Dating

No, but it doesn't mean he isn't either. A man is gay if he is attracted to men, has little to no sexual attraction to women, and if he identifies himself as a gay man. It has nothing to do with what clothes or colors you wear, or what somebody else says about your mannerisms. No, this doesn't mean anything about him. When people say that someone is "acting gay" this is usually based on stereotypes that are often inaccurate. Not all gay guys have a high pitched, preppy voice and they don't all act girly. In fact most of them are indistinguishable from strait people. The stereotype exists because of those few (incredibly annoying) gay people who just have to act girly and go around hitting on straight guys and little boys. The vast majority of gay people are nothing like this, and just because a guy acts girly doesn't mean he's gay...ever heard of metrosexuals? And as far as someone saying that he "acts" gay...rumors can be vicious. What a person wears today has little or nothing to do with their sexual identity. This may have come from the days when gays were largely disapproved of in society and would wear certain things to identify themselves to other gays. Today that practice is not practical. There is still a certain amount of mythology about gays though, such as 'they wear purple on Thursdays', 'they have a secret handshake', etc. Although they do say "Clothes make the Man", the fact that a guy wears black & gray certainly doesn't spell "gay" to me.....If we were talking BRIGHT pink or fushia shirts or pants...then, yes, he might be suspect. Sometimes men who dress well (i.e. their wives, girlfriends, mommies don't buy clothes for them) and have a sense of fashion get branded as gay by others...WHY?? I have NO idea. Not sure of the AGE of the guy in question here, BUT after Columbine and similar school tragedies, ANYONE wearing BLACK ALL of the time and in high school or grammar school would be suspect for criminal intentions! NOT sexual orientation type of issues!! No. He could just be an artist. Or a r-e-a-a-l-l-y bad dresser. == == == ==

Depending on people interests there are many things to keep conversation going. The obvious would be work. If the conversation starts turning into a whinefest, change the subject. Travel is also a good one. It takes people away from the daily grind. To get to know someone ask questions about their favorite: school teacher, cartoon, color, car, food, pet, place been, place to go, superhero, holiday, movie, restaurant, etc. The way you pose the question could make or break the moment. Always put in "whats your favorite or fondest" It narrows it down to a particular answer. Saying "did you or do you have a favorite" that leaves it wide open. Look for body language. Fidgeting, uncomfortable facial expressions, looking down or away, may be a signal that the person is uncomfortable with that subject and its time to move on. If you see the mood turning sour, talk about something you both can relate to and remember its not what you say its how you say it... good luck and have fun. Answer I think the question that makes you sound most interested in a person is asking them what is there dream, if they could do anything in the world no matter the obstacles what would they do. It makes you appear that you are interested in understanding their dreams and feelings. Just be sincerely interested. Don't ask the generic questions like what's your favorite food. Your more intelligent than that and it's a more intricate question that will lead to other ones. answer: from sarahbby DONT focus the conversation on yourself. though its extremely okay to bring up exiting & interesting things about yourself, of course. but try not to make things weird. if their wearing any logos, like say a skateboarding brand. i.e BAKER. ask them something like "Oh! so you like baker boards? interesting" and then smile. try to keep the conversation going, but dont get caught up being the only one talking. it will make the other person VERY uncomfortable. well, remember to smile! hoope this helps! -sarah

Some men like to play "hard to get". Some men are afriad to talk to someone they're attracted to. Some avoid in light of rejection. Just depends on who you are.

There's no way to know from what you've posted. Be careful, he might see your infatuation as a sign of weakness, and be planning to take advantage of you. Take it slow, see what he's like as a person before you get so involved that you let him hurt you. "Cool" isn't a recommendation for the way a person would treat you in a long term relationship.

He was cool with it, how nice of him. Girlfriend let me say this why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free. In other words, go to the movies with him and do other outside activities but do not move into intimacy. Every relationship has a starting point and this one has not begun yet. You have to feel it out and take it slow. If you go overboard with your crush on him and he doesnt respond the same way you will be the one crushed in the end. Try to see how long he talks to you if you dont get intimate with him. If he sticks around for more than a couple months he likes you, if after a two or three week period you see a bit less of him every day, then he was looking for one thing, and you need not share that with anyone who doesnt deserve it. Find a guy that will stick around for all of your attributes not just a good time. Stay smart and good luck.

Because he's lower than a snake's belly and his friends ARE NOT this girls friends either. Any guy/girl that was in that group and that has a conscience and a spine would have said it was not the right thing to do or turned around and walked away. If girls were involved in this group I would have approached the girl in question and told her to be careful with him because he wasn't on the up and up. Call me a rat or whatever, but I'd hate to see anyone (guy/girl) taken for a ride like this. It's not unheard of that some guys will do this and it's been happening for decades because I was brought up through the 50s and it was happening even then. Most of us just walked away and shunned the guy and we warned the girl.

Staring isn't necessarily a good thing. It is one thing to stare at, say, a painting in a museum or, say, a train wreck; it's quite another to stare at a person. Was he looking at you, or was he ogling you? Was he leering or smiling? It matters. Perhaps he was checking you out and deciding whether he wanted to make a move on you. Perhaps he wasn't staring but merely looking in your direction and trying to get a reaction from you. When a guy you are interested in looks at you, the simplest thing you can do to send him a positive message is to smile. Girls really underestimate the power and beauty of a smile. For many guys, it's a major turn-on.

Well... There are a couple of reasons that I can come up with. Either he is so comfortable in your relationship that he forgets about all the affectionate things that he used to do, you may just bring it up in a casual "non-accusing" way, and ask him why he doesn't hug or kiss your anymore, and that he doesn't tell you that he loves you. I know this is hard, but in the long run, it will be easier to ask now then to worry yourself sick about it anymore. On the other hand, he may be doing some dirty work. Just ask him about it. Try not to be accusing, just incase he is confused about the relationship. Everyone gets scared and changes their mentality about a relationship. Just ask him. Hope this helps.

== == * Yes it does appear that this boy likes you. If you are in elementary school then young boys will poke or tease you. In high school they flirt and continue to do so from then on. * Yes it does appear that this boy likes you. If you are in elementary school then young boys will poke or tease you. In high school they don't do what they do in the movies. If they aren't sure that you like them they may or may not flirt with you. If they don't, they might want you to initiate a conversation or give them a subtle or maybe obvious hint. Such as flirting (subtle) or giving them a note (obvious) and if you are shy and afraid of being made fun of for letting him know you like him, then wait. Be sure before you jump into anything. If you are more outgoing I suggest you give him a note. That's what I did and it worked

Because they're trying to get your attention, and aren't good at dealing with their feelings properly. if they ignore you then they probably are too shy to talk to you or be near you

== == * Some men simply are lazy in their thought patterns. Women (even when younger) were expected to do household chores years ago and look after children or siblings while the men worked the farm, ranch or went hunting. Well, those days are gone! I believe men and women are equal in feelings and men have simply been brought up to think it's weak to cry (like women do) or express their true feelings. It is true that the way women may think about a certain subject that is important in the relationship and how men think are two different things. Men are truly shocked and confused at women's reactions over certain matters while we get the idea good and clear. When something unpleasant happens to the woman (at work with a coworker or an argument with a friend and she goes on and on because she's mad) men don't react the same way. They may say a few short words or punch the guy, but then it's over and they move on. The reason women usually live longer is the fact they express themselves more while men are more apt to be in total control of their feelings and internally deal with them. I sometimes wonder if the Creator was in a jovial mood when he made the male and female sex!

ask her 2-3 days prior to the weekend. not a professional, just my opinion.

Well she will get even flirtieier and she will show you and in time a girl will tell you plus look at the sighns.

I have no idea why any woman would be interested in a cold guy when there are so many great guys out there. Most men do have feelings, but there is a low percentage of actual males (and females) with no morals and absolutely no love inside and they are a "waste of skin to society." Some men can be troubled from a bad up-bringing, others have been abused and then there are just the plain mean to the bone guys. They don't particularly like any type of woman and as long as she's sucker enough to play the game along with him then that's all he cares about. A warning! Beware! These guys can be dangerous and a woman could get into a lot of trouble.

He does not want to be around you that much and he goes out a lot to "get away."

he doesn't awnser your calls all the time usually have to call more than twice.

When he makes plans with you and then ditches them to get (away) with his friends

When i love you becomes ( me too). You will see the changes graudually they just keep getting worse till iether he wakes up or doesn't want to try for you anymore.

I just went through the same thing and I am baffled. I have no idea why. Both reasons are correct. People who are abusive or get caught in a lie are angry they weren't crafty enough to cover their tracks and it's because of their egotistical behavior. They actually see nothing wrong with it (it's their right, feel it is a God-given right to do so (but not their mate doing the same thing) and they have absolutely no care about how their hurt their mate. They basically want it all! They are also angry at the other person (especially his mate) for finding out and "how dare they spy on him!" Yup, this guy basically got caught with his knickers down (a pun intended!) LOL Sorry gals, but this guy is a waste of skin. You can't win with liars and cheaters. The ego-tripping and mind games will wear you down and it's not worth the energy you give it. Kick this guy to the curb!

Girls like being treated well by guys. They also like guys that don't wear too much cologne. They like their eyes and eyebrows. Massive abs and muscles aren't necessary but but a lean body is nice.

And if he winks at you and calls you beautiful and hot and only pays attention to you.

Sometimes it's hard to tell, but it boils down to one thing ... how your girlfriend or boyfriend handles it if someone is trying to steal them from you. If you are honest, loyal, then NO ONE can steal you away from your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife or husband! Some signs are the opposite sex flirting with your partner and your partner lapping it up and flirting back. If your partner doesn't keep dates, doesn't answer the phone and has one too many excuses as to why they haven't called or emailed you at least. Sometimes it's better to look and listen than talk, so if you are suspicious keep your eyes wide open and your ears. If you think your partner is pushing the line, then tell them so and let them know in no uncertain terms you aren't putting up with it. YOU are in control!

Well, you need to wait until its the right time for both of you. If you force yourself on her that could be a mistake. Depending on how long you've been dating or how old you are will make a big difference,too. Does she give you any indication she's ready for a kiss?

You could start talking to her by asking how her day went and then maybe start talking about things she likes to do Answerallways act nice and confident in your speech and ask her things and be nice to her. also, never gve up. she might just get to like you over time!!! if you thinks she has the slightest intest in you. tell her in a nice way that youare in love withher (or say ily - i love you)

Ask her about her interests and opinioms. Don't ask too many questions at one time, though, because that may make you seem like a stalker. Remember the stuff she told and maybe a week later, show her that you remember what she said by saying something about it. For example, if she said she likes to play soccer, you could ask her what position she plays.

Maybe that's exactly what he means. He may be hinting that you may be pressuring him, but he's just not ready to go as far as you want to go. I hope your relationship is a good one. I agree. He might be intimidated by you and wants to you slow down, but he DOES like you. Just pace yourself. It's really not very ambiguous. He's not ready to take the relationship to the next level, whatever that is. Perhaps he senses that you wish to get into an exclusive arrangement, whereas he may still wish to see other women. Perhaps he senses that you desire to see him more, but he is comfortable with the amount of time you spend together. Perhaps he thinks that what you are looking for in a relationship is not something he's ready to provide right now. Perhaps he doesn't want you to get too emotionally invested in him, or he in you, too soon.

She probably is too young so if you both love each other then you can wait another year. You didn't mention how old you are, but if you are under 18 years old I can see her parents concern. They want her to get a good education and experience life and fear she will get pregnant and that happens a lot these days. I don't think it's anything personal with you. If you are at least 16 then you may try going to speak with her parents and see if they will allow you both to go out on the occasional date to a movie or such. It's worth a shot. I think her parents would respect you more if you dressed up (looked at least neat) were respectful and expressed how you felt and that you will follow THEIR rules. You spend time with her at her house with her parents there, until she gains their confidence that a short date like a movie or desert is OK. Be prepared to get to know her parents with the intention of developing their trust in you and your decisions. If you can't be mature don't even begin the relation ship.

If you really care for someone even as a friend and not just because they love you they enjoy being around you. They'll phone you or sound happy when you phone them. You laugh a lot together. You share secrets together. You feel you can trust each other and perhaps discuss hopes and dreams you have for the future.