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Dating
We all get stuck and need advice about our relationships. The contributors in the Dating category work hard to give you that advice with the best intentions and sincerity.
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How do ugly girls find a hot guy to go on a date with and hopefully get him to your boyfriend?
if i were u or if i was a guy i would go by personality it really doesnt matter about the looks because today a boy asked me out i was lke so surprised but that's all that matters personality not looks the way u dress ect, but go by my advice the best
AnswerGetting a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to be gorgeous. If the "hot" guys don't take the time to get to know you, and get past your face, he probably is really shallow. Shallow guys are not the best guys to pursue when you are an ugo.How do you know if your boss likes you?
It doesn't matter if he/she likes you. He/she is your boss and you are working for them. There is a fine line in that type of relationship and if crossed it can verge on sexual harassment. Just do your job.
What do you talk about with your boyfriend?
i would probably talk about funny shows or talk about our relationship or mabe even kiss a lil but dont over do it with the talking let him talk about his self then u talk about yourself.
How do you get someone to like you back?
You can't force someone to like you back. Every one has their own personal prefrences and choices. However, there are some steps you can try. Firstly, get to know this person. Without knowing someone well you cannot easily determine if you like them or not. Secondly, talk to them about how you feel. Chances are they like you back but are unaware of how you feel. Hope this helps
If you like someone try getting to know them so you're sure you like them personally not just physically then if they like you they will try to form a relationship with you.
What does it mean when your boyfriend says he needs some time?
he wants to think if your the right one for him to be with and to think about the relastionship
Most independent women wouldn't allow a guy to flirt with other girls. If he's steady dating you then he's no longer a free male to flirt or date others (this applies to young women as well.) Tell him to knock it off and if he doesn't then ditch him! he's not interested in you, ALONE. some guys can't live with just one girl. i tell you, BOYS ARE ALL THE SAME. better date someone who had lots of ex-girlfriend, believe me! its hard to explain.. but my aunt told me once. (he's husband had a lot of ex-girlfriend before in their teenage years and now he's very loyal to her) so STOP wasting time on that guy! he'll do no good to you. :)
Whats the sweetest thing you could say to a girl?
the sweetest thing? tell her you think she is pretty.not hot or sexy. or beautiful just might work. but no boy/ guy uses pretty anymore and it is a very nice/sweet thing to say to a girl! but if your mean, or an ass, then [nothing. they hate you and nothing you can say will change that. go live alone.] is usually true.
Whats the sweetest thing you could sayto a girl? depends. how do you truly feel about this girl? the sweetest things always come from the heart. if shes special to you, just say what you think. don't get embarassed, its cute sometimes but after a while it gets annoying. don't get nervous. the look on her face and the rewards for it are farbetter than you can think.
The sweetest things you can say are things that only you can say to her that will make her feel special and important. If you say, "you are pretty" is sweet but if there is an inside joke between the two of you about southern accents and you say, "I just wanted to tell you that, gosh, you're so purdy." She will melt. Because it was you and only you that could have told her she is pretty in that way.
How do you tell if a girl is interested?
well,you can tell if a girl is interested by paying attention to how she acts around you, and how she acts when you're not there.
if a girl likes you then she'll be a bit nervous around you.play with her hair and pay attention to her looks.she'll smile if you look at her and then look away,still having the smile on her face and if you keep looking,she'll peek at you and then laugh!
and if she's funny,she'll try to be even more funny when you're there!
frankly,you can tell if a girl is interested by simply looking at her!
NEVER EVER TELL HER YOU LOVE HER UNTIL YOU KNOW FOR SURE!!! just ask her if she likes Hinder and tell her that you dont have anyone to go with, if she says yes dont jump for joy, just say something like "ok cool" and then smile enjoy the concert with her and ask her if she wants to do something again sometime and make sure you introduce her to your friends never start talking to her and then blow her off because your talking to your friend. good luck marisa
How did Pirates treat their women?
It depends. Most pirates must have treated them badly, though, for this was common for the time they lived in. The Frisian pirate and freedom fighter Pier Gerlofs Donia, however, formed an exaption to this. He treated his wife amd children good and loved them with all his heart, until his entire family was killed and his wife got raped and killed afterwards by mercenaries; he then broke out in a furious rage and became a pirate. He became one of the cruelest pirates the world have ever had to face... The fact that he was well over 7ft tall made him all the more impressive (especially for the time).
Guys usually love it when girls play with their hand, kiss them or hug them out of no where. If yall arent going out. You need to show them how cool you are. But don't go to much over the top.. That usually makes guys ill. And yeah. Worked for me. 9 months and 24 days :) Whoo hoo!
It deepends on the women but the three major things i think every women cares about is
1. Honesty
2. funness (how much fun they could have with you like hangin out and stuff like that)
3.Always there when you need them Like i said earlier though you'd have to get more then one opinion because some women like different things then others
Yes some men do like tall women and some even marry them (my best friend's sister-in-law is much taller than his brother, who is the husband). However, statistics show that shorter woman have a slightly better chance of a relationship.
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Statistically women are shorter than men. Naturally that means a tendency for couples to reflect this reality. Men, on the whole, have less of an issue with dating a taller woman, although taller women feel more attracted to taller men. Broad shoulders are equally as masculine as height. So is genuine confidence and attitude.
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My husband is 6cm shorter than me.
Many short men have a complex about their height. Their subsequent need to compensate for this perceived 'floor' is what, ironically, ends up highlighting their insecurities. And this inevitably ends up repelling some women away and confirming their inadequacy.
My man is my man because he doesn't doubt that he is!
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Yes. Of course they do. The only issue that may arise physically regarding men and looking at women is weight. Some men won't date an overweight woman, while most women never date short (or shorter) men. A bit of a double standard, but it is what it is.
How do you get your boyfriend to believe you love him?
why would you want to be with someone who doubts what you say and YOU have to prove to him anything- does he say he loves you but doubts your love for him? or you just want to show him that you are the right one for him forever? is that really what love is to you? when its right - there is no doubt for either one and no need to prove anything. if there are accusations or doubt now- it can only get worse- what will you have to prove next?
well i am a girl so... the next time you are in gym class (and do this BEFORE you start sweating), just ask her something..anything but don't get too nervous and studder, ask her what the math homework was or something. my best experience... in my school we get taught how to square dance. he is also in my earth science class. so i asked him before gym if he wanted to be my square dancing partner he said sure. when you talk to her look into her pretty eyes NOT ANY OF HER BODY PARTS!!!!. unless she is a slut, than she wont like that your "checking her out" if you have known her for a while and you know what she likes and you like the same thing, talk to her about it. once you start talking to her it will get easier. but become good friends first. my youth paster said that he never went out on a date with his wife before they were married. they were both involved boyfriends and girlfriends, but they became really good friends and boyfriends came and went and he was till there for her. if you do become friends with her and she does get a boyfriend, don't just give it all up stay her friend, most likely they will break up and one day she will realize that you have been there for her all along and she will begin to like you. if any dances come up ask her to them and if you talk to her and become friends it wont seem so awkward. and if she doesnt work out then don't worry
you will find your dream girl
last suggestion look up Dream girl by Dave mathew's band i love that song and i think you will relate to it!
Say to her hello there i have noticed you coming here a lot are you by any chance a p e teacher or fitness instructor as you look very fit she might say yes or no then take it from there then you could say would you join me in doing a circuit of the gym together if she says yes then do that and ask her questions about herself girls like talking about themselves if all that works then after the session ask her would you like to join me in a healthy drink of orange juice in the cafe and a chat then take it from there you have to become her friend first before anything else and remember be yourself no putting on airs and graces and don't tell lies about yourself You could download the song Platonic by Iggy Pop it has some negative lyrics but this just increases your determination and helps build your resolve and confidence anyway good luck mate just DO IT or she will never be your dream girlfriend
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How can you tell if a man really loves you?
1: The man will (depending on age) show different tell tale signs-for example, if they are younger they might try to touch you as often as they can. Whereas the older men may stare dreamily every now and then-they will almost always try to catch your eye!
2: It sounds stupid-but just ask him! At first he may be too embarrassed to tell you truthfully-especially when you have company! But just keep asking-men love persistency!
well it could be coz he really wants some time to himself, he'll miss you and realize how much he likes you. :)Or maybe he wants to re-evaluvate the relationship, just coz both of you say you don't want to be with anyone else doesn't mean both of you are telling the truth. So don't rush in and start pressing for answers but move in slowly, give him time and let him know that you are there for him but not hovering over him 24/7. Let the situation play out and act accordingly, just don't rush in.
AnswerSounds like he wants to keep you dangling around for his own use. If after only 9 months he feels tied down and married of which you don't live together and arent even engaged, then he is immature and I wouldn't rely on a committed relationship with this person any time soon. I have been married for 20 years and I still don't feel tied down only because I always remained true to myself. Yes, I have had to make sacrifices but that comes along with maturity and selflessness. I cant imagine my life any other way. Yes, I dream and fantasize but that is healthy and I don't begrudge one decision I have made. I think you seriously need to look for someone else that will understand that dating during a 9 month period is getting to know one another, courting and seeing if you can have a future together. This guy has already put the kabosh on a good relationship, because he thinks your relationship is a problem. Run girl, run fast, don't waste one more day on this one. Mark my words, if you stick it out with this one, you will regret it. He will cheat on you and blame you for it. RUN RUN RUN>>>There are many real MEN out there that will be willing to treat you with the respect and class that you deserve...How do you get a guy to hold your hand?
if u really like the guy and u are sure he likes u, then say something like ''my hands are so cold'' (hint hint) and if that doesnt work, compare ur hand sizes then just interlock your fingers:) but if all else fails, maybe hes not ready..just give it sometime:)
What do you say when a girl asks how you got her number?
Well tell the truth, if you stalked her in extremes to get it, just tell her that you needed something from her and you asked one of her friends for it. lol
What time is too late to call someone?
Does the person have children? Do you know if the person works the following day? If they have young children do not call after nine. If they have older children it is ok to call before ten. If they do not have children at all, and do not have a morning job the next day go for it. If it is that pressing that you can not wait, just call. There are alot of night owls out there.
well the main reason this happens is the guy may be afraid to talk to you directly if you don't have much of a relation ship going and alot of guys get nervous talking to a girl they care for and are afraid the wrong words may come out of their mouth and ruin any chance of a relationship with you.
Can you make a relationship work if you are not attractive to his looks?
i believe that if you are not attracted to him now imagine later when he grows old, would you feel attracted then?
Why do girls always seem to go after cheating guys?
Not all girls are dumb and not all go after the rotten type of guys. SOME younger girls may feel the moody and arrogant type of guy (lone wolf type) is one to be tamed and she thinks she's the one that can do it. It's all rather dense in a way because the mystery of that certain guy is what attracted her in the first place so why change him? I agree, it's stupid, but youth can do stupid things. Eventually these girls get the picture and pick nicer guys with more going for them.
well i agree with the girls wanting to tame a guy but i don't nessicarly believe a girl is stupid for trying to tame him.yes its a stupid idea but with the best intentions the girl wants to make him happy and help him but shes jus gonna get sunk with his ship shell get hurt they always do and in the end the guy wont stop cheating no matter what he has to change and no girl is gonna change him end of story
What age should a thirty two year old male be dating?
== == * 25 up depending on their maturity level.
* The rule of thumb is your age divided in half, plus seven. So as a 32 year-old, you could go as young as 23 (as far as older, that is up to you and them). But in the end it depends on the person and their maturity. The half+7 rule is only if you want to be socially aceptible. If you are going to date do it all the way! Get them as young and as hot as you can (21 min) The 1/2+7 rule: would mean that every 2 years a man can move up one model year. If you are 30. 1/2 is 15+7=22. In two years you will be 32. 1/2 is 16+7=23. Your girl is now 24! One year to old for you! Time to move up one!
