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Dating
We all get stuck and need advice about our relationships. The contributors in the Dating category work hard to give you that advice with the best intentions and sincerity.
22,748 Questions
How do you flirt with a girl you have just met?
The best policy is just to be yourself. A lot of people (the young people as well) don't care for game playing and prefer the opposite sex just be themselves. All people flirt to some degree, but it comes naturally when one is trying to impress the opposite sex so don't worry about it. There might be something in your eyes she finds sexy or attractive or it could be as simple as the fact she loves your smile or the way you laugh. A good sense of humor (a little goes a long way) also helps.
AnswerTry double entendres, girls like witty guys with a sense of humour. I agree with the above post, being yourself is important and game playing is a no-no. Subtle touching is also a a good way to warm up to each other, not touching in a sexual way, but a pat on the back that type of thing. If she offers you something, say "thanks beautiful" instead of just thanks. Good luck.KeVin Toronto
Perhaps, but it's also possible that your comments simply make her 'hair aware' or something like that. :)
At what age do guys typically start thinking about a relationship that could turn into marriage?
Many people have a hazy future plan that involves marriage/children, but people vary on their age when they make the decision to "settle down". Overall, it depends less on what age a person is and more on the relationship they are currently in. If you've been in a relationship for a couple of years, likely at some point the subject has come up. Unless someone has an overwhelming desire for marriage/parenthood and views it as goal to complete by a certain point in their life, most people will not make a decision about marriage until they're involved with someone who they feel meets their requirements in a marital partner.
Some people have no interest in marriage or children at all. If a person you're dating says they don't plan of getting married or being a father, don't believe you can change their mind or that they may change their own mind in the future.
AnswerThis depends on quite a few things. How mature are they. Are they willing to give 100% to someone else. Are they ready to take on the responsibilities of a committed relationship. Do theyunderstand what true love is. Can they communicate well. IF the guy is in his mid to late twenties and still parties like he's in high school he's not ready. If the guy is in his thirties and still thinks of women like objects, he's not ready. If the guy is in his forties and doesnt own any thing of value, he's not ready. If a man is in his fifties and hasn't had any lengthy relationship, he'll never be ready. If they still live with their parents, run really fast because they'll be mooches forever......IF you have been in a relationship for 2-3 years with a guy and it hasn't progressed somewhat and you have not seen any sort of commitment, stop wasting your time. You'll wait forever. The saying of why buy the cow when you already get the milk for free is basically true for immature umcommital people in general.....Why did John Cena and Maria break up?
Well it is hard to breakup when you never dated the person in the first place.
Some Ways Are:
Dating Sites
Asking Them Out
Friends Setting Them Up
Socialization Sites ( I.E. Facebook, MySpace, Etc. )
They may already know each other socially, and flirt until one or the other suggests going to a person's residence. Strangers may meet in bars/nightclubs and start conversations with other people in an attempt to ask out a person for a date or in hopes of "hooking up".
"Oh, that first date? That's just me when I'm star-struck. I'll do a little better next time... How about [...]?
It used to be called the "Wolf Whistle" and it was a way of some brassy men to let a woman know they think she's attractive. It's a compliment in a crude manner, but more often than not, women appreciate it.
I am 14 and do not like being whisled at by old creepy guys! Its just discusting! I hate it when guys whistle!
Is it unacceptable for a girl to make the first move and ask a guy out?
It depends on the guy and the girl. What kind of relationship are they trying to establish, if any? If the guy is old fashioned, he may not feel comfortable being asked out. On the other hand, he might be flattered that the girl asked. No The long and short of it is, that most guys are simply shy and feel awkward. Young women are more independent today and the guys can feel threatened. I don't blame them in many cases. I say yes! Not all women get up on the femanist plateau and some young women are old-fashioned, shy, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with this. You could nicely ask him out to a favorite hang-out or, go to a movie and something to eat after. Don't live on "what ifs" or "I should have." The way to ask a young man out is not with blunt confidence, but smile and pleasantly ask him out on a date. If he feels uncomfortable then by your body actions he won't feel cornered. No it is not wrong. Dating practices of today differ widely than yesteryear. Have fun with it.
What does it mean if a guy you are seeing says he likes you and that you are special to him?
He very well may like him but how special are you to him. To see if its not for sex then tell him that he's special to you too but things need to go slow. See how long he sticks around. If for two to three months and he doesnt expect anything, then maybe but if two days or weeks then he needs to be kicked to the curb and wasnt deserving of you in the first place. Remember girl out bodies are our temples and should be cherished and respected, always.
It may mean that his Mother and Father taught him that personal relationships were personal, between himself and only his girlfriend. Also, by simple observation, boys learn early the fate which befalls any guy who "kisses and tells." His relationship with his girlfriend is their business, and not yours, in spite of friendship. This may be the cause of his unease in discussing her with you. j3h.
How do you respond when your crush asks you out?
Decide whether you want to go out with them or not. If you like them, say yes, if not say no. It just means you become boyfriend and girlfriend I am dealing with the same thing he hasn't asked me out but I know he is and I don't know what to do, well i guess just say yes if you like him and if it will be to wierd on the date then ask him if he wants to double date with one of your friends
Sounds like he wants a baby.
How can you tell if a man loves you?
Ask him if he does. If he says yes, ask him why. In your own way, make it clear to him that you require a serious answer. Love (not lust) is about caring more about your partner's needs over your own. A classic red flag is when a man appears to be IN LOVE very soon into the relationship. Lasting love takes time to build. Many insecure, potentially jealous, and neurotic men move very quickly to sweep a woman off her feet in an effort to possess her. This may seem flattering at first, but it is a recipe for disaster. When a man is in love (and I mean a MAN over the age of 25), he doesn't give excuses as to why he's not ready for marriage, not ready for a committment, and does not stay in a relationship more than 18 months. Men will linger in a bad, going-nowhere relationship if the woman willingly gives him sex. A wise woman knows to move on if marriage is her ultimate objective. If he truly loves her, her won't let her go and will be ready to make the committment. They still think you are beautiful no matter what crazy thing you did to you hair.
What can you say about a woman who makes a man fall in love with her?
A man falls in love with a woman because of the way he feels when he is with her. The same is true for a woman. She falls in love with a man because of the way she feels about herself when she is with him.... Answer You cannot say anything about her, except that she had achieved her goal. Hopefully she is in love with the man herself, and not just after something; say his money, home or good name.
If she is therefore honest in her intentions then she has achieved her desire. It is not hard to fall in love with a woman, for they are such wonderful creatures. Men are putty in their hands, and the worst part about it is they cannot do a darn thing about it.
Another Answer
Intention is impossible to know for certain without looking in someone's brain. Assuming there is a foundation of trust, love can and does just happen. It sounds like possessive love if this is the case. Generally wisdom is that people who need love are insecure, but love is really a choice to explore fondness and caring, the physical is not a big deal and less important in the long-run. It's hard to know. Another Answer Love is not a respecter of gender. Rather it has to do with feeliongs and intention. Love is built on 5 basic foundations namely: 1, Trust. 2, Truth. 3, Confidence. 4, Honesty. 5, Loyality. so if a woman possesses all of these there is nothing bad with her falling in love with a man.
It is possible that there is a feeling of insecurity in the fellow, and for him to get obviously jealous at the thought of you talking to someone, may lead to being over possessive if a relationship does develope. I suggest caution the best policy here. actually talking to another MAN would probably be better to say than talking to other people.
What is a good way to make a strong emotional connection with the guy who really likes you?
I'd say that if the guy" really likes you", then there is already a strong emotional connection. You must be doing something right if he already likes you, so have the courage to do more of what it is that you are doing. Do not offer him sex as a way to deepen a connection to him as this will ultimately backfire on you. Be true to yourself!
How can you tell if your crush likes you?
If they never let a text sit on read for longer than 20 minutes, They Send You Texts With Cute Emojis, They Always Get Right Back To You, They Make Light Physical Contact With You, They Seek You Out At The Party, They Open Up About Their Personal Life, They Send You Good Memes (a good meme is hard to find!), or They Tell You When Something Reminds Them Of You.
You lean in until your lips meet and then you kiss them and enjoy it. This is just the beginning and if you want to get some good lip action i would say do this and then if he/she lets you slip your tongue into their mouth and if they don't move and reply back with their tongue then this is good because he/she likes it. But if they rip away and look at you weird then they don't like it.
Answer:That's not what I did on my first kiss. I waited until there was a silence then I went like a half a centimeter to his face and he came the rest of the way. You want to let the boy/girl know that you want to kiss him/her and if he doesnt want to kiss you than just make up something like ''your eyes are so beautiful/handsome I havent stopped looking at them all night'' or ''i cant stop looking at you, your just so beautiful/handsome/cute and if I stop you might disappear in this beautiful night/day and I'll never get to look at you again.Just wait until a time that you and him are alone. Then, start talking about romantic stuff. Then, tlit your head and wait until they do to, and get ready to pucker up!
Answer:If it's a peck on the cheek:- pout your lips 60% - 100% of the way
- keep the time of contact minimal
- closing eyes isn't REALLY necessary
If it's a peck on the lips (If it's just a peck, it normally means your short on time):
- pout your lips 60% - 80%
- contact time should be a ~0.5 s
- close your eyes (As aforementioned, if time is of essense, a blink suffices sometimes).
How do you attract the same sex?
There are many ways, and they are the same ways you would attract the opposite sex:
- Find out where the local clubs are for gays and go there and you'll eventually meet someone.
- create an online ad
- join a club
- go to a community center
- volunteer
- be yourself
How do you find out if a guy likes you?
1) He looks at you alot
2) He defends you sometimes
3) He tries to talk to you (well this one, it doesn't have to be)
4) He jokes around with you
5) (for some guys) he tries to make you jealous
6) He tries to get close to you
7) He's not really casual with you (because he likes you!!!! get it?!)
8) He get's jealous when you're with another guy
So yeah, these are some signs to know if a guy likes you!!!!! You go girl!!!!!! lol!!!!
Why are men so attracted to a woman's butt?
A womans butt comes in all shapes and sizes, all interesting and sexual arousing knowing shapely legs are connected to it, its the image and fantasies that are encased with looking at the butt that is so appealing.
What does it mean when a guy says he wants to go steady with you?
Going steady is the guys way of saying he doesnt want anything to go to fast. Dont speed anything up, relationships are amazing things, so just go slow. everything depends on what you have dont so far, but dont do much more until he is ready to move on. .f. It means you are boyfriend and girlfriend and neither of you should be dating anyone else.
There are some guys that do and some dont. This is a total personal preference.
Is fourteen too young to date?
I personally think that 14 years old is too young. The reason being because at 14 kids just aren't mature enough. Sorry to burst your bubble if you had one but relationships at that age don't last very long. 99.9% of the time those people don't end up sharing the rest of their life together or living happily ever after. When I was 14 I had the hugest crush on this guy who wanted to go out with me. I knew it wasn't going to last because those things just don't at that age. So i told him "no" and that I just wanted to have a hell of a lot of friends instead. I was so disappointed when practically 2 weeks lately he started chasing some other girl. I was like "darn, I should have gone out with him when I had the chance." in the long run though, I was really happy, looking back I know that I would have just caused myself even more pain. And what's the point when you are 14, still young and there are so many other things you can do. All those silly emotional moments and years of emotional turmoil are soon to come anyways, it's just a better idea to wait until you and the other people around you are more mature. have lots of friends and hang out with them, guys and girls. there is no use in getting wrapped up in "dating" when it's not even worth it. It's not gonna last. Just think, if you think that you and this person you like would NOT be able to still be friends after you break up and stop having those "more than friend" feelings towards each other than the chances of having a worth while relationship are low. you need to be really really close friends. trust me, even with really close guy friends of mine, i found that they were not mature enough to handle being friends after "going out". What's the point then? All that does is ruin a perfectly wonderful friendship. Sometimes people, and especially at 14, find that all their friends have boyfriends and girlfriends, walk around the school holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling. When you're not in a relationship it can make you feel pretty left out, and then everyone starts thinking that you should hook up with that friend of your friend's boyfriend or something like that. Don't let it get to you! Again, if you are a strong person you would stay away from immature behavior. Besides, once you get to high school or the senior years, you will be lucky if you have any friends from your 13-14 years left that you are still close with. I only have one that I am still great friends with and all the others came into my life and left just as swiftly. Enjoy being a kid, because after all you still are one. I remember being 14 and thinking that being you know, 17-18 was so far away. MAN! it flew by and now that I'm here it makes me feel, "wow, you know, I thought the emotional problems were big then, just look at them now!" Your time will come, and trust me: it comes a lot faster than you'd think it does. UPDATE It depends on you really. There is no right or wrong answer to this question.
When do most people get their first kiss?
It depends on the individual. I was brought up in the 40s and 50s and my first kiss was at 14. Before that I looked at boys, but was shy and terrified all at the same time. You brought back fond memories for me because when young my girlfriends and I would practice kissing the mirror and our hands. After all, we wanted to be sophisticated enough for that first kiss. LOL
Answerwhen i got mine i was ten at the carindale pcyc worse it was tongue!!!!!!!!!!!! i hated it completley and never aloud to go there again until i was 13LOL
I move from city to city because my dad is in the army. I move from Detroit to LA to even Reno,NA. i had my first kiss at age 8 and it was a smacker!!
