys, that's just the first half.
AnswerMaybe. He's Probably interested in you.It probably means he likes you or because you hugged him first and you hold on more and you ddint want to let go.?
What are ways you can tell if a girl likes you?
If she seems to pop up at the same places you go too. If you catch her staring and looks away when you look at her. Her face may turn red or she may put her head down when she passes you. If she's trying to strike up a conversation with you or if she tries to get close to you such as brushing up against you or leaning over you to look at something. If you pass her by and she is with girlfriends you may hear a little giggling and mumbling and that often means she likes you. If in doubt, ask her out! Good luck
What does a girl mean when she says that she is scared of a guy and what can the guy do about it?
I take it that you mean "scared" as in "nervous," and not actually scared of physical harm. If a girl is nervous about being with you, give her lots of time to get used to the relationship and don't push her. Be yourself, be truthful about what you do and say. Give her little compliments on a regular basis without going overboard. Make sure she knows you are interested in what she does and feels. The world doesn't revolve around you. But also do not put her on too high a pedestal, she'll probably just think you are after something. Be friends and let the rest develop (if it does).
